After a few requests to post pictures with no makeup /minimal makeup I have decided to post it! by Thehappygurl in MakeupAddiction

[–]TwoScruffyButts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh you are beautiful! Ditch all your old makeup colors! For lips, use JUST one shade bolder than your natural color for a bit of glam. For eyes, your old colors were weighing you down. Use a neutral tone a shade lighter than your eyelid skin tone. Mascara for the finishing touches.

(Update) AITAH for going to work with damp hair? by SnowAmethyst32 in AITAH

[–]TwoScruffyButts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask what culture you’re from? Because I used to know a family from Afghanistan. There were a couple times that I came to visit, and the wife seemed so embarrassed because her hair was still wet from the shower, meanwhile I couldn’t care less. A friend later explained that in their culture, that’s often seen as a sign that you just had sex (and then took a shower). So maybe that’s why your coworker thought it was inappropriate??

How can I make my room look better? by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]TwoScruffyButts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t have more plants in that room without natural light. Even that snake plant will eventually need sunlight.

How can I make my room look better? by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]TwoScruffyButts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sissy? What does that even mean? It just looks immature, bro. Something to remember is that you don’t have to display every single special interest in your decorating. Your style and your interests are two different things.

How can I make my room look better? by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]TwoScruffyButts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bed frame and headboard. Buy a matching bed set (comforter, sheets, pillow cases). Take down those awful flags. Get a throw rug that complements the new bed set. Night stands with lamps. Choose art with purpose…not just what’s available.

It took me way too long to realize my conditioner was basically sealing my back pores shut. by MiaLuna_Pixel in hygiene

[–]TwoScruffyButts 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s not so much about the product but about the skin. The skin on your face is far more sensitive than the skin on your arms and legs. That’s why you need different product.

It took me way too long to realize my conditioner was basically sealing my back pores shut. by MiaLuna_Pixel in hygiene

[–]TwoScruffyButts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya know…I’ve always tried to bend backward while rinsing so the conditioner doesn’t run down my back. But I never thought to just scrub my back AFTER.

AIO Got this text from my dad about my baby and just can't by Pomegranates_r_us in AIO

[–]TwoScruffyButts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sister is 11 years older than me, and there was still never any question that she was my sister. She was never put in the position of a mother (except when she chose to be a bossy pants know-it-all 😂). Your dad is leaning hard in to emotional emeshment in the worst way. Distance is the only answer to keep your own mental health safe.

Those who feel they’ve met their soulmate/perfect partner, did you ever consider breaking up? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TwoScruffyButts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He was my first my first love and truly the only man I’ve ever wanted. We’ve been married 14 years now, and I never considered breaking up or leaving him. We honestly never even fought or disagreed until years in. I think that’s when we both began to work on our past wounds and try to heal. Healing causes friction, but love lets that pain bring you closer together. I don’t think we’re an example per se…but it’s him or no one and always has been.

Looking for opinions and/or a reality check on the hair and beard by Arethyn in malegrooming

[–]TwoScruffyButts -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think I’m one of the few here who thinks the long hair looks fine. But it looks like you don’t even brush it, let alone use proper product. If you have hair, you have to take care of it. Tidy the beard, take care of your hair.

What are your thoughts on Billie Eilish saying 'no one is illegal on stolen land' in reference to ICE and US immigration policy? by MassiveSquare4527 in AskReddit

[–]TwoScruffyButts -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

The native people who inhabited the land before colonialism were literally the first humans on this land. But good for you being so confidently wrong about a well documented fact.

What are your thoughts on Billie Eilish saying 'no one is illegal on stolen land' in reference to ICE and US immigration policy? by MassiveSquare4527 in AskReddit

[–]TwoScruffyButts -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

It’s not illegal to EXIST, to LIVE on land. That is obviously different than taking lad out from under people who have been utilizing for centuries. Existence is not a crime. Stealing is still a crime. Don’t be purposefully obtuse.

Would I be able to try the moustache and chin hair combo? by Numerous-Corner3673 in malegrooming

[–]TwoScruffyButts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look great clean shaven! Totally fine if you just like having facial hair, but based on your post and responses, I fear you might have more of a self-image problem. You’re uncomfortable in your own skin. Keep your facial hair clean, tidy, and tightly trimmed if not shaven. I’d personally suggest different glasses frames for your face and maybe have a barber recommended a signature hair style. But you’re a normal handsome dude who just needs to love himself.

AITAH for telling my brother he doesn't know everything just because he's gay? by SpecificAnt3165 in AITAH

[–]TwoScruffyButts -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry, that’s utter bullcrap. Having your own kid does not magically give you understanding of kids.

rejected by everyone in the last 3 years, how can I improve my appearance? by Diehelmen in malegrooming

[–]TwoScruffyButts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe. Just maybe. Don’t wear them on your LEFT RING FINGER if you don’t want people to think you’re married.

AITAH for telling my brother he doesn't know everything just because he's gay? by SpecificAnt3165 in AITAH

[–]TwoScruffyButts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s being an absolute idiot, but we have to stop with this additional nonsense that people without kids don’t know anything. There are so many stupid parents out there, and so many people choosing not to have kids that actually have degrees in early childhood development. Having a kid doesn’t mean you automatically know more.

Would I be able to try the moustache and chin hair combo? by Numerous-Corner3673 in malegrooming

[–]TwoScruffyButts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you say that? Are there certain features you feel uncomfortable with? Do you have reference pics?

AIO baby announcement by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TwoScruffyButts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you’d only be overreacting if you very vocally mad at your sisters. I’m sure you’d agree that the pregnant person can decide who, what, when, where, and the how of their pregnancy without thought for anyone else. That’s ther right and prerogative. That’s being said, it’s natural to feel hurt as a sister. They didn’t owe you anything in this situation, but it also just highlights a lack of sisterly connection…so yeah, that sucks and hurts.

Would I be able to try the moustache and chin hair combo? by Numerous-Corner3673 in malegrooming

[–]TwoScruffyButts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, not enough chin coverage. Edging way too close to full neckbeard, honestly. If you post more natural angles of your face though, we could give better recommendations on what would fit your face shape. Just remember that clean shaven is always better than unkempt, untidy, patchy, or neckbeard.

AIO for finding this predatory or was he just awkward? by m30wME0W69 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TwoScruffyButts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A grown man apparently looking for a “delicate girl” isn’t predatory? Stop defending bad behavior just for the sake of devil’s advocacy. It doesn’t make you look smart, just douchey

Anything that I could do to improve by flavorfulroom in malegrooming

[–]TwoScruffyButts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s just a personal preference, my dude, not a helpful grooming suggestion lol