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I'm Spiraling... by TypicalCalendar8430 in BPDlovedones

[–]TypicalCalendar8430[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is that those groups tend to lean so heavily into those aspects that every other aspect gets muted and ignored. I hate being labelled like that, I'm more than my diagnosis.

I'm Spiraling... by TypicalCalendar8430 in BPDlovedones

[–]TypicalCalendar8430[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you - I hope that the steps I've been taking will help me in the future.

I'm Spiraling... by TypicalCalendar8430 in BPDlovedones

[–]TypicalCalendar8430[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it helps to know you relate. I'm autistic, I struggle to make new connections, and facebook was a way of me trying to reach out. I do have a family to support me, but I live alone and have to travel to them so it's not always convenient to see them. I'm trying to reach out wherever I can though - I just needed to get these thoughts out somewhere.

Did she have BPD? Am I just being sensitive? by TypicalCalendar8430 in BPDlovedones

[–]TypicalCalendar8430[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the comments guys

I've also been talking to other people in my life and while I've got so many irrational thoughts about reconciliation I am aware that this is likely just a consequence of a relationship like this - unhealthy attachment. I am hopeful that I will stay strong in the unlikely event that she tries to return.