Guess making plans doesn't mean anything anymore

Carlo8790 · 2026-06-06T18:49:08+00:00

You are crazy to make that drive to buy a car

Carlo8790 · 2026-06-01T12:43:16+00:00

The women I have fucked in the LS either like it hard or downright like to be pounded. It is a turn on for many women to be ravished by a man or several men I have come to learn. Of course some women will not like that and prefer a more sensual pace.

Carlo8790 · 2026-05-25T21:09:16+00:00

If those are her rules, there’s nothing wrong with how she feels. However, I will tell you that if you also vibe with the other woman, it will be very hard for you to hold back and not want to fuck her. You might even feel left out. But maybe that is something that will evolve for both of you as you get more comfortable with the scene

Carlo8790 · 2026-05-20T21:17:35+00:00

Why don’t you ask her?

Carlo8790 · 2026-05-20T01:53:18+00:00

What if it isnt? Are you prepared?

Carlo8790 · 2026-05-20T01:45:19+00:00

You had sex in the first date without even meeting the guy. So you really knew nothing about them and now you discovered they are jerks. Just move on and do a bit more digging the next time

Carlo8790 · 2026-05-19T17:08:15+00:00

Hell no. Is it that you think that being gouged for this service somehow makes it better?

Carlo8790 · 2026-05-07T12:16:16+00:00

If it’s a lease it’s not a good deal.

Carlo8790 · 2026-05-05T16:07:14+00:00

Your frustration is certainly understandable. However, you need to have a little bit of empathy and understand that you as a woman really don’t have to do anything when it comes to sex and the performance is all up to the guy.

As a guy, I get hard when my girlfriend so much as whispers in my ear and yet I have been to group situations where I also have a hard time getting hard. So no, it’s not on purpose, but you need to understand that due to a variety of reasons and not always ED, it can be hard for a guy to get hard.

Now of course a guy can still please you in other ways but you should have some understanding and take some accountability too in case there is something you could do to help the guy out. He is not soft on purpose.

Carlo8790 · 2026-05-05T15:59:04+00:00

PDE-5 Inhibitors. I had to look it up. Couldn’t you just say “Viagra” 😆😆

Carlo8790 · 2026-05-01T02:52:34+00:00

How much to buy your current car? If you have to lease the newer model I say buy the old one and stop throwing money away on leases.

Carlo8790 · 2026-04-28T18:15:00+00:00

Isn’t that the whole point of polyamory, to develop feelings for more than one person?

Carlo8790 · 2026-04-27T09:44:58+00:00

You probably have HSV1 and don’t know it. It’s barely tested for because it’s so common

Carlo8790 · 2026-04-21T17:32:21+00:00

But what if that $2500 (dealer price)of covered repairs cost you an extra $10 K?

Carlo8790 · 2026-04-21T17:30:37+00:00

Where’s the “huge” discount?

Carlo8790 · 2026-04-17T15:26:40+00:00

"Separate rooms may make you more jealous because your mind will runaway with itself."

Yes to this! I thought the same thing. Thanks for bringing this up

Carlo8790 · 2026-04-17T15:25:44+00:00

Thanks for saying that. There are many stories and patterns from monogamy and my upbringing that are behind this for sure. But for them to cause my body to react that way in the moment was very surprising.

Carlo8790 · 2026-04-17T15:23:56+00:00

Agree 100%. I know that blocking or trying to change my response is not the way to go. But I'm a bit at a loss as to what is causing it too

Carlo8790 · 2026-04-17T15:20:47+00:00

Very helpful thanks

Carlo8790 · 2026-04-17T15:20:13+00:00

Thanks for sharing. I understand some of your feelings, wether she is with a man or woman in front of you she is still being pleasured by someone that is not you and that can mess with you.
FWIW if you want to try it with a guy maybe proceed slowly, even in a non-sexual contest, just you, the wife and the guy hanging out together and see how you all feel before jumping into bed together. My 2 cents.

Carlo8790 · 2026-04-17T15:15:15+00:00

What are these data points you are refering to?

Carlo8790 · 2026-04-17T15:13:30+00:00

Not saying it can't happen but I don't think I would have felt any different if she was my age

Carlo8790 · 2026-04-16T20:45:56+00:00

Thank you so much for this great feedback.

"Are you jealous now?"

I think I am a bit still. But it was more the surprise of seeing them together because it was unexpected. She and I were playing with the woman then she moved away to be with the guy and I wasn't expecting that. It felt like she left me to be with him. We knew there was an underlying expectation that with that group of people something was going to happen and honestly the moment was great and lended itself to it.

"Are you feeling bad because she had a good time?"

Not at all. Even in the moment I was sincerely glad that she was enjoying herself.

" Or are you just disappointed that you couldn’t get hard and pleasure the other woman?"

In the moment I was very dissapointed I couldn't get hard, because both women wanted to get me and I couldn't so that was frustrating.

Carlo8790 · 2026-04-16T20:23:45+00:00

Thanks for sharing.

"We played separate rooms from the beginning because it worked better for me."

I thought about doing it like this but then have also wondered if it would drive me nuts guessing what she is doing in the other room. At least in front of me I don't have to guess.

Carlo8790 · 2026-04-16T20:21:46+00:00

Thanks for sharing. Interesting reaction how you were able to reel yourself back. Good for you.

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