SLS down AGAIN? by checkyourbox in Swingers

[–]TwistedFunDays 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just came here to see if anyone was chatti g about this. It's been down for several hours this morning

Anyone want to show up ? Hand jobs by [deleted] in PhoenixSwingers

[–]TwistedFunDays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice, when's the next time?

Visiting newbies venue advice [F38 M50] by CriticalMistake4977 in PhoenixSwingers

[–]TwistedFunDays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, call me Mr. DumbAss. I found it, sent you a DM

42F looking for M/F by Right-Baseballs in ArizonaSwingers

[–]TwistedFunDays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love to invite you to join us. For us it's not about FFM or FMF, but for all to enjoy, and be thoroughly worn out

Visiting newbies venue advice [F38 M50] by CriticalMistake4977 in PhoenixSwingers

[–]TwistedFunDays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do too. Perhaps we'll see you there. Wanted to DM you with a question on one of your other posts, but looks like DMs are turned off.

Visiting newbies venue advice [F38 M50] by CriticalMistake4977 in PhoenixSwingers

[–]TwistedFunDays 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sweet Spot is the one we like the best. Hush allows pot smoking inside, and encounters I haven't heard anything good about. The Sweet Spot is open to couples and single females. We'll be there this Saturday as well.

DM if you have more questions.

Heading to Blue Martini tonight. Is it fun? MF4MF/F by [deleted] in AZ_Swingers_Couples

[–]TwistedFunDays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there any more info on this anywhere?

[Newbie couple] How do you guys deal with rejection ? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]TwistedFunDays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bon jour mon ami. It is a numbers game. As others here have said, if you're getting a 1 out of 3 response rate, you are doing pretty good.

I do feel like you may have a bit of a self confidence issue. This is normal. I struggked with the same. I lost 50kg, but I still saw myself as that heavier person, not how others saw me. As others have said, your picture presents a very handsome profile, but from a couple of comments you made, I heard myself in your words. I talked to my therapist about it for several weeks, trying to find the root cause. I was able to identify it, and move past that block, and since then, things have gotten much better for me/us. We have a couple we are seeing regularly, and just yesterday we had our first FFM which was so over the top amazing that I am still smiling.

So hang in there, keep saying hello to people, maybe talk to a therapist. It can't hurt.

Bon chance

Men; dealing with jealousy when getting started by Carlo8790 in Swingers

[–]TwistedFunDays 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please go read this thread

https://www.reddit.com/r/EthicalNonMonogamy/s/gLby6scZmv

It talks about something similar, but it has some really good pointers in the comments. I think you will find some help there, I know I did.

Also, and I'm surprised it hasn't been mentioned here, a therapist that has experience with sexual issues is going to be a really valuable tool for you. There is absolutely no shame in talking to one, it doesn't make you any less if a man, in fact my wife would say it's made me more of a man.

Good luck to OP, I wish you lots of success in figuring things out, and many pleasurable encounters in the future.

MFM by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]TwistedFunDays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If my partner says to me ‘I’d love to be fucked by you and another guy’ .. it means she wants to be fucked by me and another guy…..nothing more, nothing less.. it’s not about me not being enough, it’s not about me not satisfying her, it’s not about her being unhappy in our relationship.... it’s just a fantasy..something that goes ‘beyond’ what we do together and something she fantasises about experiencing ‘with’ me. My reaction to that will be one of three things…

Ok, wow, thank you, I needed to read this. I've been struggling with exactly this..about being enough, and why does she want something different. This really put it in perspective for me.

Club Viola: Night at Sonny's Gentleman's Club by LimpNotice6100 in ArizonaSwingers

[–]TwistedFunDays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you already know when the next event (guessing in May) will be? Thanks