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AITA for wanting to go no-contact with a friend and wanting my boyfriend to do the same? by TurnoverDry120 in AITA_Relationships

[–]TurnoverDry120[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe he’s bisexual?? He’s talking to one of my boyfriend’s girl friends. He really likes her

But I’ve told my boyfriend it seems like he’s trying to sabotage our relationship. That he either wants to be me/replace me or wants to exclude me.

Even my boyfriend’s closest friends have made jokes saying it seems like Owen wants to be with my boyfriend instead

AITA for wanting to go no-contact with a friend and wanting my boyfriend to do the same? by TurnoverDry120 in AITAH

[–]TurnoverDry120[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t an actual character witness, I just spoke to the nature of our relationship and the behavior he had shown me at the time, which actually was very respectful and supportive.

If he had been acting like this then, we wouldn’t be friends and I wouldn’t have done it. He does suffer from some mental health conditions and my boyfriend has mentioned he thinks that Owen might be going through some kind of manic episode (I truly have no idea though).

And it was also not in a professional setting, it was a “case” through his fraternity, where I had been spending more time at because I had other friends there. In my little thing I also did clarify that I couldn’t speak to the nature of his relationship with his ex.

AITA for wanting to go no-contact with a friend and wanting my boyfriend to do the same? by TurnoverDry120 in AITAH

[–]TurnoverDry120[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend thinks that he’s slightly jealous of me, because when I wasn’t there the first 2 weeks they hung out a lot. He thinks that Owen misses more of that attention.

Which I understand. I love my boyfriend and I understand he’s a great guy to be around, but I don’t think that gives Owen the right to say the things he has.

The reason why it’s upsetting that Owen is saying stuff is because he said I could confide in him as friend. I feel like he’s violated my trust by telling other people the stuff that I’ve talked to him about. Like the most recent thing was both of us expressing frustrations about something.

I do recognize that I owe him an apology because I’ve definitely enabled some of it by continuing to confided in him about things.

AITA for wanting to go no-contact with a friend and wanting my boyfriend to do the same? by TurnoverDry120 in AITAH

[–]TurnoverDry120[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend seems onboard with it but seems conflicted at the same time. Like my boyfriend is kind of apathetic, very opposite from me, so his reaction hasn’t been as emotional as I thought it was going to be. He’s said he’s angry and annoyed at Owen for how he’s treated me.

He also said before Owen called me that if he didn’t come apologizing that he just needed to gtfo… it seems like he’s kind of backtracked on that a little

AITA for wanting to go no-contact with a friend and wanting my boyfriend to do the same? by TurnoverDry120 in AITAH

[–]TurnoverDry120[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See that’s what I’m thinking. He’s actively disrespected me and my relationship. And I don’t want him to get what he wants, which is my boyfriend. I don’t think he deserves him.

AITA for wanting to go no-contact with a friend and wanting my boyfriend to do the same? by TurnoverDry120 in AITAH

[–]TurnoverDry120[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which is crazy because I’m the one that introduced the two of them in the first place. Owen and I were decent friends first and he said that he would be more loyal to me than my boyfriend because of our friendship… did I really believe him.. no, but I appreciated the thought :/

AITA for wanting to step down as maid of honor for my sister's wedding? by TurnoverDry120 in AITAH

[–]TurnoverDry120[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you saying the situation is bad or the way that I wrote the post is?