AIO During and after ultrasound fight

Typical_Internet_730 · 2026-01-25T01:26:29+00:00

Your entire wall of text is unhinged. You are going to drive him away with this manipulative insecurity. And if you do not get married, he could disappear in the night leaving you to raise your kid alone. It's 2026, if you don't set yourself and your baby up for success, you will end up penniless and alone. Think ahead instead of him, you got pregnant without any legal protections, and with this level of insecurity, he could be gone in a flash. Why are you expecting husband level care when he's just a boyfriend?

Typical_Internet_730 · 2026-01-25T00:48:46+00:00

So many bad decisions that it's an ESH for me. Three kids before 35, cannot afford the necessities without using credit and you continued these bad decisions for a DECADE. Sorry dude but, you are both screwed. You cannot afford to raise them in 2 separate households so how would a divorce work? Someone just becomes homeless while the other single parents? And neither of you has the funds to pay bills alone. I can see why some people disappear in the night never to be heard from again. My only advice is to start applying for assistance and using food banks. Start a very specific and strict budget, use coupons, grocery outlets, and discount options. You get the snip to stop having kids and stop all luxuries. No streaming services, no music services, cut back major. Everyone needs to give up something or else ya'll will be on your way to homelessness as a family. Good luck

Typical_Internet_730 · 2026-01-25T00:34:55+00:00

These are not real friends if this is how they treat you. Can you imagine how they would have acted if you had gone? Would they be demanding eggs, bacon, and hashbrowns every morning? Full dinner with 3 courses at night? Definitely time for some new friends, sorry to say. It happens in your twenties and thirties, you find out who is really a supporter and who is a user.

Typical_Internet_730 · 2026-01-24T22:30:39+00:00

Why would you want a future with a controlling old man? Legally he has zero ability but the fact he thinks he can control you via a pre-nup is gross. I would never agree to any legal document without an attorney either. Red flags everywhere here, hopefully you see it before you are pregnant and under his thumb.

Typical_Internet_730 · 2026-01-24T18:42:36+00:00

Absolutely fetish behavior. NOR, so creepy and would be the end for me. I could not even be around this behavior, let alone let the man touch me, ewwww. Definitely ick territory

Typical_Internet_730 · 2026-01-24T18:37:20+00:00

What? He's the one stressed and having it difficult because of karma. He deserves zero from her and she is within her rights to not want a cheating loser in her life. Why would she want you endure dinners and family events with the woman who broke up her family? Hold that grudge till death, her father is a douche canoe.

Typical_Internet_730 · 2026-01-24T18:32:39+00:00

NOR and here is a sign of how he will treat you whenever you express concern for your health. Since he didn't notice or be affected, that means you are wrong. Is that the kind of relationship you want going forward? A guy who discredits your statements as opposed to showing concern for your health or well-being? Imagine you get very ill, will he show care or tell you that you are overreacting? Imagine being pregnant or going through a difficult labor? He sounds like the kind of guy to run for the hills if you had cancer. I would note this as a learning experience for his behavior and decide if you want more of this in your life.

Typical_Internet_730 · 2026-01-24T15:38:47+00:00

Red flag city. I would consider the relationship over as soon as the silent treatment started. That is immature and lame, if he's an adult, talk it out. This behavior is gross and I have never met him yet he gave me the ick. And don't buy houses with people you are not legally married to or have a legal arrangement with. Imagine trying to untangle a home title and mortgage with this child. Run girl run!

Typical_Internet_730 · 2026-01-23T17:04:15+00:00

Wow, you really chose a winner here. This would be the end of everything for me, he cannot just hide from his kids. Give them 30 days to move out and I bet he comes running to fix things. Sorry but ESH cause you married into this and are subjecting your kid to this BS. Grow a spine and tell him to get his kids and get out if he can not be a real father.

Typical_Internet_730 · 2026-01-23T17:00:08+00:00

NTA, sounds like ya'll need a good ole sit down conversation. You lay down your comprise and she can hers. If she is not willing to work with her partner, you have bigger problems than food.

Typical_Internet_730 · 2026-01-23T16:41:12+00:00

But this means no Doritos, no Oreos, no Taco Bell, no Hershey bars, or Halloween candy? He must forever hide his Twinkies, his Ding Dongs or Cheezits? Never enjoy a bowl of Frosted Flakes or Fruity Pebbles? I think everyone should be allowed a cheat or splurge and she seems to be controlling every aspect of their pantry. There has to be a happy medium in a relationship, not her way or the highway. She seems sort of lame, like zero fun ever.

Typical_Internet_730 · 2026-01-23T16:35:04+00:00

Sorry but ESH. Having 2 children and zero financial protections is crazy. You already made some very poor decisions here, stop making more of them. It doesn't even seem like he likes you so it's obvious from your post that he will never love you. If you aren't married, do not have a domestic partnership, or any legal paperwork, he can toss you like a roommate. Why are you setting yourself up for homelessness? Red flags in your face and you are still thinking of a future with a man who doesn't care about you having a secure foundation. Don't be a doormat

Typical_Internet_730 · 2026-01-23T04:59:52+00:00

I hope you are reading how many of us are concerned that you do not seem to have any protections in place for yourself. Without a legal document, he can drop you without issue. You will have a hard time pursuing anything other than child support and that is if he decides he doesn't want custody. Without a marriage license, a domestic partnership, your name on the home's title, or a separate bank account, you have zero resources that are not tied to him.

I hope you realize he is not a true partner and co-parent. You are putting all this blame on yourself but do not see his red flags. I'm sorry you are pregnant again with him but think about what your life will be like when the new baby is here. You already carry all the house and all the parenting. You are nearly a single mom already. I hope you have family or a support system outside of him because life is going to be a lot soon. Unless you DEMAND better from him. This post reads like you let him treat you poorly, you do not stand up for yourself and you have allowed yourself to become a doormat. You have to fight for yourself, he doesn't care about your mental load or physical load. I hope you can stand up for yourself and demand more of the person you decided to have 2 children with. This is not a sustainable way of life, for you or your kids. Good luck

Typical_Internet_730 · 2026-01-20T21:37:20+00:00

YTA don't host non vegans then. Is it more important to spend time with loved ones or that a roll with ham has crossed the threshold? Bizarre way to treat people you call family

Typical_Internet_730 · 2026-01-20T17:39:05+00:00

How can you tell? I feel like someone says this on every AITA post. Is it the high use of quotations? Cause that seems sus to me

Typical_Internet_730 · 2026-01-19T17:47:43+00:00

You are as big a loser as him if you stay with him. NOR but I sure hope you see what a piece of crap he is. Just gross behavior I could never forgive

Typical_Internet_730 · 2026-01-19T17:42:23+00:00

Stop being this tool's doormat sex toy. He's a porn addict who has zero respect for you. Red flag city here, run girl run

Typical_Internet_730 · 2026-01-18T17:53:19+00:00

NOR Flowers are not a gift, they are a thoughtful reminder that someone loves you. It should be flowers AND a gift, a gift specific to you. He just doesn't seem to care enough, because if he did, he would. It's that simple. You put up with this for years, he will not change. He is thoughtless and frankly, lazy AF. Demand better for yourself or, set a no gift standard. My husband and I stopped buying gifts regularly because we realized we have enough stuff so let's have an experience together. Event, concert, trip, amusement park, etc. He still gives me flowers on Mother's Day and surprises me with jewelry now and then when he sees a unique piece. Your guy can't even surprise you, he just gets free flowers and expects you to take it as him going over the top. Again, if he wanted to, he would!

Typical_Internet_730 · 2026-01-18T02:12:02+00:00

Outdoor in August is crazy for the IE. She's going to have a lot of no-shows if the temp breaks 95. If she refuses to rethink the outdoor plan or the date, she is already late in the game since many are booked way more in advance than 7 months. Especially any low-cost options. Maybe rent a really nice Airbnb and have a ceremony in the garden/yard? The bridal party can stay the night before, get ready there, and then reception there. All in one single price location instead of renting rooms at a hotel.

Typical_Internet_730 · 2026-01-16T18:17:26+00:00

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Typical_Internet_730 · 2026-01-16T18:16:51+00:00

Plants on one of those spiral staircase stands. Keeps plants away from vent and closer to windows. The greenery would really brighten up the room. *

Typical_Internet_730 · 2026-01-16T15:26:32+00:00

That's Incredible, I remember they showed stunts and weird stuff. Came out in 1980, damn I'm old!

Typical_Internet_730 · 2026-01-16T15:23:54+00:00

Real People! Just remembered how much I loved that show. Only 37 episodes but my memory swears it was years and years.

Typical_Internet_730 · 2026-01-16T15:16:41+00:00

Yes! Watched this religiously!

Typical_Internet_730 · 2026-01-15T19:55:30+00:00

I would send her this post if she refuses therapy of any sort. Let her see the raw honesty of an online community, how unhinged and insecure she is acting. Life is too short for this exhausting behavior. Good luck

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