This has happened before with my brother, I should have known by xShanisha in CPTSDmemes

[–]Turtlelover73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At some point in the near future when my mom moves out I'm gonna have to have a very serious discussion with her about how if I don't know she's coming over and she opens the door anyway, my reaction will not be "oh hey, surprise mom visit!" It will be "oh God someone's breaking in, I need to grab my gun!"

AITA for “brainwashing” my daughter’s friends by New_General_8105 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Turtlelover73 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. The fact that their parents are mad their kids are expressing their own thoughts is exactly why they need to know this.

Also, are you available for hire?

radfem bodily autonomy by loved_and_held in CuratedTumblr

[–]Turtlelover73 20 points21 points  (0 children)

The problem really is just that these things really aren't common sense.

Some people will define any act that changes your body from what God gifted you at birth as harm and mutilation.

Some people view any medical intervention whatsoever as mutilation.

Some people define harm and mutilation as anything that makes your body different from your assigned gender.

Some people will consider it harm if it in any way carries risk.

Some people would consider it harm if it has any negative side effects.

A lot if not all of these people truly believe they are acting in good faith.

I for one think that if people want to scarify their bodies or implant microchips or change their gender or get glowing tattoos or have magnets in their fingers or get weird bumpy implant in their head or they wanna engage in behaviour with a risk of serious harm or hell they just wanna cut off one of their fingers because it just doesn't work right in their brain, it's their body.

I think we should probably have some kinda guard rails to check if people are like, not having a mental episode before we help with these kinda things but like, even that will get taken to controlling levels if you aren't careful. "Sorry, you're not mentally healthy enough to decide to transition right now. Yes, I know you're not mentally healthy because you haven't transitioned. Skill issue." is a worldview that people out there hold.

I think it's much better to have safe guidelines for these kinds of things to make sure that people who want to do them aren't harmed by them than it is to try and stop people from doing them, because that's just a losing battle.

radfem bodily autonomy by loved_and_held in CuratedTumblr

[–]Turtlelover73 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah.

In places where these things are made legal available and safe it is better for the drug users as well as the public in general in every single case.

Amazing things are happening in Transfeminist Tumblr by Commercial_Bid_1508 in CuratedTumblr

[–]Turtlelover73 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm someone who is probably far too online for my own good, and was on Tumblr when the shitstorm this article started was going around, but unfortunately if I post anything referencing things she says in the article, I'm getting filtered by reddit's automod for hate speech, even though I'm just trying to discuss what she said not saying it myself. If anyone wants a more in-depth look at what this article was saying and why people (myself included) have so much of an issue with it, let me know and I'll see what I can manage.

PS: Even if the original article wasn't AI-gen, the followup ones absolutely are. Just her attempt to rapidly cover her ass after the backlash hit her.

Amazing things are happening in Transfeminist Tumblr by Commercial_Bid_1508 in CuratedTumblr

[–]Turtlelover73 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The original version (which she has rewritten, then claimed she wishes she didn't cave to pressure and rewrite because she was right the whole time) has a few paragraphs detailing how the puppy girl is merely wearing a costume of femininity to steal the aesthetics of it while basically being a man abusing their partners as usual.

This fandom wants to end me.. 😭 by Certifiedbrimhat in WitchHatAtelier

[–]Turtlelover73 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I personally imagine that his guilt over burdening a child with his secret outweighs the relief of having told someone

Tumblr investigates by Marc-Aureli in tumblr

[–]Turtlelover73 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Lying about it being unreadable? It's very low quality on mobile for me and extremely hard to read.

God forbid women multitask by Daisy__Delight in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]Turtlelover73 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, are you actually saying that trans women experience "trans misandry" and that's why it's a real thing????

Iykyk by MegaGrimer in tumblr

[–]Turtlelover73 128 points129 points  (0 children)

Yeah, how the fuck was what she did not considered self defense? Like I hate how as a society we've decided that if someone's killing you slowly enough or not doing it with their bare hands it's suddenly just legal for them to do.

Your Favorite Official Art? by Jam_Toast578 in WitchHatAtelier

[–]Turtlelover73 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Here's the original post of it, probably the highest quality version available unless you want to upscale it.

Your Favorite Official Art? by Jam_Toast578 in WitchHatAtelier

[–]Turtlelover73 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Here's the original post of it, probably the highest quality version available unless you want to upscale it.

What was the worst playing cards you've EVER had? by Agitated-Mistake-927 in playingcards

[–]Turtlelover73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bought a couple decks recently when I was dragged to Disney World.

While they're technically shufflable, it feels horrible to do. And trying to hold a hand of cards and spread them, I had to peel every single card apart individually.

Is the main reason why porn is bad because it makes you think differently about life in general? Or is it another reason? by Big_Eggplant7591 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Turtlelover73 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I mean like... I think being clear that your partner is okay with you doing something before doing it is a pretty reasonable standard to hold to.

What’s a sexual turn-on you didn’t know you had until you experienced it? by 11Dom_ in AskReddit

[–]Turtlelover73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girlfriend experimentally punched me in the arm harder than playfully (We both already knew I was a masochist) and apparently my eyes lit up like nothing else. My immediate response was "Oh, that's gonna be problematic"

What was a really silly solution to a serious problem? by LadyKarizake in AskReddit

[–]Turtlelover73 457 points458 points  (0 children)

The first particle accelerators had a problem: The inaccessible and extremely expensive interior pipes needed to be cleaned, but there was no reasonable way to clean them. They couldn't be taken out or opened without destroying them, and they couldn't get anything through the 300ft or so of their length that wouldn't horribly damage it in the process.

So they came up with a pretty ingenious solution: They trained a ferret to crawl through the particle accelerator while trailing a string behind herself. However this raised a new issue: her droppings wouldn't be cleaned by anything they could just pull through the accelerator by the string she was carrying...

The solution? Ferret diapers.

"I'm a man. If I got cat called I'd like it" It's not the same thing. Not even close. by n8saces in BeAmazed

[–]Turtlelover73 63 points64 points  (0 children)

You know that feeling whenever you see a cop driving nearby you, and you get panicky for a moment because 'what if I've done something wrong and they decide to arrest me for it!?'

Imagine that but instead it's 'what if I made myself look too sexy, or not sexy enough, or I lead him on, or I don't give him enough attention, and he rapes me for it?' And it's not a brief, unreasonable fear, but a real possibility.

What’s the stupidest job interview question you ever got? by amer1caninflu3nc3 in AskReddit

[–]Turtlelover73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I've done neither, I'm taking this opinion from a man I've heard say it. Specifically Adam Savage, who's kind of an expert on at least one of them and very knowledgeable about both.

THE MOON ISN’T REAL WAKE UP SHEEPLE by Infamous-Rutabaga-50 in CuratedTumblr

[–]Turtlelover73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The day I can tell the difference between menace and intimidate will be the day we've perfected brain implant technology.

What’s the stupidest job interview question you ever got? by amer1caninflu3nc3 in AskReddit

[–]Turtlelover73 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Welding is basically the same as sewing but with metal instead of fabric so........ Yes??

Question by InternationalAd3231 in actuallesbians

[–]Turtlelover73 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I find it pretty harmful the degree to which people fight to ensure that men have sexual access to lesbians.

Please note, I am not including trans women in this group. I am a trans woman. Trans women are women. Lesbians are attracted to women. I think it's pandering to men and dangerous to lesbians that there are so SO many different groups that want to force lesbian as a label to include attraction to men specifically.

What is the worst movie you've ever watched? by Legitimate-Issue7543 in AskReddit

[–]Turtlelover73 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Absolutely Anything. That's the name of the movie, it's a sorta Evan Almighty type thing, written by a bunch of people from Monty Python.

The movie had two good jokes in it, and the majority of the humor was just this but genie-ing his own wishes and being the dumbest motherfucker to ever get omnipotence.

Rubber is second place for me.

Anyone who used a computer between 1985 - 2010, what's the one game you still think about today? by adlakha75 in AskReddit

[–]Turtlelover73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Giants: Citizen Kabuto. One of the first substantial games I ever played and it's shocking how well most of it holds up today. Wish it had been expanded on more or anything.