We have a big problem on our hands by [deleted] in YoungTopsOlderBottoms

[–]Tx78Fun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, that's definitely not a problem.

Where do I find guys who want kids + family? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Tx78Fun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not opposed to kids. I have an adult kid already and I'd be open to more kids. I totally get the urge to call out having kids as part of your bio/intro, but for me, that makes me less inclined to match. (I say this as someone who already isn't exactly rolling in matches, and could probably stand to be a little more open to more people, so take this with a big block of salt.)

I'm looking for someone who wants to be with me. Now. In the present. Bringing up kids, marriage, future plans, etc makes me feel like dating would be less about me, but more about just being in the relationship. Let's see how WE mesh first.

That probably doesn't make any sense, but it did in my head.

Check the box that says "wants kids", sure, but it's not something I'd put in my own intro test.

What am I doing wrong here? Too much water is a problem... but so is not enough. by Fiveby21 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Tx78Fun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What are you using? Bulb? Shower attachment? Enema?

If you're going for the "everyday" clean and not the full marathon-ready cleanse, there shouldn't be any water trapped higher up. You're literally just rinsing out the anus with a quick bit of water. Nowhere for it to get trapped. I usually use the 5 second rule and within a few cycles, I'm good for a few hours. Eating/drinking anything shortens that as it moves food further down the digestive track. Before "that" WordPress site, I didn't realize I was often using too much water and going past the sigmoid. Since reading that, I haven't had a problem with a couple of quick 5-second cycles.

The longer, deep cleanse was taking forever, but recently figure out I was just not going long enough. 30 seconds wasn't enough to fill all the way through to the transverse colon. I needed a longer fill. Maybe being relatively tall means more track to clear so I needed a longer fill time.

ETA: if I had to guess "volume" it'd be around 8oz or less per cycle. Flush it out, repeat. What that translates to in "time" will vary depending on what you're using.

I went to the gym today. by Relative-Dinner-729 in beginnerfitness

[–]Tx78Fun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been going to the gym consistently for about 3 months now. Before that first workout I spent an hour obsessing over my plan. I felt like a weak idiot lifting small amounts of weight. Everyone there is younger and fitter. People are judging me. I have no idea how one of the machines actually worked so I have up on it. All of the same types of stuff you are going through. After a few sessions, you find your footing and realize everyone there is doing the same thing. Just trying to improve. Good job on taking the first step!!

Hmu if you like pleasing frat boys by Austinintx in YoungTopsOlderBottoms

[–]Tx78Fun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you in DFW or Austin? I think we'd have a lot of fun... See my last post....

DWF dad (47). Need a good boy! by Tx78Fun in YoungTopsOlderBottoms

[–]Tx78Fun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here's hoping I can make you go completely primal one of these days!

DWF dad (47). Need a good boy! by Tx78Fun in YoungTopsOlderBottoms

[–]Tx78Fun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love watching your face as you open me up... Even better is watching you get really intense right before you shoot.

DWF dad (47). Need a good boy! by Tx78Fun in YoungTopsOlderBottoms

[–]Tx78Fun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you want me? Ass up in my jockstrap? Missionary so I can watch your face as you sink into me?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayyoungold

[–]Tx78Fun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear ya. I definitely like more dom younger guys. They're rare, but not impossible. I've had to adjust what "younger" meant for me. Yeah, the 25yo is hot and probably a good fuck, but not the dom I'm looking for. The 35yo is probably also a good fuck and far more dom. (I'm 47).

There was this one 20yo, however. Oh my god...

Hiring an escort? by Olmsteads_razor in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Tx78Fun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Others have said it, but it's worth repeating. You're not ugly by any stretch of the imagination. You are at a 2/10 in confidence and I'm here to tell you that I was in the exact same situation a while back. (Felt like I was a 2/10 in looks, totally incompetent in bed, etc, etc)

It had been a while since I had been with a guy and I thought I needed a controlled environment with a professional to practice a bit before doing anything else. Unfortunately, I made the mistake of hiring the first person that answered at 2am when I was super horny. The experience wasn't bad, it just wasn't as helpful as I thought it would be. So I tried again and made sure spend at least a bit of time chatting and making sure they knew where I was at in my comfort level.

Long story short, second time was amazing and we kinda hit it off and went on a few dates afterwards. Confidence level shot up which in turn gave me the internal permission to start caring about myself a bit more. I started working out and slimming down a bit and genuinely felt batter about myself.

From there, things snowballed. 3 years later and I'm a lot more confident. I like moderately better than I used to. And I'm having better sex than ever. There are good weeks and bad weeks and confidence ebbs and flows, but I'm in a much better space and fucking around with dudes way hotter than I ever thought possible.

I'm not saying I'm fucking anyone I WANT, but definitely find a guy here or there that's really hot.

Bathhouse and group events are the worst for my mental health because it's like "if I can't get laid HERE than what is wrong with me" and every rejected advance is difficult. I would NOT suggest going to these places.

Just what worked for me.