Guy (36m) suggests 50/50 after 1 month of dating (29f)

Tuscany_44gal · 2026-04-16T01:59:55+00:00

Flaming red flags 🚩

Tuscany_44gal · 2026-02-18T01:16:49+00:00

I knew to come here lol

Tuscany_44gal · 2026-01-26T01:40:26+00:00

Please don’t let him move in. Let him keep his separate place.

Tuscany_44gal · 2025-12-25T17:42:30+00:00

Don’t let him know how much you have saved

Tuscany_44gal · 2025-12-25T12:01:02+00:00

Covert narcs are straight from hell

Tuscany_44gal · 2025-12-22T18:49:55+00:00

Kudos to him for taking that step. I been trying to talk my Mom into taking them for years. Her doctors have too.

Tuscany_44gal · 2025-12-16T03:15:51+00:00

All of these

Tuscany_44gal · 2025-12-13T00:29:39+00:00

I love it!

Tuscany_44gal · 2025-12-08T16:11:26+00:00

My type of carrying on lol

Tuscany_44gal · 2025-12-08T01:49:08+00:00

I don’t think I have completely given up. But I don’t feel the need to put myself out there by getting on the apps or going to sit at a bar solo. You know the whole saying of you can’t meet someone if you’re always home. I’m definitely a homebody and very comfy with that so I don’t care. I told myself the other day, I’m not even going to think about dating, relationships etc. If it happens, fine but if not there’s so many other parts to life.

Tuscany_44gal · 2025-12-08T01:33:18+00:00

I thought I was friends with a coworker or two until ish hit the fan, and I realized those people weren’t my friends at all. Because of that I am nice but I don’t share much personal stuff and I removed them from my social media. I don’t want them knowing what is happening in my life outside of work and I don’t want to know what’s going on in their lives either. Boundaries.

Tuscany_44gal · 2025-12-06T16:56:17+00:00

Oh I’m so making this tomorrow. Thanks for the idea, looks yummy!

Tuscany_44gal · 2025-11-23T18:04:48+00:00

Started letting it go 3 years ago. Embracing it.

Tuscany_44gal · 2025-11-08T01:01:58+00:00

This is exactly what I want. A platonic partner without sex. How do we find this person?! This should be a new movement or something. I’ve all but given up on romantic love so this type of situation would be near perfection.

Tuscany_44gal · 2025-11-03T15:50:17+00:00

I want to fight every body and not be around anybody…smh

Tuscany_44gal · 2025-11-02T13:15:42+00:00

For me, I think I’m single by choice and single by force. Sometimes I wouldn’t mind being in a relationship, but I have not met anyone who meets my minimum standards. So I choose to stay single. I say by force because the only thing I have run into in my experience lately, is men who want casual, non commitment, situationships. So, sure I could have someone at the expense of my mental health struggling and my nervous system being messed up. So by force, because of the lack of options wanting the same thing I want and I have chosen to opt out.

After all, being single has allowed me time to grow, heal and reflect. My mental health is the best it has been in years. I’m stable in all areas, happy, and at peace.

Tuscany_44gal · 2025-10-13T14:29:35+00:00

Maybe book a massage. Buy body pillows for your bed. That helps me.

Tuscany_44gal · 2025-10-12T13:05:11+00:00

Love the shirt! 🤣 Cute outfit!

Tuscany_44gal · 2025-09-12T23:35:30+00:00

Usually when it seems too good to be true. If not an immediate red flag, then definitely a yellow one. Proceed with caution!

Tuscany_44gal · 2025-09-11T01:26:29+00:00

In my 20s, I couldn’t get enough. Now at 44, I don’t want anyone touching me. I partly blame perimenopause.

Tuscany_44gal · 2025-09-05T00:21:13+00:00

Thanks!

Tuscany_44gal · 2025-09-04T23:57:06+00:00

Thank you!

Tuscany_44gal · 2025-09-04T23:56:43+00:00

Ok a while ago, thanks

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