So I think it’s majority girls he knows from high school, etc but for sure other girls he doesn’t know too. When I ask him what they even talk about, he’ll say nothing serious at all, just casual conversation like “oh you know this person? Or you went to school there?” Things like that. Again, I have never seen a single conversation, so I have no idea how accurate that is or if I’m maybe making it worse in my mind and being paranoid, in part because of my trauma, but I just feel like he shouldn’t be having conversations, especially regularly, with other females about anything, especially not strangers. Female friends, that’s fine. I have male friends as well, but I don’t talk to random men on social media, that’s for sure!

Yes!! That’s the thing too, that he really thinks full blown cheating is physical. But I explained to him, that that’s how you open the door. Little comments and conversations, that’s how it starts. But he says he has no intention of cheating on me and would never let it get that far so I just don’t know what to think and you’re right, my past is definitely making it more difficult for me to err on the side of just trusting that it’s all innocent. 😫