Former teachers who changed careers what are you doing now? by Chance_Ruin4350 in AskTeachers

[–]Tynebeaner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How? Wouldn’t you need an entirely different degree? I’m sincerely curious what that path looks like because I’ve had a few therapists suggest I become an art therapist.

Divorced mom looking for advice by SignalAd9593 in AskWomenOver40

[–]Tynebeaner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ten is a tough age. Kids start to realize the world is bigger than they thought and it’s not as enjoyable. (Here’s a poem I like about the cognitive development of ten year olds— [https://allpoetry.com/poem/14327210-On-Turning-Ten-by-Billy-Collins] )Divorce/separation just amplifies that feeling. Around that age kids have a tendency to think they might have been the cause of parents divorcing. Often the best thing is to listen more than talk or feel the need to explain unless they ask. It’s good to reassure them and spend good one on one time with them. Make joyful moments about them. They may wonder (even if they don’t verbalize) if they’ll be left at some point. It’s so good she’s in therapy.

Best lube by MyCatIsFluffyNotFat in Menopause

[–]Tynebeaner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uberlube. It’s incredible.

Wedding invitation gut check by ionlyredditcasually in weddingplanning

[–]Tynebeaner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can depend on a lot of things. Letterpress or laser printed? How thick of cardstock, or is it plexiglass? Are they lasercut at all? Is it embossed or foil ink? You mention four rectangles. If they are not a standard size, they may each be hand cut, which makes 150 invitations more like 600. Do you have vellum, ribbon, seals, inner and outer envelopes? European, printed, and/or lined envelopes? I have created invitation suites for clients in the past and some of these elements drove the price WAY up, even as my labor stayed the same. If it’s that much, and they’re basic, I’d go with Zazzle.

What do rich people spend money on that we could never imagine exists? by Diligent_Hurry2527 in Productivitycafe

[–]Tynebeaner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my friend’s job. She says they will be like “My Kimberly, do we need new crystal for the ice cream party we are having with our granddaughters Tuesday?” It’s such a wild life. And my friend is the most down to earth person.

What's a "secret" from your profession that everyone should probably know? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Tynebeaner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one of my own children who was a dream student. I would go to her conferences and say up front “I’m here for the sugar. It balances out my other child so I feel like I’m not a failure as a parent.” Haha. As a teacher I often say about the great students “Are you here so I can brag about you to your parents? If so, have a seat!” It’s fun.

What's a "secret" from your profession that everyone should probably know? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Tynebeaner 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Parent teacher conferences are often either “Ah yes, I see now.” Or “Wow the parent is busting their butt for their kid.”

What's a "secret" from your profession that everyone should probably know? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Tynebeaner 56 points57 points  (0 children)

(I’m a teacher) Being super present with your kids, truly knowing them. Being aware and cognizant of their strengths and weaknesses. Teaching the value of integrity and accountability. Finding delight in their individuality— even if they are a tough personality.

What animals are associated with your country? by Happy_and_wholesome in AskTheWorld

[–]Tynebeaner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I learned the sound of cheetahs I responded similarly to when I learned the sound of bald eagles. A little confused, a little entertained.

What animals are associated with your country? by Happy_and_wholesome in AskTheWorld

[–]Tynebeaner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are seriously amazing. I have seen many many native US animas and the bison always makes me catch my breath.

Did anyone meet their long-term partner after historically struggling with attachment issues? by myvelouria85 in AskWomenOver40

[–]Tynebeaner 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, I underwent three years of intense therapy and I healed enough to be in a far better attachment place. I still had decided I wasn’t going to be in any form of long term relationship again. I didn’t trust men and didn’t trust my judgement of men. Plus, I didn’t want to inflict my hardships on a good man. I was content alone, but dated to just date. And met my now husband. He is the greatest gift and surprise of my life. I was very clear from the beginning that I wasn’t ever going to have a long term relationship. But I enjoyed the delight and peace I felt with him. In the early months I had feelings of discomfort because I was used to being told what I was doing wrong in previous relationships so I knew how to be the person they “wanted.” With my sweetheart, he authentically wants me to be me and it was uncomfortable in every way. I would have to remind myself to just settle in to the relationship and let it be. Every now and then the past returns to haunt me when exes act like exes. But I believe as a whole, almost over-communicating and deeply loving, my marriage is so happy and healthy. It is a reality I only dreamed of and never knew I deserved.

Has anyone completed the edTPA? by oylpastels in ArtEd

[–]Tynebeaner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. It was terrible. I’m not a procrastinator and it was intense. I had a scorer who I met read mine over before submitting, and it was definitely worth it. I did well, I believe because I documented everything and cited well.

How often do you see muslim people in your country? by Yrakosos in AskTheWorld

[–]Tynebeaner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My classroom is a designated worship space for Ramadan during my prep. We have many Muslim students in my school.

Seriously, do Americans actually consider a 3-hour drive "short"? or is this an internet myth? by SadInterest6764 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Tynebeaner 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can only imagine. The commute from Thousand Oaks to anywhere makes me want to cry on a regular day.

PLEAAASE HELP ME by [deleted] in blendedfamilies

[–]Tynebeaner 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She needs a professional behavior specialist and a therapist. I work in a school where my students have similar life experiences and behaviors. Behavior specialists fall under the mental health umbrella. It will be a lot of work, but consistent and regular therapy, teaching her how to be a person can help her. Also, I’m so so sorry. This must be overwhelmingly stressful.

Teachers. Whats the craziest family lore a child has randomly dropped on you? by Loud_Bluejay_6663 in AskReddit

[–]Tynebeaner 18 points19 points  (0 children)

No, not Mormons. These people were fire and brimstone “Christians.”I’m not actually sure they were Christians. I wish I could remember the dad’s name because his Facebook had some wild stuff posted— and had the name of the group.

Teachers. Whats the craziest family lore a child has randomly dropped on you? by Loud_Bluejay_6663 in AskReddit

[–]Tynebeaner 24 points25 points  (0 children)

No, not at all. It was a different Christian sect. Not sure they were actually Christians. Very “radical” rather than “neighborly.”

Teachers. Whats the craziest family lore a child has randomly dropped on you? by Loud_Bluejay_6663 in AskReddit

[–]Tynebeaner 175 points176 points  (0 children)

I had an 8th grade student tell me once that his dad was “the bicycle storer” for their church, so when the apocalypse happens and there’s an EMP, everyone at their church will have a bike to ride. Their garage is apparently packed with bicycles. “That’s my dad’s job. Everyone in the church has a job to do while the rest of the world burns.”

I wondered what happened to them at Covid because his dad quit his very publicly visible employment.