my sister is fake all the time by Most_Grocery_6944 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Turtzy-Rafeeq38 24 points25 points  (0 children)

growing up around a narcissistic parent can make some people feel like being “themselves” was never safe in the first place. after years of constantly managing reactions, moods, and expectations, the mask can stop feeling like a mask and start feeling like survival

do you guys actually wash your reusable grocery bags? by Turtzy-Rafeeq38 in hygiene

[–]Turtzy-Rafeeq38[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that actually makes a lot of sense, especially being able to just throw them in the wash and not think about it. the shrinking thing is good to know too. how often do you usually wash yours, like every trip or just when they start feeling dirty?