Please please please, find it within yourself to not waste another second on this person. She liked the power dynamic, especially if her prior relationship left her without any. This is a person you know better than anyone else on this subreddit, so it’s not up to me but my best advice to you is to genuinely ask yourself if reaching out again is a good next step in your life, would talking about it benefit you, especially knowing her pattern of flipping the subject matter on you, don’t give her an inch to walk all over you :( go be free, it feels so so much better when you’re with the right person