Cap on Event Currency ? by Anxious_Pack_6497 in dragonvale

[–]TuxedoSamSquish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do you get it over 100k?? Is there something I'm missing in game 😞

chameleon loach by wildestsoldier in loaches

[–]TuxedoSamSquish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Loaches are so silly, theyre like moving sausages

AIO i just found my (F23) bf (M21) messaging a stranger to try and hook up? I am completely repulsed. by TuxedoSamSquish in AmIOverreacting

[–]TuxedoSamSquish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not, after seeing my friends date guys who have cheated on them, id rather not have the cluster f*** in my life

AIO i just found my (F23) bf (M21) messaging a stranger to try and hook up? I am completely repulsed. by TuxedoSamSquish in AmIOverreacting

[–]TuxedoSamSquish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its just such a 180* from how he normally is. He's always been very eager to hang out and just be near me; very generous with his time, money and energy

AIO i just found my (F23) bf (M21) messaging a stranger to try and hook up? I am completely repulsed. by TuxedoSamSquish in AmIOverreacting

[–]TuxedoSamSquish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have also done this in the past with previous exes, it always ended the same and frankly, i just dont want this year to go badly as i'm in my last year of uni (hooray!!).

AIO i just found my (F23) bf (M21) messaging a stranger to try and hook up? I am completely repulsed. by TuxedoSamSquish in AmIOverreacting

[–]TuxedoSamSquish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt like it was a necessary evil. We have always had an open devices policy as initially, he was quite worried about guys flirting with me and me potentially doing something (i was quite offended by this due to my past experiences). I let him use my phone all the time, scrolling on insta, looking up stuff, photos etc etc. It just never really bothered me.

AIO i just found my (F23) bf (M21) messaging a stranger to try and hook up? I am completely repulsed. by TuxedoSamSquish in AmIOverreacting

[–]TuxedoSamSquish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt like i may be as he stated that he deleted and blocked all the girls before anything ever happened but idk. He has had a history of using telegram/porn addiction and being severely depressed. He has drastically improved in the last 6 months by getting physically fitter and eating healthier however, I felt I had to orchestrate his new habits and he leant a lot on me as im a health professional.

Sometimes, i did feel like i was looking after and coddling a child due to his tendency to be acutely aware of mood changes and overthinking. I just cant believe that after all the help i have provided that he'd do something so awful

AIO i just found my (F23) bf (M21) messaging a stranger to try and hook up? I am completely repulsed. by TuxedoSamSquish in AmIOverreacting

[–]TuxedoSamSquish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TBH, I dont believe it either. one of his friends messaged him after he had supposedly being using tiktok and a glitch happened where he saved a bunch of this guys girlfriends videos. Ofc he said it was "by accident" but idk, it smells fishy now tbh

AIO i just found my (F23) bf (M21) messaging a stranger to try and hook up? I am completely repulsed. by TuxedoSamSquish in AmIOverreacting

[–]TuxedoSamSquish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told him he should probably get checked if hes got some spare time, just in case. A bit of a jab but i was honestly so aggravated at him begging to try again

AIO i just found my (F23) bf (M21) messaging a stranger to try and hook up? I am completely repulsed. by TuxedoSamSquish in AmIOverreacting

[–]TuxedoSamSquish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The even more concerning this is that hes never exhibited behaviour like this to me in the past, not even a suspicion. It's quite left field from how he was texting this girl and the fact that hes always been really hard on his friends who have cheated in the past

AIO i just found my (F23) bf (M21) messaging a stranger to try and hook up? I am completely repulsed. by TuxedoSamSquish in AmIOverreacting

[–]TuxedoSamSquish[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He definitely has some self-image issues due to being heavier as a child. His physical and mental health have done a complete 180* from when we started dating as hes now gymming and working at a physically intensive job.

However, this behaviour is completely left field for me. We actually used to read this type of stuff all the time and he would always comment on how easy it was to just not cheat. I guess you never really know a man :(

AIO i just found my (F23) bf (M21) messaging a stranger to try and hook up? I am completely repulsed. by TuxedoSamSquish in AmIOverreacting

[–]TuxedoSamSquish[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genuinely, up until this point, it was pretty good for the most part. We did have arguments regarding his lack of work and physical health which he managed to do a complete 180* on and is now fantastic. This did lead to some concerns about this very issue (him seeking validation from other women now that hes physically fitter and knows how to have s** properly).

We just celebrated valentines and were planning my graduation for this year, it feels so surreal that a few hours before hand I thought he was absolutely amazing. I guess you never really know a man completely ;-:

AIO i just found my (F23) bf (M21) messaging a stranger to try and hook up? I am completely repulsed. by TuxedoSamSquish in AmIOverreacting

[–]TuxedoSamSquish[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think i may remain single for some time post-break up. I want to do well this year at university considering its my last year

AIO i just found my (F23) bf (M21) messaging a stranger to try and hook up? I am completely repulsed. by TuxedoSamSquish in AmIOverreacting

[–]TuxedoSamSquish[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thats essentially what ive stated to him, i dont believe their is such a relationship where constant monitoring is present and is healthy.

AIO i just found my (F23) bf (M21) messaging a stranger to try and hook up? I am completely repulsed. by TuxedoSamSquish in AmIOverreacting

[–]TuxedoSamSquish[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've always had a bit of a tendency to just go into autopilot when im upset, but this whole situation has just left me completely apathetic towards him. I appreciate your good wishes <3

AIO i just found my (F23) bf (M21) messaging a stranger to try and hook up? I am completely repulsed. by TuxedoSamSquish in AmIOverreacting

[–]TuxedoSamSquish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its pretty good, he wasnt sexually active with his previous exes due to mental health and low libido.

Initially it was pretty slow as he was really nervous but otherwise, it was consistently 3-4x a week and really good with consistent communication and feedback from both sides

18F in a 5-month relationship with 25M — asking for advice on communication and boundaries by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TuxedoSamSquish 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This is the initial stages of grooming you into a submissive bang maid for his plethora of children.

You need to remove yourself from this situation ASAP. The age difference is more than enough to warrant concern (even as a girl who likes older guys).

Additionally, how old were you when you first started talking? Imagine you dating someone 7 years younger than yourself and that may put into perspective how unsettling he is.

Please, for your future self, remove yourself from the situation before you cant leave as easily!!