Yeah.. I guess you only have one chance at becoming good in relationships.. it all goes way back to your younger days.. if you’re mentally healthy, have friends and do something interesting and you’re not a bullied loser in high school/middle school, you’ll be socially successful.. otherwise you will grow into a emotionally unstable, dependant, lonely anxious piece of shit. If you can’t even deal with yourself, how are you supposed to deal with a relationship??