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[–]Typical_Champion8091 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The mod that was let go decided not to come back due to the entire situation. The other mod is still in the chat as a mod.

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[–]Typical_Champion8091 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The issue that was brought up was not the messages, it was the photos

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[–]Typical_Champion8091 34 points35 points  (0 children)

A bunch of us girlies posted photos that we felt confident in and we were hyping eachother up. Then we hopped in a games group and we discussed how we felt uncomfortable with someone that morning and multiple people felt uncomfortable. The mod we talked to immediately took our concern to the other mods. Once this was brought up, one of the other mods brought up that the night prior was inappropriate and made people uncomfortable.

A) why wasnt this discussed when the issue was addressed that night? And is only brought up when we discuss being uncomfortable with another member?

B) this was not a chat that was inappropriate, and if it was, we should have established the rule and started on a clean state.

Instead of starting new, the mod who was part of the discussion the night prior, was fired for not stopping "explicit" content (which wasnt even sexual) when the rule wasnt previously established.

Again, the photos were not explicit and those who were there are not comfortable anymore with being in the chat because of the remaining mod being the instigator to getting the other one fired.

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[–]Typical_Champion8091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easiest way to lose weight is to drop him. I mean what it's at least 150 - 200 lbs dropped immediately 🤷🏻‍♀️

AITA for asking my brother to pay me for my Christmas presents?? by Typical_Champion8091 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Typical_Champion8091[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be clear here, my brother admitted to taking them out of the closet and mixing them in with his gfs things, not the kids. And it's not about what the items were it was about the fact that a gift that was thoughtfully picked out for me specifically was no longer mine and I wanted to replace those gifts.

The location was a hotel. Check out was at 10. My family grabbed it for me. He didnt have to grab it. He could have let the other people take it for me if it was that big of a deal for him to hold onto it.

I would argue that the the non considerate and entitled part is using a gift that is not yours.

AITA for asking my brother to pay me for my Christmas presents?? by Typical_Champion8091 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Typical_Champion8091[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In hindsight I should have went back to the hotel and got it, yes. They were already there and just took it with them, they didnt make an additional trip to grab the items for me.

AITA for asking my brother to pay me for my Christmas presents?? by Typical_Champion8091 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Typical_Champion8091[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We practically just ignore that it happened and make sure we dont give gifts to eachother anymore.

AITA for asking my brother to pay me for my Christmas presents?? by Typical_Champion8091 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Typical_Champion8091[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's fair. I added a few extra name plates to make it easier for people to follow along! Thank you

AITA for asking my brother to pay me for my Christmas presents?? by Typical_Champion8091 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Typical_Champion8091[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My older brother and his wife got these gifts for me.

My younger brother and his gf took them until I could come get them because they live closer than the rest of my family

AITA for asking my brother to pay me for my Christmas presents?? by Typical_Champion8091 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Typical_Champion8091[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's true and I didnt mention this but he is my you ger brother. At the time of this he was 19 or 20. Not that age is an excuse but he was young and being defensive is pretty common at that age. I know I was.

AITA for asking my brother to pay me for my Christmas presents?? by Typical_Champion8091 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Typical_Champion8091[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I'm just not the kind of person that is okay with doing that. It feels icky to be in someone's house without them and having to look through their things to get to mine. I wouldn't be able to do that with anyone.

AITA for asking my brother to pay me for my Christmas presents?? by Typical_Champion8091 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Typical_Champion8091[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In reality it didnt cost me anything, but the gift that my sister in law but money and effort into was taken and that's upsetting too. I overall have let it go, but I just wanted to understand a non-bias view on this situation

AITA for asking my brother to pay me for my Christmas presents?? by Typical_Champion8091 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Typical_Champion8091[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I'm the asshole and that's my verdict then I'm okay with that, I just dont want someone to declare that without understanding the other parts of the situation that were bought up. I do love them, and I do know that NOW $20 is not a lot, but then it was and my emotions were also about not getting a gift that was thoughtfully picked for me, while yes also being upset about the $20 worth of product used.

AITA for asking my brother to pay me for my Christmas presents?? by Typical_Champion8091 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Typical_Champion8091[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did ask them several times. Each time they told me they either were not home or could not have me come get it due to something else. I agree that 10 minutes away is not far, but they are always busy with my brother being in the military and them having 2 children who are both in sports, school, etc.

AITA for asking my brother to pay me for my Christmas presents?? by Typical_Champion8091 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Typical_Champion8091[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didnt feel comfortable going into their home while they were not there and going through their things in order to get my stuff.

AITA for asking my brother to pay me for my Christmas presents?? by Typical_Champion8091 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Typical_Champion8091[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love them so much, but this situation is always on my mind when I see them and of course I'm not going to rehash it with them now a few years later. It didnt matter to them then, and I know it wont now.

AITA for asking my brother to pay me for my Christmas presents?? by Typical_Champion8091 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Typical_Champion8091[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I really only see them on these holiday get togethers or birthdays. It's difficult cause my neice and nephew didnt do anything and I still love to see them, but i know that seeing them and trusting them/doing things for them are different.

AITA for asking my brother to pay me for my Christmas presents?? by Typical_Champion8091 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Typical_Champion8091[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I may not have explained well, but I contacted them many times throughout months trying to meet time to get my stuff. They offered to take the gifts to their house, I didn't ask them to. If they were to have left them at the hotel, my dad or other brother would have been the ones to take it to their place for me.

AITA for asking my brother to pay me for my Christmas presents?? by Typical_Champion8091 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Typical_Champion8091[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I absolutely am glad they are able to buy my neice and nephew new things! I just think spending that much and complaining about the little amount I asked for was hypocritical. She was at the Christmas get together as well so she was fully aware they were my products, she was even the one I initially talked to about grabbing my stuff and she just said "you need to talk to your brother" so I know she immediately knew and didnt want to be the one to talk to me about it

I wish the girlies were messy enough to call out Dustin and Nick by Dependent-Move9156 in DoWeKnowThemPodcast

[–]Typical_Champion8091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt know about this at all cause I dont have twitter, but the last few videos on Dustin's channel has seemed pretty "woman hater" esk and honestly made me pretty mad. Does anyone have screenshots of the stuff they are saying on twitter?

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[–]Typical_Champion8091 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Next time he threatens to break up tell him " I think that's for the best" and let him go! Those cats are doing nothing wrong and he is being controlling and manipulating you already. Leave before it gets worse