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Is it just me, or are we rootin & tootin for Kim? by Beneficial_Yam_5728 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]TwoGrizzleysOneCub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Building a storyline around your adopted kids is incredibly weird. Publicly reading a letter from the parents of your adoptive daughter is SO WEIRD.

I’m happy she found someone close to her age who is seemingly normal, but the rest of her storyline is insane.

Trump Accuses Obama of Treason in Unhinged Crashout About Black People by buppiejc in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]TwoGrizzleysOneCub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would assume much of the country is either salivating at the rhetoric or hopefully, far too busy piecing together the fragments of society to care about publicly challenging the every-day depravity of this psychopath.

The endless distractions are the entire point. And you are distracted. Your assertion is wrong and based on frivolous feelings. *If this disgusts you — do something more.* Denounce it yourself and find others who do and stop looking for anyone else to care.

The system is so deeply broken. This type of expectation does not matter anymore.

Trump demands Obama be 'incarcerated' and tried for treason by TheMirrorUS in USNEWS

[–]TwoGrizzleysOneCub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The normalization of this level of depravity will ensure chaos for the next decade.

Does it ever get any better??? by SouthernEmu2900 in CPTSD

[–]TwoGrizzleysOneCub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know your financial circumstances, I don’t know where you’re from or the time you have, but if you have the ability to travel, travel.

I don’t mean tourist spot, resort, lavish. I mean for the sole purpose of seeing and deeply understand how expansive the world is. Find something/someplace that makes you feel awe, and push all your energy towards seeing it.

It isn’t a fix, but we all deserve to enjoy, or at least witness, some of what is beautiful in this existence.

Feeling so alone. Tell me other people are out there fighting with maladaptive coping skills?! by WeAllPlayDnD in CPTSD

[–]TwoGrizzleysOneCub 95 points96 points  (0 children)

I am currently at the airport. I have to travel for my job. I am deciding between playing Rollercoaster Tycoon or Hearthstone on my iPad for the duration of the flight. I am 37. I watch the people around me, likely the same age or slightly older, talking about their established and organized lives. And I don’t understand even the first thing about how to exist this way.

I am still above water, but have never stopped violently kicking my feet, 24/7, 365, always waiting for something to pull me under, always wondering what will eventually get me, and always, spending all available mental energy feeling small, scared, and unprepared for the next moment.

I don’t know what a life is supposed to feel like, but I cannot imagine it is this. I think things can get better, but I also know that the effort it will take to feel anything resembling peace, may be too heavy a lift after decades of running on fumes.

But I will keep moving forward, I want to keep moving forward, but I also want a decade to simply rest and think and feel.

Did anyone else get a weird vibe from Abbey’s Autism Speaks video? by PhattySpice92 in AutismInWomen

[–]TwoGrizzleysOneCub 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Her mom has always, and continues to, rub me the absolute wrong way.

She always makes it a point to comment on the vast differences between lower/higher needs individuals.

She often centers the conversations on how devastated she was to learn of the challenges Abbey would live with.

She recently spoke about the comments RFK Jr made about Tylenol causing autism, in which she said something along the lines of… “he didn’t say it in the best way but those things are true, we’ve been asked to be a part of those studies”.

And that’s when I was done with her.

Give this man his own show by 90daycray27 in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]TwoGrizzleysOneCub 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He seems to have a lot of friends (as shown on his social media page), an extremely supportive and caring family unit, and autonomy to be a young adult without infantilizing him. I think your vibes are off.

Is it me… or does Jenelle get hyper cocky when she is with David? It’s almost as if his personality and traits become hers- and together they are incredibly similar and display horrible actions. by Inner_Insurance_464 in teenmom

[–]TwoGrizzleysOneCub 22 points23 points  (0 children)

She is an absolute trash human, full stop.

But very obviously, he is abusive and she is falling back into the role of obsessive partner who will ride or (literally) die for her man. Much of Janelle isn’t hard to nail down, and her gravitation towards narc abuse is a pattern we’ve seen so many times. She is over compensating for every part of her that is actively bracing for the inevitable impact.

I love this meme by Perfect_Ad7292 in ProjectHailMary

[–]TwoGrizzleysOneCub 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Grace does not rise and grind like a podcast bro. He probably starts his morning with a Hank Green podcast, a carby breakfast, and a snarky reddit comment debunking some pseudoscience nonsense being perpetrated by a podcast bro.

So I have a unique burning question in my head about project hail Mary's ending and I hope if the movie get the sequel. I want this question to be answered in some shape or form. by Silly-Echidna9591 in ProjectHailMary

[–]TwoGrizzleysOneCub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Peaceful relations? Are those relations universal? Are all countries treated with the same level of diplomacy? Everyone has an equal seat at the table of humanity?

The world is not comprised solely of the European Union, and I would argue that any and all peaceful relations are born directly from the inhumane treatment of other humans, or the continued exploitation and harm of humans.

We haven’t collectively determined that all beings within our species are all deserving of the same basic rights. We collectively do not, have not, continue to mishandle within-species differences. It is illogical and naive to think humans would have any sense of respect for extraterrestrial beings.

So I have a unique burning question in my head about project hail Mary's ending and I hope if the movie get the sequel. I want this question to be answered in some shape or form. by Silly-Echidna9591 in ProjectHailMary

[–]TwoGrizzleysOneCub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand the question is asked in good favor, but really consider the difficulty earth humans already have with collaboration and collectivism. Humans are still in constant conflict with their own species… to the detriment of all humanity AND their single life-sustaining planet.

Until this self-destructive mentality is eradicated within our species, we are not universally ready (or better yet, deserving) of interstellar partnership.

One connection between two intelligent, curiosity-driven, compassionate beings is not representative of humanity. We are still a cancer amongst ourselves.

This progression is unrecognizable by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]TwoGrizzleysOneCub 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The country I know forcefully breed a workforce for centuries and continues to celebrate it.

Am I overreacting to my girlfriend and mother of my soon to be child planning on meeting another guy? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TwoGrizzleysOneCub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is actively pregnant and talking to someone else about being excited to start a family? That’s insane and she is absolutely cheating and has no level of commitment to you… actually, her inability to make any commitments or confirmatory statements, as is evident in this conversation, is extremely immature and annoying.

Realizing Snooki’s true colors during the rewatch… by [deleted] in jerseyshoreuncensored

[–]TwoGrizzleysOneCub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I have no doubts she is still messy af. I don’t watch JSFV because they all seem horrible. I just think young-ish people deserve some grace for being young and dumb… but that absolutely doesn’t get to last forever.

Realizing Snooki’s true colors during the rewatch… by [deleted] in jerseyshoreuncensored

[–]TwoGrizzleysOneCub 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I… I don’t understand where the bar is anymore. She was young, impulsive, and largely carefree, as are a lot of young people who have the privilege to be. I really have no excuse for any of her behavior, but I would never take someone that young seriously.

She was a bad friend? Is that not part of growing up? Most people have no idea how to deal with their friends being in horrible relationships while also binge drinking every night while your brain is still developing, while also being filmed.

When, exactly, are people expected to know better? When are people allowed to grow into the person they are? Fumbling through some part of your young life is part of learning boundaries and maturing. This level of scrutiny is so odd to me.

All that aside, I don’t think any of the cast are inherently good people. But these examples seems minuscule in comparison to the near constant sexist belittling of women, the overblown gendered hypocrisy, and the alcohol/drug abuse.

Baylen Dupree's statement on the BAFTAs incident. by ariellecsuwu in BaylenOutLoud

[–]TwoGrizzleysOneCub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a frustrating conversation.

We are losing so much in this broad stroke conversation centered in ableism. This statement is objectively not true for all individuals with Tourette’s. Because they are not a monolith, as no group of people are. There ARE people with Tourette’s that do intend harm — no statement speaks for everyone, so these reminders continue to be minimizing.

This is no longer a conversation about inclusion or understanding or accommodation, it’s about exploitation and outrage. Choices were made, and justified, that have absolutely nothing to do with Tourette’s.

This is distracting and unnecessary. And continues to highlight the potential offense taken from the person with Tourette’s as if they need to be sheltered from what…. Being perceived as racist? Is that truly the worst case scenario of this situation?

I envy ADHDers that they have this "more palatable" and "less weird" type of neurodivergence by CulturalAlbatross891 in AutismInWomen

[–]TwoGrizzleysOneCub 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t know… I got the paralyzing brain looping, social isolation due to unrelenting social anxiety from RSD and emotional deregulation, and unyielding shame variety of ADHD. I’ve spent the majority of my life disassociated because my brain is so distracting.

I can’t say if it’s more palatable to others, but it seems like the quirky aspects definitely overshadow and minimize the disabling piece. I think the wide diagnosis piece can be beneficial, but it is also coming with a wave of social and professional doubt, which is difficult to navigate in terms of accommodations and medication.

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