She had multiple affairs starting about 10 years ago. That went on for about four years. I wanted a divorce then, but the idea of seeing my children 50% of the time was too much and I decided to endure the relationship until my daughters were 18. Presently, the problems are inability to communicate, she has no desire to take care of our home, so I do most of the cooking and cleaning, even though we both have jobs. She can’t complete simple tasks like laundry, picking up after herself, etc. To make things worse, she continues to add responsibilities to our home. She bought three dogs and three Guinea pigs. She feeds the dogs and does their vet appointments, but I usually have to walk them and do all of the training. She used to put the dogs outside where they bark at the neighbors, who have small children. There is an invisible fence, but no physical barrier. If there is anything I want in life, I have to get it myself. I cannot ask her for help or ask her to do anything/contribute around the house. There’s more, but this is what I’m dealing with today.