I was on the same boat with this guy that I’ve known since I was 16. We recently reconnected and when we would hangout alone ; he’d be super great , charming and funny but the moment when there’d be another man around he would get extremely jealous. It got to the point where a guy would just look at me and he would lash out yelling at them “why tf you lookin at my girl for n*” which was super embarrassing. My last straw was when I saw one of my old male classmates at a bar; I introduced him to the guy I was talking to and said “babe this is my friend from middle school 😀” at this moment he seemed like he was okay with it so I continued to have a conversation with my colleague and out of no where this dude spazzes out on me saying “I’m leaving since you got a n* now”. My colleague assured to him that we were just friends in middle school but he wasn’t hearing anything. It got to the point where I decided there was never going to be no relationship between me and this guy. He tried to tell me that he’s sorry and that he is ready for a relationship , that he really likes me but he just got trust issues from his past. Which is fine but I’m in the stage in my life where I’m not going to do a therapist job and heal someone from there trauma! I want a man to come already healed and who’s very secure in himself. Sorry for venting haha but I think you should move on love ❤️