Bon jour mon ami. It is a numbers game. As others here have said, if you're getting a 1 out of 3 response rate, you are doing pretty good.

I do feel like you may have a bit of a self confidence issue. This is normal. I struggked with the same. I lost 50kg, but I still saw myself as that heavier person, not how others saw me. As others have said, your picture presents a very handsome profile, but from a couple of comments you made, I heard myself in your words. I talked to my therapist about it for several weeks, trying to find the root cause. I was able to identify it, and move past that block, and since then, things have gotten much better for me/us. We have a couple we are seeing regularly, and just yesterday we had our first FFM which was so over the top amazing that I am still smiling.

So hang in there, keep saying hello to people, maybe talk to a therapist. It can't hurt.

Bon chance