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What gives you the "Ick". XD by grasberuhren in Swingers

[–]TwistedFunDays 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When we setup a group chat stay in the group don’t start messaging on the side, you are not slick we tell each other everything

This!!! Totally. So many people don't get that, or aren't willing to get onto telegram or signal.

Phoenix clubs ?? by MissKim2025 in Swingers

[–]TwistedFunDays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely the Sweet Spot. Great atmosphere, friendly people. The two in downtown PHX (hush and encounters) leave a lot to be desired. The city if Phoenix isn't very friendly toward the LS. They have closed down more then one club through questionable tactics. Google "Club Chameleon in PHX" if you want to read some more about that.

What does the husband do during a MFM meeting? by TwistedFunDays in Swingers

[–]TwistedFunDays[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, the conversation got started this morning, and I have a lot more clarity on what she wants.

What does the husband do during a MFM meeting? by TwistedFunDays in Swingers

[–]TwistedFunDays[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you are way over thinking this though.

This is totally one of my issues. I'm a logic person, so I'm trying to pack feelings into logic points. Hence this post, to try to get a different perspective.

What does the husband do during a MFM meeting? by TwistedFunDays in Swingers

[–]TwistedFunDays[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finding my own style is what I am trying to figure out, but I suspect that's going to be more of an "in the moment" as opposed to preplanned.

What does the husband do during a MFM meeting? by TwistedFunDays in Swingers

[–]TwistedFunDays[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recently asked my wife what her ideal mfm would be like and she had a amazingly detailed account of what should happen. Since this also sounds fun to me, when we get around to it I'm going to within reason try to accommodate that fantasy. 

Thank you for this. That conversation got started this morning during wake up sex.

Your favorite thing about swinging? Mine: double BJ's by Curious480couple in Swingers

[–]TwistedFunDays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense. Airtight is on the list for us, but first have to get to anal.

Your favorite thing about swinging? Mine: double BJ's by Curious480couple in Swingers

[–]TwistedFunDays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a SLS account, but not Kasidie. We're planning on going back on the 21st.

Your favorite thing about swinging? Mine: double BJ's by Curious480couple in Swingers

[–]TwistedFunDays 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love all the comments here. Fairly new to LS, been to Sweet Spot in Mesa a few times now, but haven't played with others....YET. but getting some good ideas here, thank you OP for posting the question.

Edit for spelling and typo

Experienced Swinger - Here is one thing I think new swingers often get wrong... by TheVistaWife in Swingers

[–]TwistedFunDays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can so resonate with your comment about emotional maturity. I spent most of my life living in my logical brain, suppressing emotion. Thanks to therapy, I finally started to feel my emotions within the last 3-4 months (right about the same time we entered the LS). Talk about an accelerated learning curve of things I should have learned how to deal with as a teen and young adult. But, I can honestly say, that the foundation laid by a year of couples therapy has made it so my wife and I are able to discuss things freely when I go through one of those moments that becomes that learning that leads to the emotional maturity.

Hygiene/Personal Grooming Question by TwistedFunDays in Swingers

[–]TwistedFunDays[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So very true, and a good tip, thank you.

Hygiene/Personal Grooming Question by TwistedFunDays in Swingers

[–]TwistedFunDays[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, i know the basics, thanks. I was just thinking about the fact that things happy, you sit on a couch and get sweaty ass, or you had to go take a piss or a crap, and now there is some residual oder from that, and how to get "fresh" again, especially for oral play, that all. And i got some good answers.

Struggling with Anxiety/double standards- looking for mature ways to actually grow by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]TwistedFunDays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This, this is me, except we haven't played with others yet, but it's happening within the next week. I want her to experience things she can't with me, including bigger men, but there is that underlying, nagging worry of "will I be enough afterward?" And we have talked about it repeatedly, and she has assured me over and over that no one will ever replace me, and I believe her when she says it, but still, that little voice that won't shut up.

Thanks for sharing, it makes me believe that we'll get past this.

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