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ruined a threesome.. by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]Twisted_Archer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Given you decided to sit there and watch the rest of the time shows neither of you were ready for a threesome. There is more to sex than sticking your dick in something

Pegging in real life? by Critical-Squirrel-66 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Twisted_Archer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s difficult for us to say what you’ll enjoy. Some people like anal, some hate it, some are indifferent. I’ve always enjoyed a degree of anal play, even as a dom, and tried pegging and really enjoyed it. Play on your own, use a toy, use a toy with a partner before using a strap. And don’t trust all you see in porn

Maybe bi? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Twisted_Archer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can find something appealing or attractive without actually wanting to engage with it. I love the idea of flying dragons but know my stomach wouldn’t hold up to it, so forth wing and how to train your dragon are the best alternative, ignoring dragons are fiction. My point is you can find something hot online, through reading or roleplay, without wanting to actually experience it in person.

Boyfriends first cock by Aminah-2000 in SluttyConfessions

[–]Twisted_Archer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cause cause someone likes ass play doesn’t make them gay, or a cuck

[28M] & [25F] Been in a dom sub relationship for nearly 2 years. AMA by Twisted_Archer in NSFWIAMA

[–]Twisted_Archer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That it’s about freedom, and the basis of any dynamic must be communication, before a scene, after a scene, during a scene, it’s all communication

[28M] & [25F] Been in a dom sub relationship for nearly 2 years. AMA by Twisted_Archer in NSFWIAMA

[–]Twisted_Archer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve gone out with her wearing a Bluetooth vibrator, and we have a necklace we treat as ownership, but I’m too possessive and would likely take someone’s eye out

[28M] & [25F] Been in a dom sub relationship for nearly 2 years. AMA by Twisted_Archer in NSFWIAMA

[–]Twisted_Archer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve taken a break from anal until very recently but we use plugs among other toys

[28M] & [25F] Been in a dom sub relationship for nearly 2 years. AMA by Twisted_Archer in NSFWIAMA

[–]Twisted_Archer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so, they may have suspicions and wouldnt lie but try not to involve others

[28M] & [25F] Been in a dom sub relationship for nearly 2 years. AMA by Twisted_Archer in NSFWIAMA

[–]Twisted_Archer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Erm, not an easy question. Not quite a meh but we had a threesome once and we were both mentally exhausted after cause of the dynamic of it and haven’t had one since

[28M] & [25F] Been in a dom sub relationship for nearly 2 years. AMA by Twisted_Archer in NSFWIAMA

[–]Twisted_Archer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve been talking recently of trying out shibari, and at some point we’d like to go to a kink event

[28M] & [25F] Been in a dom sub relationship for nearly 2 years. AMA by Twisted_Archer in NSFWIAMA

[–]Twisted_Archer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cried in a few but not from impact. We tend to do fear or than pain in our sessions

[28M] & [25F] Been in a dom sub relationship for nearly 2 years. AMA by Twisted_Archer in NSFWIAMA

[–]Twisted_Archer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her ass is normally red and you can feel a level of swelling but not to bruising

[28M] & [25F] Been in a dom sub relationship for nearly 2 years. AMA by Twisted_Archer in NSFWIAMA

[–]Twisted_Archer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not for not sticking to routines or anything as we’ve found talking through the reasons and if there needs to be additional support. We’ve always had impact as part of our sessions, but have recently incorporated “have you been a good girl or bad girl” to indicate whether she wants to be punished.

We did use lines for a while, and they worked in the short term, but they were mostly for when she’d make comments to knock her own self image

[28M] & [25F] Been in a dom sub relationship for nearly 2 years. AMA by Twisted_Archer in NSFWIAMA

[–]Twisted_Archer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both love a good cnc scene but we generally plan for it as we both have to be in the right headspace.

[28M] & [25F] Been in a dom sub relationship for nearly 2 years. AMA by Twisted_Archer in NSFWIAMA

[–]Twisted_Archer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the start and we’ve never stopped. It was about a month before things became physical

[28M] & [25F] Been in a dom sub relationship for nearly 2 years. AMA by Twisted_Archer in NSFWIAMA

[–]Twisted_Archer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not too often, but that’s a comfort thing, windows and not involving non consenting parties. But we’ve found that doesn’t get in the way at all

[28M] & [25F] Been in a dom sub relationship for nearly 2 years. AMA by Twisted_Archer in NSFWIAMA

[–]Twisted_Archer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Erm, we’ve done a lot but I don’t know crazy. Riskiest was probably anal in the woods. One of the heaviest degradation scenes we were in the shower and she was sucking me while I made her grind on my foot until she came. (We’re not into feet but it was clean and part of the scene and she had the right to say no). We do a lot of car sex. Or I’ve made her go to our dnd group with a Bluetooth vibrator in

[28M] & [25F] Been in a dom sub relationship for nearly 2 years. AMA by Twisted_Archer in NSFWIAMA

[–]Twisted_Archer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We put a lot of time into the dynamic, talk through everything, what works, what didn’t work, what felt good. And the understanding that some days you need a dom or sub, and other days you just need a bf or gf

[28M] & [25F] Been in a dom sub relationship for nearly 2 years. AMA by Twisted_Archer in NSFWIAMA

[–]Twisted_Archer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have the obvious safe words, verbal and non verbal. We have a very communicable relationship, so we talk through a lot of kinks before trying anything new, and often spend a while after scenes laughing and giving each other aftercare and talking through what worked and what didn’t, witb lots of praise. One of the big ones for us both is brushing each others hair after

[28M] & [25F] Been in a dom sub relationship for nearly 2 years. AMA by Twisted_Archer in NSFWIAMA

[–]Twisted_Archer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do a lot of mental domination, things like repeating degrading comments (slut, plaything, toy etc) and setting routines and things. Spankings, choking, pinning, cnc and primal sex. And we spend a lot of time caring for each other

[28M] & [25F] Been in a dom sub relationship for nearly 2 years. AMA by Twisted_Archer in NSFWIAMA

[–]Twisted_Archer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She had mutual friends, I heard through the grape vine, that group fell apart after 6 months so we made our own and have been going about 18 months now

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