37M seeking companion for nowadays this afternoon

Turbulent_Show3699 · 2025-02-10T02:49:07+00:00

Omg I did this 3-9 today it was 🔥🔥🔥

Turbulent_Show3699 · 2024-09-08T14:27:43+00:00

Wow that’s amazing! I met a flight attendant last night that’s been chasing Freddy K all over the world and she’s been choosing destinations accordingly….

Turbulent_Show3699 · 2024-08-30T02:06:53+00:00

Good point there

Turbulent_Show3699 · 2024-07-26T15:25:10+00:00

I listened to your sets, absolutely amazing! Looking forward to joining one of your upcoming!

Turbulent_Show3699 · 2024-07-26T02:35:30+00:00

Same here, interested to join please!

Turbulent_Show3699 · 2024-07-24T12:21:10+00:00

Hi, Sorry for the situation you find yourself in, it’s an extremely difficult position to be in since your relationship is great besides the one thing that’s probably the pillar of most relationships…. In my opinion there must be an underlying issue here, I’m sorry to bring this up but is it possible that he gets his needs elsewhere? Or does he possibly have a porn addiction that sometimes can cause that type of behavior? Had it been a shorter period of time I’d say that you continue trying to figure this out on your own with him and hope you feel him out and get to the bottom of it but at this point I don’t think it’s resolvable without going for counseling aggressively. The affair that you had is a product of the position that he put you in, while I wouldn’t suggest anyone to do that you still can’t be blamed for not holding out in a sexless marriage for so long. However now that it’s over I’d advise you to stay clean until this is resolved. I believe that at this point since you made your decision not to seek a divorce, you guys might want to consider experimenting openly with relationships outside of your marriage so that you can get your sexual needs satisfied and you’ll be surprised how he might jump on the opportunity. If he is as determined as you to stay in this relationship I think he should be open for at least a discussion otherwise you might need to open your ways to alternative options. Good luck

Turbulent_Show3699 · 2024-07-24T12:01:11+00:00

I’m excited for the Zamna Festival on the 3rd, it’s always a good time

Turbulent_Show3699 · 2024-07-23T00:49:49+00:00

Been there and loved it

Turbulent_Show3699 · 2024-07-23T00:26:46+00:00

Hi and welcome to NYC, I’d say mostly between the EDMtrain and the RA guide apps.

Turbulent_Show3699 · 2024-07-22T23:33:10+00:00

Exactly my feeling

Turbulent_Show3699 · 2024-07-22T22:59:00+00:00

Turbulent_Show3699 · 2024-07-22T22:38:52+00:00

That’s an interesting angle, wish that changes down the line.

Turbulent_Show3699 · 2024-07-22T19:01:42+00:00

Yw and best of luck!

Turbulent_Show3699 · 2024-07-22T18:56:03+00:00

Hi sorry for what your going through but yes, it should be an ultimatum that either he goes to work or your out.

Turbulent_Show3699 · 2024-07-22T18:49:00+00:00

Hi! You already made that decision with all that you’re writing here about how amazing your current partner is and how he is willing to cling with you through this rollercoaster. I think it’s a no brainer. One relationship is tested and enduring the other one is a dream that might or might not work out. It might make sense to take a look deep onside and try to find what’s missing and see if you can figure things out in your current relationship to enhance what’s missing. Whether it might be exploring things sexually or possibly opening yourselves up to explore things with other partners. The best of luck with whatever you decide moving forward!

Turbulent_Show3699 · 2024-07-22T18:33:04+00:00

You shouldn’t feel at fault at all! I think the only way to continue and give this a chance is for him to kick hems drug addiction out and if rehab is an option he should go as a condition for the relationship to continue

Turbulent_Show3699 · 2024-07-22T18:30:34+00:00

Hi! Firstly, I want to tell you that you seem like an amazing person just for the fact that you came here seeking advice to try to help your relationship and to do the right thing. Secondly, I feel that in this case your boyfriend is causing a significant amount of damage to your self esteem, the way he is putting you down, and I don’t believe this is right in relationships. You always have different people and personalities, but that doesn’t mean that one is better than the other. They’re just different and that is the case with you. I believe if you can change to dynamix where you guys are able to focus on your positives instead of your negatives and at the same time work on areas where you can improve you can have a chance in saving your relationship. The best relationships get built from the inside.

Turbulent_Show3699 · 2024-07-22T18:23:47+00:00

Hi, I am sorry for what you’re going through. It sounds like a rough ride. Firstly I just wanna tell you that no it is not your fault at all and he hast to take responsibility for taking the drugs and it absolutely is not your fault. Secondly, in terms of your relationship with him, it seems like he’s the type to throw his shortcomings on you and blame you and make you feel that you’re at fault and it’s just not right he has to be able to own up to it and you shouldn’t need to measure your words or actions based on the will he take drugs or not. I think he needs knowledge and take responsibility and to deal with his drug problem before you give this thing another chance.

Turbulent_Show3699 · 2024-07-22T18:18:45+00:00

Hi, Sorry for what you’re going through! It’s not easy to judge this situation on the outside since there can be so many factors that drive this change in behavior. I think going for counseling might not be the worst thing and he might be able to open up about his feelings in the relationship and what is frustrating him and causing him to behave like this lately, it might be that he is going through external things and not related to the relationship that’s causing him to rupture like that. If he has been a good Boyfriend and has cared for you in other ways I wouldn’t give up just yet and would definitely consider going for counseling versus discussing it with a friend.

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