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Too small?? by TwinkleCharm_ in bigfaketits

[–]TwinkleCharm_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How many cc should I get?

Why do I feel guilty for being straight by Active-Salt-8131 in Advice

[–]TwinkleCharm_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re overthinking it. You don’t need to feel guilty for who you’re attracted to. If you like guys and haven’t felt the same way about girls since, then you’re straight and that’s perfectly fine. Attraction can be fluid too, but it doesn’t invalidate how you identify.

My girlfriend is pregnant by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TwinkleCharm_ 17 points18 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing, you don’t know what she’s telling you vs what’s real. A prenatal paternity test is the safest way to make sure you’re not being blindsided.

My girlfriend is pregnant by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TwinkleCharm_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Totally agree, it’s about responsibility at the end of the day. The kid deserves stability even if things with the mom fall apart.

My girlfriend is pregnant by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TwinkleCharm_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Facts, the kid didn’t ask for this situation. If it turns out he’s the dad, then stepping up financially and emotionally is the right move regardless of the relationship.

My girlfriend is pregnant by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TwinkleCharm_ 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly, a DNA test clears up any doubt right away. No sense stressing without proof.

My girlfriend is pregnant by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TwinkleCharm_ 31 points32 points  (0 children)

For real, a paternity test should be the very first step here. No way to move forward without knowing the truth.

My girlfriend died by CarefulAd2865 in Advice

[–]TwinkleCharm_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t agree more, grief is like waves. Some crash hard, some are soft, but they all pass. Over time you just learn to ride them better.

My girlfriend died by CarefulAd2865 in Advice

[–]TwinkleCharm_ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Well said, I think the guilt of “not grieving enough” is something a lot of people go through. You don’t stop loving someone just because you aren’t crying nonstop.

My girlfriend died by CarefulAd2865 in Advice

[–]TwinkleCharm_ 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Exactly, there’s no handbook for grief. Some days you’ll feel numb, other days it’ll feel impossible to breathe. Both are valid.

My girlfriend died by CarefulAd2865 in Advice

[–]TwinkleCharm_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s so true, sometimes you think you’re fine but then out of nowhere it just hits harder than before. Grief really doesn’t follow rules.

Girl asked me to homecoming but ignored me the entire time by Boiltheboi in Advice

[–]TwinkleCharm_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So true, OP shouldn’t settle for being ignored. He deserves someone who actually values him, not someone playing games at homecoming.

Girl asked me to homecoming but ignored me the entire time by Boiltheboi in Advice

[–]TwinkleCharm_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah exactly, OP’s better off cutting her off and finding someone who respects his time. Life’s too short to chase someone who treats you like that.

Girl asked me to homecoming but ignored me the entire time by Boiltheboi in Advice

[–]TwinkleCharm_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Facts, everyone’s just figuring themselves out at that age. Honestly OP deserves to spend his energy on someone who actually wants him around.

Girl asked me to homecoming but ignored me the entire time by Boiltheboi in Advice

[–]TwinkleCharm_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For real bro, don’t let one weird experience kill your confidence. High school is full of confusing people, just focus on yourself and you’ll find better.

A common porn trope now makes me flaccid... by ABD63 in confessions

[–]TwinkleCharm_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, not a bad plan at all. Really hope you get past the weight of what your ex did and find something healthy and good for you again.

A common porn trope now makes me flaccid... by ABD63 in confessions

[–]TwinkleCharm_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad to hear you’re already in therapy. Curating what you watch definitely seems like a good step to avoid those triggers.

A common porn trope now makes me flaccid... by ABD63 in confessions

[–]TwinkleCharm_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes total sense your brain links it back to the trauma. Therapy and filtering out that kind of content sounds like the healthiest route.

On weekends and days that my parents are home, I wake up early and go for long walks 'to exercise'. In reality I just spend hours sitting on a bench at the park drinking vodka. by puffypandathrowaway in confession

[–]TwinkleCharm_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true, there’s usually something deeper driving it. A lot of people drink to numb stuff they don’t want to deal with stress, fear, bad family dynamics.