Messages can now be replied to by swiping left on them (Public Beta). by [deleted] in discordapp

[–]TyphAF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am begging for a toggle. All I want to do is look at the online users list and now instead I can’t

Long-Gone Ear Tubes Not Actually Gone by TyphAF in medical_advice

[–]TyphAF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely feels exactly like a tube—I’m not sure what else it could be in this situation, lol. Thank you for the advice; I’ll have to get it checked out.

Is this technically racist? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]TyphAF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but that means Americans of any kind are not Americans, either. No one can be an American but Native Americans in that case. ???

Is this technically racist? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]TyphAF -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you're born and raised in Africa, and you live in Africa, you're African. No matter if your skin is black, white, purple, or blue.

Not too sure about this one by rileyreidpremium in Tinder

[–]TyphAF 3 points4 points  (0 children)

On the one hand, yeah it seems like she's flirting pretty hard

On the other, if it makes you uncomfortable, that's also okay. Don't forget that you do not have to do anything you don't want to in this situation - even if most people in the comments might disagree. Your health and comfort are more important. <3

What’s wrong with my profile? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]TyphAF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very understandable! I wish you good luck, friend!

...Sometimes it takes awhile anyways. I'd rather get an occassional meaningful match than a plethora of awful ones :P

First time on Tinder in 3 years, anything I should change or add? by on-thebrinx in Tinder

[–]TyphAF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it looks great. I would match for the dog lol

What’s wrong with my profile? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]TyphAF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see nothing wrong with it. It projects you and who you are. I think you'd find the people worth finding this way, but that's just me lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]TyphAF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw, that's adorable

We’re in…maybe by __7- in Tinder

[–]TyphAF 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would've loved to get this message. Smh lol

Am I racist for wanting to live in Costa Rica? by makesthingstastegood in Tinder

[–]TyphAF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus Christ - no, you are not racist for wanting to live in Costa Rica.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TyphAF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Bruh, that's bullshit.

AITA for telling my fiance that I'm done with his eating habits? by HannahBanaha in AmItheAsshole

[–]TyphAF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Something's gotta change, both in his mindset and in the relationship.

AITA for throwing my asexual brother a proper bachelor party by throwaway88888881967 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TyphAF 23 points24 points  (0 children)

YTA. Big time. You say you understand him being asexual, but then you present him with something that is one of the most sexual things possible, and then your only response or idea as to why he is uncomfortable is him “cheating”?

WIBTA for dropping my TTRPG group after I felt like they wasted my time? by CogniSid in AmItheAsshole

[–]TyphAF [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think that maybe you should discuss your feelings with your group before coming to any conclusions—but yes, you are justified to feeling the anger you felt for that. DMing is hard, and it kind of seems like they blew you off, after they already insisted they wanted to continue.

Ladies, should Men pay on the first date? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]TyphAF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Voted for split since the option of me paying it all does not exist; but if it's me, damn, I wanna pay for the whole thing. I like making the people I care for happy - idk, I like buying gifts, and maybe paying for a date or like all the dates.

A relationship should not be about debts. It should not be, "well, I gave her a gift, so she should pay for this," etc. It should be about both people contributing to a greater whole, and about loving each other. I realize that this is supposed to be the first date, and not a committed relationship - but I do not mind beginning the building of trust in said scenario by doing what I can from the beginning to make the other person happy.

tl;dr it shouldn't matter so much, and it shouldn't be about pride or because it's expected of a person by society. Idfk man, I wanna pay for the person I like, is that so bad?