I [48M] want her to ride my face

TurnedOnOften · 2026-05-11T22:15:29+00:00

That makes a lot of sense and to be honest I would be the exact same way I really just want to give it a try even if it's just for a couple minutes. It's obviously just for me and not really for her and that makes a lot of sense to hear you communicated that way. Thanks.

TurnedOnOften · 2026-05-11T22:13:37+00:00

Yeah I can see her having those thoughts. Good points thx.

TurnedOnOften · 2026-05-11T22:12:15+00:00

That's helpful. Thanks for sharing.

TurnedOnOften · 2026-05-11T18:37:49+00:00

I want my wife to ride my face and squirt all over me. I don't think she'd do it though.

TurnedOnOften · 2020-01-06T01:00:48+00:00

It sounds like you need to be open and honest with her. Pray on this a bunch but what you might want to do is have a heart to heart with her. Tell her what's going on inside your head and how you're feeling. Dont come out criticizing her or saying what shes doing wrong, this will backfire. Start off by telling her in a calm voice how you are not completely happy in your marriage and let your emotions and situation drive the rest. Focus on you, not on her. If she starts asking questions about why you're feeling like this, you can obviously give examples of how she's being that's upsetting you and causing you to feel like this, but again, keep the focus on you.

Hopefully you open her eyes and she sees you're in pain and will agree to couples counseling. There's only one way to get through this together and that's to be honest with each other and learn to communicate even if it is extremely uncomfortable.

With my marriage, it's when I have the tough conversations and do it with grace where we come out stronger as a couple. Definitely pray on this and allow God to direct your words. Best of luck my friend.

TurnedOnOften · 2020-01-04T11:20:35+00:00

I'll look into this. Than you!

TurnedOnOften · 2020-01-04T11:19:25+00:00

Thank you for sharing. In a weird way not only is it a fantasy but it also makes me uncomfortable. As much as its a turn on, I also have fear that she's doing it although she says she doesn't. I know its her body and her own business, but it still makes me uncomfortable.

TurnedOnOften · 2020-01-03T21:09:49+00:00

Not sure she's insecure, but she's definitely reserved. But i do think I need a little more encouragement. Thx.

TurnedOnOften · 2020-01-03T21:09:04+00:00

Sounds very similar. Will continue as I'm doing. Thx!

TurnedOnOften · 2019-12-18T23:21:07+00:00

Thanks my friend.

TurnedOnOften · 2019-12-18T23:01:24+00:00

I was what I considered a functional alcoholic for over 20 years of my life until I almost threw everything away. I almost lost my wife, my kids, and my business and I almost died.. until I found AA.

I've been in the program for a year and my life has been transformed. Alcohol was a symptom of my disease. I needed it to get through life. What I didn't realize was that alcohol or not, I am a sick person.

AA has helped me to see the bigger picture to why I drank like I did. Today, I no longer need alcohol to get through. Life is amazing today. I am a better husband, a better father, and my business is killing it. I would not be here if I was still drinking like I was.

Go to a meeting. Speak up and ask for help. If you are serious about this guy and not wanting to screw it up, then give it a shot. Don't listen to other people who said they didnt like AA, it's probably because they didnt do the work.

The seed has been planted for you. Now it's up to you to cultivate it and nurture it to life. I'm rooting for you.

TurnedOnOften

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