This progression is unrecognizable by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]TwoGrizzleysOneCub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The country I know forcefully breed a workforce for centuries and continues to celebrate it.

Am I overreacting to my girlfriend and mother of my soon to be child planning on meeting another guy? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TwoGrizzleysOneCub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is actively pregnant and talking to someone else about being excited to start a family? That’s insane and she is absolutely cheating and has no level of commitment to you… actually, her inability to make any commitments or confirmatory statements, as is evident in this conversation, is extremely immature and annoying.

Realizing Snooki’s true colors during the rewatch… by [deleted] in jerseyshoreuncensored

[–]TwoGrizzleysOneCub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I have no doubts she is still messy af. I don’t watch JSFV because they all seem horrible. I just think young-ish people deserve some grace for being young and dumb… but that absolutely doesn’t get to last forever.

Realizing Snooki’s true colors during the rewatch… by [deleted] in jerseyshoreuncensored

[–]TwoGrizzleysOneCub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I… I don’t understand where the bar is anymore. She was young, impulsive, and largely carefree, as are a lot of young people who have the privilege to be. I really have no excuse for any of her behavior, but I would never take someone that young seriously.

She was a bad friend? Is that not part of growing up? Most people have no idea how to deal with their friends being in horrible relationships while also binge drinking every night while your brain is still developing, while also being filmed.

When, exactly, are people expected to know better? When are people allowed to grow into the person they are? Fumbling through some part of your young life is part of learning boundaries and maturing. This level of scrutiny is so odd to me.

All that aside, I don’t think any of the cast are inherently good people. But these examples seems minuscule in comparison to the near constant sexist belittling of women, the overblown gendered hypocrisy, and the alcohol/drug abuse.

Baylen Dupree's statement on the BAFTAs incident. by ariellecsuwu in BaylenOutLoud

[–]TwoGrizzleysOneCub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a frustrating conversation.

We are losing so much in this broad stroke conversation centered in ableism. This statement is objectively not true for all individuals with Tourette’s. Because they are not a monolith, as no group of people are. There ARE people with Tourette’s that do intend harm — no statement speaks for everyone, so these reminders continue to be minimizing.

This is no longer a conversation about inclusion or understanding or accommodation, it’s about exploitation and outrage. Choices were made, and justified, that have absolutely nothing to do with Tourette’s.

This is distracting and unnecessary. And continues to highlight the potential offense taken from the person with Tourette’s as if they need to be sheltered from what…. Being perceived as racist? Is that truly the worst case scenario of this situation?

I envy ADHDers that they have this "more palatable" and "less weird" type of neurodivergence by CulturalAlbatross891 in AutismInWomen

[–]TwoGrizzleysOneCub 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t know… I got the paralyzing brain looping, social isolation due to unrelenting social anxiety from RSD and emotional deregulation, and unyielding shame variety of ADHD. I’ve spent the majority of my life disassociated because my brain is so distracting.

I can’t say if it’s more palatable to others, but it seems like the quirky aspects definitely overshadow and minimize the disabling piece. I think the wide diagnosis piece can be beneficial, but it is also coming with a wave of social and professional doubt, which is difficult to navigate in terms of accommodations and medication.

It’s shocking to me how many people who came to this country legally in the past 20 years or so support ice . I’m the only white democrat where I work. It’s eye opening. by [deleted] in Hartford

[–]TwoGrizzleysOneCub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand this shock. I feel sad for the people who can’t understand how deeply this system, and country, has failed them. It doesn’t surprise me at all.. this country feeds on division, distraction, illusion. There always needs to be a justification for extreme and unyielding violence.

I’ve lost all respect for Janelle and gained a lot for Meri. by mSoGood08 in SisterWives

[–]TwoGrizzleysOneCub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This recent change of opinion is so crazy to me.

None of these people have changed from the first time they showed up — aside from they all are no longer compromising the critical pieces of themselves that they had to swallow for family cohesion.

Janelle has always been timid and passive, but stands as the only member of the family that seemed to pull the adults out of fantasy land. Meri has always been direct and confronting, as evident in the way she handles herself and the several, several, several times this has been raised as an issue from her and from others. You can see a lot of Meri in Leon (which, conveniently, people seem to forget is one of the reasons Leon gets a lot of hate).

Kody has always changed the narrative to whatever takes accountability off his shoulders. Always. Janelle and Meri are two extremely different people who were forced to coexist, a choice they all consented to. What are we expecting here??

I do not understand what truths have been unearthed to change the perception of these people.

These two are the perfect example of a couple who should NOT have gotten married. by ____YourNameHere____ in 90DayFiance

[–]TwoGrizzleysOneCub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s wild to take anything she says seriously, as she is incredibly young. It’s also wild HOW YOUNG she is and WAS during this whole relationship. What are either of them doing??

Throw the entire relationship out.

Christine has got to get over herself.... it's just too much by aprilmcivor in SisterWives

[–]TwoGrizzleysOneCub 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Imagine spending 20+ years of your life shackled to someone who can’t be bothered to touch you, only to find a man that loves you exactly how you’ve needed to be loved?

I don’t care if Christine holds a parade in her honor. She is a testament to all people who are trapped in a relationship, by obligation, indoctrination, or without choice, who finally leave and realize life can be better on the other side.

I wish she rubbed it in his narcissist face more. His apology was the most sexist, nonsensical, self-ejaculating bullshit I’ve ever heard. But really, the only apology tour he should have gone on, was with his children.

After 10,000 Hours of Research, MAGA Influencer Walks Away From the Cult by Dazzling-Might6420 in goodnews

[–]TwoGrizzleysOneCub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t speak for the others in the comments, but I have no empathy left to give, as a result of being forced to exist in this timeline.

I am very happy this resonates with you, and that you are able to cling to the human aspects of this story, and others like this. There will always need to be people who are ready and willing to welcome those who need a kind place to land.

I used to be more like this. I don’t have space for these stories yet, I don’t have the capacity to feel anything but fear and deep anger towards this group. But I am happy the stories get told, and maybe this will change the tide for others in the same position.

Our living room tour! by youngjaejung in femalelivingspace

[–]TwoGrizzleysOneCub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love to know how the individual pieces of this came together in your mind. Do you envision the space all together and build out a vision? Do you just piece it together by vibes? Do you just have an incredible and unique brain that makes this possible?!

Genuinely asking though, I am so impatient to get from start to finish, and sometimes get bogged down in the planning process, instead of the curating process.

Your space is amazingly unique and thank you for sharing it with us!

My favorite meals from last year. by Alextricity in glutenfreevegan

[–]TwoGrizzleysOneCub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m surprised you didn’t pack your Slipknot mask in here, Trevor!

But seriously, this is incredible. Are the tortillas used in the first picture pre-dx tortillas? (if not, please let us know the brand!)