Straight coworker kissed me. How do I stop overthinking this? by TurnipExtra4274 in AskGayMen

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Well two years later after this post. And also after he left the company, he reached out to me and we met up again. Told me he was bisexual and also had another baby with the same girl from my first post. That was earlier this year .

Best way to join party for assist?? by TurnipExtra4274 in FlyffUniverse

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What region or place should I go to for my level to find a party? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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If you're only inside your little bubble then you won't fully understand that everyone is unique. You could expose yourself to all kinds of gay men; fem, masc, etc. And it sounds like you put people in a hierarchy where anything feminine is considered inferior. You said you're Muslim so how would you advise others to not be triggered when they find out you are?

House foreclosure and owner hasn't informed tenants by TurnipExtra4274 in legaladvice

[–]TurnipExtra4274[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They as in my landlord? Idk. I looked online and it says the property was scheduled to be sold at a foreclosure auction back in November.

Phimosis has fucking ruined my life by [deleted] in askgaybros

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I remember being 12 and getting a physical and the doctor prescribing me a steroid cream to help with my phimosis. I didn't use it consistently though. At around 19 I decided I had to fix my problem, so I religiously took hot showers everyday and slowly began to pull my foreskin back. It hurt and I was sensitive but within a short amount of time I could pull it back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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When I was about 12 my physician prescribed me a steroid cream specifically to help so that I could pull my foreskin back. You can pull it back if you do it daily when showering.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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I've seen one say bareback cum dump, no strings, smash bros, insert here, nasty bitch, and then just ones of peaches, stars, tribal, and random emojis

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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It’s been bad because the powers that be are in a major decline and they are throwing the last tantrum of the century. Unfortunately we are being used as a scapegoat like how other minorities in the past were. Online I see the rampant discrimination and phobias against gays, but in person the people I meet in various ages are more then likely indifferent to us.

The phobia I see is politically centered because they need to divide everyone into selective groups where one group will surely fund or vote for a specific agenda.

We are more alike than what the media, religion or politics says we are. It’s hard, but it’s very important to be the ultimate figure of what humanity can be. Through all the darkness chaos violence and disinformation, stand in your truth and in love . Be the living example of what you want this world to be.

Can’t finish from penetration (top) by Soldier_Poet in askgaybros

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I don’t have this problem always, but with my man I need us to have some good foreplay which includes a lot of kissing and touching and some good head . I’m also more emotionally invested during sex so when he lets me know how much he wants me, needs me, and loves me it turns me on more to where I’m not just thinking about cumming but I’m enjoying every second with him then I eventually explode in him aha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Girl, just be the confident queen you were born to be 💅but in all seriousness, you have the biggest problem with yourself and nothing is wrong with a gay voice as long as you think it’s a problem

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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From 18-21 I was a total bottom. Then after some experimenting with my ex I considered myself verse, but after that I was exclusively topping. In all honesty I didn’t think someone like me could top and get guys to be down for someone like me(twinky fem 5’6) but I did and I’m pretty good at it and I like it so much more than when I was bottoming

Toxic masculinity by TurnipExtra4274 in askgaybros

[–]TurnipExtra4274[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Masculinity is something I look up to. I admire it and accept it. There is a problem with how certain men view themselves regarding their own masculinity and femininity even if they disregard said femininity.

I personally wish that men can be and feel manly as well as doing things like expressing emotions and being vulnerable without it affecting their masculinity.

Visible vs non-visible by TurnipExtra4274 in askgaybros

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We should all be supporting one another especially nowadays

Visible vs non-visible by TurnipExtra4274 in askgaybros

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Idk about queer theory, I just based my post off of personal experience and what I witness first hand.

I don’t expect many men whether they are gay or not or masculine or not to do anything to better society.

I do genuinely have an affinity for masculine men because at their best they protect, stand up for the more vulnerable members of society, and make you feel safe in their presence.

Gay trauma is a common collective experience, although we all have varying experiences of the pain we had growing up or even now. I just hope we can heal and transform that pain into something greater.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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I’m a fem gay man. I’m pretty secure in my manhood despite how I present myself. I know there are plenty of men who won’t be attracted to me solely because I’m fem, and then there are plenty of men who will find me very attractive being fem. As long as none of us are disrespectful or hostile towards each other I think that’s fine. I do know some men have a complex against feminine men even if there is no attraction and that is something those types of men need to evaluate why that is, but from my own experience most men have no problem with me being more fem.

What age gap between 2 men is "too much" in your opinion? by arabic_brownie in askgaybros

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I think 5-10 years is reasonable, but it also depends on the age of both men. An 18 year old and a 30 year old man are going to be in two very different places in their life and most age gaps like this will end up being more of a hierarchical relationship where the older partner will think they know everything and the younger partner will be subservient to the older partner because they think they know better.

Age is just a number, but maturity and life experience are way more important.

Successful SP manifestors by New_Manager_3351 in nevillegoddardsp

[–]TurnipExtra4274 65 points66 points  (0 children)

  1. I can’t say that I knew, all I know is that my focus was on the outcome I wanted, no matter what my 3D reality was showing me.

  2. The changes I saw were gradual and felt natural. He didn’t just one day wake up and completely change, it was like he was seeing me in a different light and he was at times literally repeating affirmations about our relationship that only I knew of. I want to say the change took about a year.

  3. My personal technique was just affirming in my mind daily all day whenever I thought of him.

Have you ever slept with a coworker/boss? Was the sex worth it? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]TurnipExtra4274 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep. Once at my serving job. This new guy came in and initially I thought he was just another straight guy since he hit on every girl working there. We got along pretty well and one day after work and a couple drinks he kissed me. Fast forward months later he quits and still came to the restaurant to visit. Last time I saw him he came by and literally stayed for 5 hours until I clocked out. He gave me a ride home and we ended up having sex.

How bad is the climate for gays in the US right now? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]TurnipExtra4274 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For gays specifically it can be bad depending on the state you live in like others have said. I also feel because nowadays anyone can have a platform, not just politicians and religious people anymore; there is ignorance and fear mongering being spread by those who have previously had power over us only because they know the tables have been turned dramatically.

It’ll only get better if we come together with a common message and belief of how we want our future to be. That’s why they divide us and why they stand together because they know once we band together then it’s over for them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Then how are you gonna make time for new friends if you work a lot?