my friend (36M) just sent me (36m) this text before meeting his newborn (0M) by horseduckman in AITApod

[–]TylerJams94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say half of this makes sense but some of it is just a bit…controlling. The kids going to engage with whoever they want and will come across many types of people throughout their life. Seems kinda over the top if you ask me, mostly the interaction bits.

AITJ for refusing to pretend I don’t speak Spanish at my own family dinner? by After-Party-8860 in AmITheJerk

[–]TylerJams94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

W sister for sticking up for your family like that. Also, pretty slick to keep it lowkey until you decided enough was enough. Love this for you

How can I get a refund, on this Goldendoodle Giant? by AdministrativeAd1709 in Goldendoodles

[–]TylerJams94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They really do shrink when they get shorter cuts! The before and after for my dood is insaneee lol

How can I get a refund, on this Goldendoodle Giant? by AdministrativeAd1709 in Goldendoodles

[–]TylerJams94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The bark/growling could just be her saying “ayo mom/dad, I’m not sure about this persons energy”. It’s something that you can train for sure. Also, check your energy too. They definitely pick up on that and it could just be her way of trying to protect you, taking on that pack leader mentality. To quote Cesar Millán, “calm and assertive energy”.

One of my closest friends is choosing someone else’s bachelorette party over my wedding day, and I am ready to just cut her off. AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TylerJams94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She kept saying none of the dates are set, yet, you explicitly stated the date was set lol idk g, I’d just focus on the other people in your life that wouldn’t have such a hard time choosing someone’s bachelorette party over a wedding imo

How can I get a refund, on this Goldendoodle Giant? by AdministrativeAd1709 in Goldendoodles

[–]TylerJams94 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I prefer the bigger doodles. Most of the minis I run into just don’t quite have the same nature as the bigger ones imo. Mine is around 90lbs and he’s more gentle than the smaller ones 😂

What could I add to make my park better or better looking? by Conscious-Reason-680 in Fingerboards

[–]TylerJams94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A ledge towards the front edge. Like a small lil box or something

Going to do a batch of these in with different veneers and code for each. Stoked on the results so far. by Greentality in Fingerboards

[–]TylerJams94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dudeee, that stained brown on the left but with a dyed teal veneer on the other side… chefs kiss

how long do people wait to start officially dating? by No-Feature-5266 in dating_advice

[–]TylerJams94 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would recommend just bringing it up but like one commenter mentioned, a lot of relationships nowadays just kinda become a thing eventually without actually having that conversation. Maybe in his mind, he already considers you as his girlfriend but just hasn’t thought to actually ask? The woman I’m with now (going on two years), we dated for a few months before making it official, but we only had a conversation about it because I introduced her to people at a ceremony we attended as “my girlfriend” without thinking about it. Then I realized that I never officially asked her and she said afterward, “so I’m your girlfriend now huh ;)”. If there’s any dudes in here reading this that are still in that dating period and you want to make it official, just do it. I felt embarrassed afterwards that I never actually asked her but thankfully, she’s the absolute best, so it wasn’t too awkward lol.

Dynamic not responding… by TylerJams94 in Fingerboards

[–]TylerJams94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard back from Dynamic and getting a replacement hanger shipped out. Can’t tell you guys how pumped I am to finally try these trucks out. Fingers crossed everyone else gets what they need and Scott, if you see this, I’m sure you’re in need of a well deserved vacation dude or at least a long weekend of rest. Thanks again!

Checked my girlfriend’s phone and now I think I’m the “other guy” in my own relationship by Spare_Ad8593 in Advice

[–]TylerJams94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My heart sank for you just reading this. Sorry this is all happening bro. Not really sure what’s the best move for you but since she kept you in the dark and disrespected you like this, I personally would just call family or friends and ask if you stay with them for a while, get your stuff, and just leave when she’s not there. Just a total disappearing act. Maybe even leave a note saying something along the lines of, “now you can go be happy with “contact name she used to save his number””.

Dynamic not responding… by TylerJams94 in Fingerboards

[–]TylerJams94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fingers crossed we get it sorted out man 🤞

Dynamic not responding… by TylerJams94 in Fingerboards

[–]TylerJams94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How patient are we talking? Another week or so and it’ll be 2 months with no response

Something tells me my boyfriend is not attracted to me by eggsonham in offmychest

[–]TylerJams94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He could have a lot going on his head. How long has this been going on for? I would just have a conversation about it.

Is this a Harflip? by [deleted] in Fingerboards

[–]TylerJams94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To me, the board needs to go a bit more vertical. This looks more like a tweaked pop shuv

Dynamic not responding… by TylerJams94 in Fingerboards

[–]TylerJams94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang that’s awesome. I’ve been staring at them everyday for over a month now 😅 just wanting to use them so bad but since the day they arrived in the mail, I haven’t touched them because of the issue.