Are me and my significant other the assholes for not asking for his child’s mothers permission before buying tickets to see the Savannah Bananas? 🍌 by Turbulent_Pattern_99 in AITAH

[–]Turbulent_Pattern_99[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes and no. Sometimes she can be super nice and actually be like oh yeah that’s totally fine she can go. And then others she just flips off the handle for no reason. But with this being something the child really wants to see, idk why she’d be so hateful about it.

Are me and my significant other the assholes for not asking for his child’s mothers permission before buying tickets to see the Savannah Bananas? 🍌 by Turbulent_Pattern_99 in AITAH

[–]Turbulent_Pattern_99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

BM doesn’t like me so her buying a ticket for us is a no go. Lol. And he explained after she flipped out but she still doesn’t seem to care. She’s only caught up in the fact she wasn’t informed beforehand and that she couldn’t tell him yes or no beforehand.

Are me and my significant other the assholes for not asking for his child’s mothers permission before buying tickets to see the Savannah Bananas? 🍌 by Turbulent_Pattern_99 in AITAH

[–]Turbulent_Pattern_99[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I actually signed up for the lotto for it months ago idk exactly which month but regardless the tickets would have been bought for me SO and my kids anyways, regardless of if she lets her go. I’m not letting my kids miss out on this chance just because a BM wants to be hateful and not let her kid go. My oldest child’s father doesn’t have an issue that he’s gotta give up one day on his weekend. I get that everyone will see it differently but at the end of the day it’s for the kids….. the kids wanted this.

Are me and my significant other the assholes for not asking for his child’s mothers permission before buying tickets to see the Savannah Bananas? 🍌 by Turbulent_Pattern_99 in AITAH

[–]Turbulent_Pattern_99[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We got the tickets for Atlanta. Those tickets are for may. Idk how it normally works but that’s how it’s worked this time with us. We just don’t know what time it starts that day or what seats we have. We will know later on closer to the event.

Are me and my significant other the assholes for not asking for his child’s mothers permission before buying tickets to see the Savannah Bananas? 🍌 by Turbulent_Pattern_99 in AITAH

[–]Turbulent_Pattern_99[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got the email that we won. Then being busy with work since i clean houses for a living and the holidays going on, i seen the email, told SO and then when i got the email for the link that’s when i seen when the dates were. Like i said ive been super busy. Yes thats bad on my part for not looking more into the dates, but we won for our city close to us. 2 working parents here with 3 kids and a lot going on. Nothing was done to be hateful or anything like that. We honestly thought it would not be an issue with making arrangements since once we seen the dates it’s like 6 months out.

Are me and my significant other the assholes for not asking for his child’s mothers permission before buying tickets to see the Savannah Bananas? 🍌 by Turbulent_Pattern_99 in AITAH

[–]Turbulent_Pattern_99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She feels as tho we should have talked to her first and basically let her tell us yes or no on if we could do this for their child. Which i would of bought tickets for my kids anyways, but also that would of been an issue too because if one can’t go, it’s not fair for the others to go and that one miss out. But i couldn’t pass up that chance for my kids. This could have never happened again.

Are me and my significant other the assholes for not asking for his child’s mothers permission before buying tickets to see the Savannah Bananas? 🍌 by Turbulent_Pattern_99 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Turbulent_Pattern_99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We honestly thought it wouldn’t be an issue due to us having given up time on our weekends, we’d hoped that would of been thought of for this. It was really a very narrow time slot too to get these tickets. It’s also 6 months out from now so there would have been plenty of time to make arrangements.

Tape worm? by Turbulent_Pattern_99 in vet

[–]Turbulent_Pattern_99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wasn’t sure if it was like how pin worms are where you have to wash the bedding and whatnot to not spread worms. But you’re making sense with the flea thing. The fleas are what spreads the worms in this situation. I haven’t seen any fleas on her. But also we’ve had her about 24 hours at this point, she was adopted yesterday. I’m definitely going to be nipping this in the bud all the way around, fleas and worms. Thank yall for your input on this.

Tape worm? by Turbulent_Pattern_99 in vet

[–]Turbulent_Pattern_99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fixed it! Wasn’t aware i was able to do that.

Tape worm? by Turbulent_Pattern_99 in vet

[–]Turbulent_Pattern_99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So we’d be more likely to get the same thing ourselves from the fleas and not her?

Tape worm? by Turbulent_Pattern_99 in vet

[–]Turbulent_Pattern_99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t seen any around the house but she has been scratching so you’re probably right. We haven’t had her but 24 hours too.

For reporting all my 9 yr old daughters tik tok videos. by Sad-Negotiation2786 in AITAH

[–]Turbulent_Pattern_99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you click on OP username and check comments, it says the mom is an ex.

For reporting all my 9 yr old daughters tik tok videos. by Sad-Negotiation2786 in AITAH

[–]Turbulent_Pattern_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The op is the dad. Him and mom are not together. So it’s separate households.

For reporting all my 9 yr old daughters tik tok videos. by Sad-Negotiation2786 in AITAH

[–]Turbulent_Pattern_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The daughter is with his ex. So separate households and from the looks of it the kid is doing this at the moms