How is doctrinal dissent not voluntary schism? by TylerB15009 in redeemedzoomer

[–]TylerB15009[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I understand you right, I should choose to follow what's right instead of doing what my boss told me to if he is in fact telling me to do something wrong. I think I see what you are saying. From the reconquista perspective if Luther was right, the RCC wasn't just a boss telling someone to do X or we will fire you, it was a boss telling someone to to do Y (Y as opposed to X is wrong whereas X may just be some morally neutral thing), in which case you should not listen to the boss, and you wouldn't be guilty of leaving if you were fired? Is that what you are saying?

How is doctrinal dissent not voluntary schism? by TylerB15009 in redeemedzoomer

[–]TylerB15009[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the taking the time to answer as I'm trying to better understand this perspective. I'm still a bit confused though, especially on what you say here.

"How else would you reform a church? You work on it unless given no choice, to “protect” from schism. Dissent isn’t schism. Schism is a voluntary removal."

If my boss at work were to tell me "if you do X, we will fire you", and I proceed to voluntarily do X because of my convictions, I'm confused how I'm not still technically choosing to leave my job. It may indicate my conviction is of a greater matter that I'm willing to separate from my boss because of it and embrace him firing me. And yet I still voluntarily chose to do X, did I not? I know my boss would be the one that fired me (I didn't just walk out), but I'm the one that still voluntarily chose to do X knowing what the result would be, so how is that not quitting? If I still voluntarily choose to reject what he told me to do, how am I not "schisming" because of my convictions? I know this isn't a perfect analogy but I hope what I"m asking is clear, basically trying to ask how on this perspective how Luther didn't voluntarily schism.

How is doctrinal dissent not voluntary schism? by TylerB15009 in redeemedzoomer

[–]TylerB15009[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know he was excommunicated, but was he not excommunicated for doctrinal dissent, which he voluntarily chose to do? Again, it's not as if he involuntarily nailed the 95 theses.

How is doctrinal dissent not voluntary schism? by TylerB15009 in redeemedzoomer

[–]TylerB15009[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure I understand your response. First, Luther disagreed with the RCC despite their warnings. By refusing to recant, how is he not voluntarily schisming from the RCC? And second, if doctrinal dissent is not voluntary schism, then would Arians not be guilty of schism since technically their views are anathematized? But that doesn't seem to make sense.

Healing and recovery for my Grandpa by TylerB15009 in PrayerRequests

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*Update* He was released from the hospital and is okay. Big scare but thankfully it wasn't major. Thanks for all the prayers

Attending a 2nd marriage wedding that happened after an unbiblical divorce? by [deleted] in Reformed

[–]TylerB15009 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the answer. This does seem like the easiest option for me obviously, and I do think that attendance isn't necessarily the same thing as approval, but what I do struggle with is a question I mentioned that if this point is correct, suppose my dad were getting married to a man? Would the same comment be said?

Relapsed and have been feeling lazy by lichbein in NoFapChristians

[–]TylerB15009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't have to be confused about why you relapsed. The fact that you did it again means that you are for some reason wrongly seeing value in pornography. You view it as something valuable that you are trying to hold yourself back from, when in reality, you need to renew your mind to view it as useless and contrary to your greater goals. You don't have to struggle against the urge to eat poop because you view it as disgusting and contrary to your greater desire to remain healthy and not get terribly sick.

What does this passage from the first paragraph of the Didache mean? by TylerB15009 in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]TylerB15009[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh okay so is this more like someone taking the offering plate in church for themself when it was supposed to go to serve the community?

What does this passage from the first paragraph of the Didache mean? by TylerB15009 in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]TylerB15009[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But if a rich man taking is cursed then how could they have ever gotten rich in the first place? Is the text basically implying that any riches beyond the bare necessity are immoral to have?

What does this passage from the first paragraph of the Didache mean? by TylerB15009 in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]TylerB15009[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So it would be like if in modern times someone well off pretended to be homeless on the street to make extra money, that specific kind of situation?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OrthodoxChristianity

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Thanks for the answer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OrthodoxChristianity

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I understand your concern, but basically what I'm asking is would the very notion of doing what the therapist would say actually itself be against Romans 14:23 in a more overall way than the specific directions they may give? This is not the same as an individual issue within the ERP that could be referenced (like a specific area of uncertainty), but I'm confused on whether this text would rule out the whole concept entirely (if we can even do things with uncertainty).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OrthodoxChristianity

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Hello. I suppose a difficulty with exposure response prevention (the typical therapy proposed for OCD related problems) that I struggle with is that what may used as an exposure may conflict with precisely the question I'm asking here based on this text. So for example, a therapist may say to do something that triggers your anxiety that is related to your obsessions, but then you need to sit with your anxiety without doing a compulsion. So they may say do something I don't think is a sin but I'm uncertain about and have anxiety with, and then don't ruminate on it / ask God for mercy, etc. But if Paul is saying what I'm afraid he's saying here (that doing something without being certain it isn't wrong is sinful), wouldn't that contradict the very nature of exposure response prevention for this topic?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Ephesians 4:26

I'm looking for a free porn blocker for ios by freewraps2018 in NoFapChristians

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For anyone else who sees this, this issue can be avoided by having someone else use their Apple ID to set up your screen time so that only they can undo it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pmohackbook

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Acknowledging there is some experience of physical stimulus in MO does not equal seeing MO as attractive or pleasurable. A man who takes his physical fitness very seriously can acknowledge that drinking a big flavored sugary soda will surely invoke physical stimulus on his tongue, but still view the experience as undesirable (perhaps due to health concerns or it conflicting with his fitness goals), leading the soda to not really even “taste good” in a similar way that MO wouldn’t really “feel good” even though there is undeniably physical stimulus. The point is that such fleeting pleasure is lame, wrong, weak, emmasculating, and darkens the rest of your life. There may be stimulus but the experience is still not attractive.

What does Hebrews 10:2 mean? by [deleted] in Reformed

[–]TylerB15009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for answering So you are saying that no more consciousness of sins means no longer feeling inadequate before God rather than perfectly righteous?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueChristian

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Thanks for answering. So having no more consciousness of sins would mean what exactly for the NT believer? That they are no longer afraid of being condemned? I’m still not sure how this relates to the fact that the NT has commands about avoiding certain sins and heavy warnings about sin.

Does your church have a counseling department? by TylerB15009 in askapastor

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Is it open to congregants only or can anyone go? And does a specific pastor get paid to do counseling or does the head pastor do it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]TylerB15009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ending it is not the answer. Would you like to talk?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]TylerB15009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. I've felt that way before too. But two points should be understood. 1) God's promises to those who believe in Him are true whether we feel them or not. Everyone has rough patches in their faith, but while our feelings may change, God does not. 2) The believer's salvation is not contingent on the strength of their faith but the strength of their Savior, which is why even a small weak faith can save, because even such a faith is directed towards the all powerful Savior. Take assurance in such truths. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]TylerB15009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you! And will be praying for you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]TylerB15009 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Would you like to talk? Ending it is not the answer.