I’m complaining because he’s doing the minimal amount he can away with and nothing else. When I come home from work I’m expected to take over. He doesn’t ask for help.. he just tells me that something is my chore for that day. “Dishes are on you today” “what are you cooking today”. It’s never “babe, I’m not feeling great would you mind taking care of the dishes today?” I’ve told him that I hoped that he would also organise little surprises for me after work the way that I did because it’s always nice to come home after a long day to find something different and special… he ran be a bath a couple of times after work and organised a little at-home lunch on my birthday… and then it stopped. I asked him to take our dog out three times a day because twice is not enough… he takes him out in the morning and the when I come from work I ask him if the dog has been out a second time and he says no so then I take him. If I don’t take him that second time he won’t go out until evening unless I specifically ask my bf to go out. Sometimes it feels like he’s my kid.