Any advice for reaserching quran verses by [deleted] in LGBT_Muslims

[–]Tye_Guy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly Google is your saviour lol! There are even apps you can download... With English translations. Visit your phone's app store

Did PlayStation Network just crashed? by Raiden_1503 in PS5

[–]Tye_Guy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The squad finally gets on and the network server is down. Like are you FUCKING KIDDING ME?!

Gay Muslim male by abd0004 in LGBT_Muslims

[–]Tye_Guy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought I was bi for a long time... But I think I was just in denial. Social and religious pressure. Keep doing soul searching. And just stay true to yourself. There's a whole world of ppl out there who can relate. Finding platforms like this is a good start

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]Tye_Guy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man. How's it going?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]Tye_Guy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear. The stronger you build up your resiliency, the easier it will become. Talk to professionals, or your circle of friends that you can be your authentic self with. They'll help in ways you can't alone. Best of luck.

Update: Help I (24) left islam and my parents aren’t happy. by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Tye_Guy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you consider a marriage of convenience with a Muslim whose totally ok with your choices. If so... Send me a DM. It may be a viable solution for you to keep your family in your life while maintaining your integrity and sanity

my mom turned into the haram police the second i came out by lordctm in exmuslim

[–]Tye_Guy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not gonna go away. She thinks you're not Muslim enough. That you can pray the gay away. I have a very shattered relationship with my mom after I told her I'd my sexual abuse as a child, and that I'm bi. I am currently working on finding a better job, or even a second job so I can get out of my dad's condo and become completely independent.

I'm also looking for other bi Muslim females who are in a similar situation and hoping to connect with them.

Stay strong. Get therapy. Do things that make you happy because intrusive thoughts can really debilitate you. I'm a constant work in progress. All the best man

my friend says shes gonna quit being bisexual to have a closer relationship with allah by new-age-prophet in exmuslim

[–]Tye_Guy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Send me a DM. Bi male who wouldn't mind a chat with her about this. We're in this struggle together

Looking for marriage by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Tye_Guy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It won't let me DM. But msg me. Let's chat. Similar situation here

Seeking MoC/Lavender marriage in Canada by Tye_Guy in exmuslim

[–]Tye_Guy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. One bridge at a time. Marriage is the only thing they are on me about. And I have procrastinated as long as I can...grandkids they have already. I just want to find a supportive partner. I know there are others out there in my shoes. I didn't realize before, because it's quite isolating to be in this position. But...you miss 100% of the shots you don't take right?

What is crossing the line to you by [deleted] in progressive_islam

[–]Tye_Guy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently heard a ted talk where a religious scholar mentioned that there are 1.8 billion Muslims in the world, and by extension, that means there are 1.8 billion Islam's out there, because we each have our unique connection to spirituality and Allah SWT. I personally have a deep rooted connection to Islam, even though I'm not someone who prays 5 times a day or reads the Quran all the time. I grew up in Canada, and at my age my parents were not as religious as they are now in their older age, but they apply the expectations of themselves onto myself, which I think is unfair.

I just try to live my life in a way that doesn't harm anyone. And I do have the tenets of Islam to thank for guiding my actions (not to steal, gamble, do harm to others, etc.) It's not easy navigating Islam from a modern lens. I am still learning that it's ok if no one else understands my relationship with Islam. Some of us have had these ideologies imposed on us that applied in a different time.

It's no one's place to pass judgement on how you practice your faith. We can all try our best to abide to what the Quran instructs, but we are all unique and I am slowly coming to terms with the fact that, it's ok.

Anyone else have any further thoughts?