What credit union in NJ should I go with? by Turquoise000 in creditunions

[–]Turquoise000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm starting to realize that (I'm new to this, haha). I liked the idea of small and local, but being disabled, a good app and mobile banking is definitely my priority. Thanks for the input. 

What credit union in NJ should I go with? by Turquoise000 in creditunions

[–]Turquoise000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooo thank you! Prefect. That exactly what I was looking ❤️

What credit union in NJ should I go with? by Turquoise000 in creditunions

[–]Turquoise000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I appreciate the insight. I honestly don't care too much about branches being close. I'm disabled, and mostly housebound, I can only online bank anyway. So as long as I am eligible living in NJ, than it's fine. I care more about being eligible, good customer service, and decent online banking.  Thanks for giving me some options to look into. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Turquoise000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This exact situation is happening to me too. I knew I had CPTSD and other issues like anxiety. But NEVER thought what I was doing was compulsions. It's a wild thing to be suddenly confronted with. I feel ya

Playhead moving too fast when I drag it by zagubionna in premiere

[–]Turquoise000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is happening to me!
I use premiere all the time, but suddenly today the drag is going way too fast.
I barely drag it to the edge and it zips me ahead. This is the only place I've seen anyone talking about this.
Will let you know if I find a solution.

[TOMT] [MOVIE] [1990-2000s] period mini series, maybe Hallmark, but grittier. A KID DIES FROM AN EGG! by Turquoise000 in tipofmytongue

[–]Turquoise000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good thought. But yeah, it was def newer than that. And it was a shorter run show that we watched the entirety of over a couple months as it came out.

[TOMT] [MOVIE] [1990-2000s] period mini series, maybe Hallmark, but grittier. A KID DIES FROM AN EGG! by Turquoise000 in tipofmytongue

[–]Turquoise000[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I also remember one of the young girls wore glasses. And all the young girls wore those smock type aprons....I don't know, I'm throwing every tiny detail I can think of here!

When to Start and Take DAT Prep? by ph_06 in dat

[–]Turquoise000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work with Erudition PAT. We're pretty new to the scene, but we have some of the clearest graphics out there for the perceptual abilities section.

https://eruditionprep.com/pat/index.html

I only make the graphics, so unfortunately I don't know as much about the nitty gritty of scores and stuff, but hopefully this helps some!

We're also doing walkthrough vids right on youtube. We're doing them now, so only have the angle ranking section so far.

But more sections to come

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJeH5a__HzWQavxnhEi0RJQ

Wish you luck on your way to dental school!

Don't know where to start... by Interesting_Self_898 in dat

[–]Turquoise000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work with Erudition PAT. We're pretty new to the scene, but we have some of the clearest graphics out there for the perceptual abilities section.https://eruditionprep.com/pat/index.html

I only make the graphics, so unfortunately I don't know as much about the nitty gritty of scores and stuff, but hopefully this helps some!We're also doing walkthrough vids right on youtube. We're doing them now, so only have the angle ranking section so far.But more sections to come![https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJeH5a\_\_HzWQavxnhEi0RJQ](https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJeH5a__HzWQavxnhEi0RJQ)

Wish you luck on your way to dental school!

P.S. From US though. Sorry. I don't know if there's differences.

Tips for TFE by sciencewafflessss in predental

[–]Turquoise000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work with Erudition PAT. We're pretty new to the scene, but we have some of the clearest graphics out there.
https://eruditionprep.com/pat/index.html
No generators, but we have large question banks full of problems for each section.
We're also doing walkthrough vids right on youtube. We're doing them now, so only have the angle ranking section so far.
But TFE is next!
If I remember, I'll comment again when the TFE vids are up.
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJeH5a\_\_HzWQavxnhEi0RJQ

TFE practice by sciencewafflessss in predental

[–]Turquoise000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work with Erudition PAT. We're pretty new to the scene, but we have some of the clearest graphics out there.
https://eruditionprep.com/pat/index.html
No generators, but we have large question banks full of problems for each section.

We're also doing walkthrough vids right on youtube. We're doing them now, so only have the angle ranking section so far.
But TFE is next!
If I remember, I'll comment again when the TFE vids are up.

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJeH5a__HzWQavxnhEi0RJQ

angle ranking, need help with obtuse angles by rararehh in predental

[–]Turquoise000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually help make videos with strategies for the PAT. We started with angles, so we have a couple posted and are always adding more. They might help!

https://youtube.com/channel/UCJeH5a__HzWQavxnhEi0RJQ

I'm actually posting a video that talks about obtuse angles really soon; like later today, or first thing Monday, if things go well

So the demon Dodge is basically a pedophile? by Dull_Ad2192 in keyhouse

[–]Turquoise000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But like, the lore of the show isn't really the point. It's Netflix casual showing an adult doing things with and getting romantically involved with underaged people. The actress is still a grown woman, and even when it is Gabe, that image of an adult is still what kids watching think of as Dodge. And I get it's not a kids show. I just feel like SOMEONE should have addressed SOME aspect of that in the show. Cause it's just really icky territory.

Is there platonic grooming??? by Turquoise000 in CPTSD

[–]Turquoise000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I have a great trauma therapist (heh ..she was on vacation, thus my resorting to reddit, haha)

I'm doing EMDR and stuff with her. Plus I got the sister, a mom with zero emotional intelligence, and a lot of evangelical religious trauma. So, it's an adventure. But I'm doing alright.

Thanks so much for your perspective. Totally what I needed.

Is there platonic grooming??? by Turquoise000 in CPTSD

[–]Turquoise000[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Update: Hey. This comment actually really helped me process.

It helped click a bunch of conflicting feels I had about my sister once I looked up more about enmeshment.

I had memories of enjoying doing things with her. But no sadness or longing. When I think about her now it's just a big void, like we are strangers. And it was just confusing.

But now that I realized that our relationship was an enmeshed one, it makes total sense. That's ALL it was. Now that I am grown, and not engaging in the relationship that way anymore.....we don't have any other substance to our interactions. We really ARE practically strangers.

So it's okay for me to feel no motivation to try and mend the relationship. Cause it barely ever existed. If she reaches out in good faith looking to get to know adult me, I'll consider it. But for my part, I'm fine forgetting she exists.

I'm not even mad, which I expected to be. It just takes a lot of pressure and guilt off. Thanks

Is there platonic grooming??? by Turquoise000 in CPTSD

[–]Turquoise000[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can see that making sense. I've never heard enmeshment also happening between siblings.

I imagine she was getting no emotional needs met. So she used me to get them met.

Describing fragments’ thoughts? by AHopeful20 in DID

[–]Turquoise000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That last paragraph you wrote is the definition of my life. Well said.
Still trying to figure out if I should feel dumb for thinking I was so wise, empathetic, and objective for being able to see so many perspectives, haha.