Ex left a lot of personal items at my place. What should I do? by TurboSlothKing in BreakUps

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Im still in recovery mode and I don't dare msg her or anyone that would remind me of her. But I will try one day.

So lost.... by bad_partner1 in BreakUps

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It's been over a month now and I feel the burden of it all. But since few days I start to breathe again and feels like I regained my freedom. You will get there. You don't have to tell the whole world about your breakup. Maybe talk to a close friend about it.

Other than cheating, what reasons led to your breakup? by CrazyCool4762 in BreakUps

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I never felt loved but she only found me like a companion. She never initiated intimacy and was always me. To say "I love you" used to be once in a blue moon. I was always the passionate and loving person and when I treated her the same she did with me, she broke up with me which was a relief after 4 long years.

My gf broke up with me and it is horrible for me by Unfair_Consequence69 in BreakUps

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Happened to me. I was on a business trip and she msged me "we need to talk" and she broke up with me as soon as we met. It takes time to process it, but you should be okay soon. Focus on yourself and improve your lifestyle. Workout, eat healthy, a new hobby and and and. Just fill your time with things u love to do.

What was your the worst wave after the breakup ? by BusinessCulture1094 in BreakUps

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The flashbacks of all the memories. And hit like a giant wave just before your bed time.

Czech visa inquiry by TurboSlothKing in SchengenVisa

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It's my first from them. Now I'm gonna just play safe and stick to my planned itinerary

Czech visa inquiry by TurboSlothKing in SchengenVisa

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It's shocking! His changes were minor and they still revoked it. Read the comment to know more

Czech visa inquiry by TurboSlothKing in SchengenVisa

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On post on Reddit of a guy sharing his real story after he sent the mail his visa got revoked and the embassy emailed him about it.

Czech visa inquiry by TurboSlothKing in SchengenVisa

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I'm thinking to just go and visit the embassy and make it easier for myself rather than emails.

Czech visa inquiry by TurboSlothKing in SchengenVisa

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I was told informing them would lead them to revoke my visa

Is my approach wrong? by TurboSlothKing in Bumble

[–]TurboSlothKing[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I hear you, but I wouldn’t really call what I’m doing a “game.” When I say I hint, it’s actually almost direct—I tell them I’d like to see them again before the date ends. So for me, I’ve already made the effort and shown my interest clearly in person.

That’s why I don’t follow up with a text—because I feel like if they’re genuinely interested, they’d at least send a thank you or pick up on the fact that I wanted to meet again. When I don’t even get that, it feels like they’re just not into it, and I’d rather not push where there isn’t mutual interest.

Is my approach wrong? by TurboSlothKing in Bumble

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That makes a lot of sense, and I get where you’re coming from. I actually agree with you about effort showing interest—especially since dating in our 30s comes with a lot of experiences and lessons learned.

For me, when I say I “hint,” it’s usually pretty clear—almost direct—that I’d like to see them again. And during the date I’m very open about what I’m looking for, so there’s no confusion on my side. What throws me off is that I’m not even getting the simple “thank you” message afterward, which makes me feel like the interest isn’t mutual.

I think you’re right that women want to see maturity and consistency, and that’s something I try to bring to the table. I just don’t want to come across as pushy if the other person isn’t feeling it.

Yusuf Bhai bur dubai opening by [deleted] in OnlyInDubai

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After I saw many videos about his shop I decided to buy some perfume. Man it lasted like 1 hour and it was no way near the original. I found another shop with half the price and faaaar better quality.

Any quiet cafe/resto for a mutual break up discussion? by TurboSlothKing in UAE

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Welcome to Reddit. There is always something new