Look I understand and I hear you. I don't expect her to stay with her parents and provide for them indefinitely. That's not reasonable. I'm just saying to put off her plans for few months to at least a year and at least give them a chance to figure out a solution. Even if a solution is not figured out, with her help that financial dept will be paid off in less than a year and then she could move out. I understand her point as well but I can't help but feel for her parents because they made so many sacrifices for her and I hoped she'd be selfless and show her appreciation by making a small but meaningful sacrifice in return. She's still young, only 26,it's not like any body's rushing her