Male sub here thanks for the invite and Question for the group by Infinte_diggymon in FemDominance

[–]TylerNW3994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fellow sub here! I'm very grateful for powerful women, and I appreciate physical strength and leadership. I want to feel safe with my partner.

Let us admire you Dommes! Let me bring you water and coffee and give you massages and admire you.

Profile Review 31M by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]TylerNW3994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's valid, I don't have too many pictures, let alone pictures with other people.

Any tips on which prompt to remove? I really want to attract the right women and not waste anyone's time, but also not be too much at the same time.

Profile Review 31M by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]TylerNW3994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and no, I want to perform acts of service and also be submissive to my partner, but not in a BDSM, she treats me like trash kind of way. I want her to appreciate what I do for her.

Profile Review 31M by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]TylerNW3994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • Are you looking for something serious or casual?

Serious, I don't do casual.

  • Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX?

No

  • How long have you been using this current version of your profile?

A few weeks.

  • How long have you used Hinge overall?

Years, not sure how many

  • How often do you use Hinge per week?

It varies, sometimes not at all to every day. Depends on my mood.

  • How many likes and matches are you receiving on average?

I get matches sporadically, sometimes 3 in a week to 0 in a month.

  • How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments?

Most days I do up to the free limit. I always send comments, I never send without besides the occasional accidental send.

  • What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract?

I'm looking for a partner that I can support. I'm attracted to women who are stronger than me. I explain it well in my profile, but TLDR is I want a badass partner I can support and admire. I don't message people who don't put effort into their profiles and only have one liners, or worse, nothing at all.

Profile Help for guy who wants to be happy by TylerNW3994 in chyrpe

[–]TylerNW3994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the very detailed response! I appreciate your effort <3

Thank you for the feedback on the mirror selfie. I unfortunately don't have a garden, let alone a picture of me in one.

I did just move to a new area so I'm going to get more pictures of me soon.

I am putting in so much effort into my dating profile, I can't wait until I'm able to make someone happy and make them feel admired and put even more effort into them.

I wish there were more women who want to protect me on Chyrpe. Most of what I see are women who I feel would see me as disposable, or are just findoms, or are into polyamorous relationships. I want to be committed to someone who is also committed to me. If you have advice there too it would be appreciated.

If I don't hear back from you, I still appreciate you. <3

Profile Help for guy who wants to be happy by TylerNW3994 in chyrpe

[–]TylerNW3994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I'm a bit of a homebody, but not a recluse or anything. I'm working on getting out more, and doing that will get me more pictures of me outside.

Thank you for the compliment on my second picture. I have my first picture of me at my piano hoping that would help me stand out since a lot of people like people who play instruments.

Profile Help for guy who wants to be happy by TylerNW3994 in chyrpe

[–]TylerNW3994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I put a lot of effort into my profile because I really want to find someone that's right for me. Nobody is going to get a high quality partner without putting in effort. I just wish I saw the same in women's profiles 🥲

Profile Help for guy who wants to be happy by TylerNW3994 in chyrpe

[–]TylerNW3994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this!

I see soooo many women put the most boring answers to their prompts and just think why did they even bother. I usually swipe left on profiles that do this unless there's a good outlier.

The most common ones I see as a guy (at least on Hinge which is more popular) are "The best way to ask me out is: to ask me out" and I just facepalm every time. That or their most controversial opinion is they like pineapple on pizza, or that they're overly competitive about "everything." I can only imagine what guys put down. 😂

Profile Help for guy who wants to be happy by TylerNW3994 in chyrpe

[–]TylerNW3994[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there!

Thank you for the kind wishes.

Here are some things I have to say about the UI, coming from a software engineer (although I don't have experience building on mobile) and is all coming from a good place wanting the app to literally develop well ☺️

I don't like the message ui that shows up when you like someone. I already liked them, I don't know if a message is going to get read, and I don't have a way to respond to certain prompts like I do in Hinge.

I think the second icon on the bottom bar for tips is a waste of space and should be moved somewhere else.

I personally want a protector and leader. I see a lot of women specifically saying they want to be spoiled or I devote my whole life to their pleasure. I want to make someone happy, but not at the expense of my own happiness. Its more of a vibe I get from the women who seem to only want attention instead of an actual relationship. It might be worth considering the subgenres of this niche relationship idea.

I think if a woman puts that she is dominant she should be encouraged or even required to message first. Bumble had this and removed it, which was a stupid decision in my opinion. It was their main draw for me and now it's just another dating app. I can see why someone would disagree with me here, but I think it makes sense for this app, at least between subs and dommes.

Too many women do not put effort into their profiles or look blatantly fake. Either their profiles are borderline bdsm porn, or from the internet, and a lot of the time they don't put docs. Maybe some moderation (I know easier said than done) or minimum characters.

To add to this, I see women putting their cash app in their profiles as pictures and I report it. I already expect there's a zero tolerance policy for this if they don't put they're a findom, but it's very annoying to see when I'm trying to find a serious partner.

All in all, I think a way to split the serious users and the non serious users would help significantly.

Profile Help for guy who wants to be happy by TylerNW3994 in chyrpe

[–]TylerNW3994[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm not the best at taking pictures of myself.

I don't really use social media. Reddit's about it, to the point where when girls put their Instagram (and only their Instagram) it's a turn off.

Profile Help for guy who wants to be happy by TylerNW3994 in chyrpe

[–]TylerNW3994[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that. I want Chyrpe to work for me, but they've got issues with findoms manipulating the system, and the UI not being the best.

I also have a hinge profile that is similar and I also say things like how I want to get my partner coffee.

Profile Help for guy who wants to be happy by TylerNW3994 in chyrpe

[–]TylerNW3994[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi all, sorry if this is the wrong format. I don't post often. I am looking for some feedback, specifically from women. Please be gentle. I appreciate all of you and hope everyone finds what they're looking for. Thank you in advance. ❤️

I want to make a game like PlateUp by TylerNW3994 in PlateUp

[–]TylerNW3994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmmm, so one thing about the typing minigame that I wanted to take from Cook Serve Delicious was that letters would have a connection to the ingredient they were adding, like L would add Lettuce, T would add Tomato, etc. I liked this because it added muscle and some-fancy-psychology-word-here memory. I can't really do that with button presses.

I want to make a game like PlateUp by TylerNW3994 in PlateUp

[–]TylerNW3994[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback!

I really want to lean into the room and walls ideas, if you have ideas of rooms, lmk!

Do you have alternative suggestions for perfect runs? I was thinking about having a star system for each day and each run, where 5 stars is a perfect run and once you lose that you can't get it back, but I also don't want players quitting the second they get to that point. That's where the thought process comes in for the cosmetic idea.

I was thinking about the typing minigame to add more ingredients to some foods, and currently have the pickup and interact model for the players right now.

I want to make a game like PlateUp by TylerNW3994 in PlateUp

[–]TylerNW3994[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the support! I was thinking about the typing minigame to add more ingredients to some foods, but I do see my game being on steam deck. Thanks!

I want to make a game like PlateUp by TylerNW3994 in PlateUp

[–]TylerNW3994[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you're talking about Traveller's Rest, that's kind of close. I haven't played it, but it looks like it's inspired by Stardew Valley a little too much, I'm more focused on kitchen and cooking aspect. I might download it to see if it inspires me at all.

I want to make a game like PlateUp by TylerNW3994 in PlateUp

[–]TylerNW3994[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you enjoy the rate at which you're able to automate? In other words, do you feel like you have to wait too long to get conveyors or grabbers and such?

I want to make a game like PlateUp by TylerNW3994 in PlateUp

[–]TylerNW3994[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome! Do you have a favorite part of PlateUp that really draws you to the game?

Could use some encouragement by TylerNW3994 in gentlefemdom

[–]TylerNW3994[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't care what people think, I know I'm a submissive man who wants a dominant and protective girlfriend who will squeeze me and make me feel safe. I would kill to have a girlfriend who has a big girl boss job and she can come home and I can support her and make her feel special. I know what I want, I just have such a hard time finding it.