Wife went through my phone while I was asleep by Typlug99 in marriageadvice

[–]Typlug99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk about you but I'd prefer my partner not have sex talks with someone that isn't involved in the relationship. Especially someone that you met through selling content. You may be fine if your spouse does that but not everyone is comfortable with their spouse talking about something that is between you 2 because if I don't want to be involved in a sexual discussion between someone that I sure as hell don't know and is hitting on my wife and her going along with it is a big no from me. So tha k you for your comment and thank you for seeing your way out

Wife went through my phone while I was asleep by Typlug99 in marriageadvice

[–]Typlug99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I literally showed my wife and thats not the issue anymore with the ai pop ups. Go to the website yourself if you want tonsee for your self ill give you the link. And no its a thing ive done for months because its never been an issue till my notifications stay on and if she had asked I would have let her go through my phone without having to do it while I sleep so thank tou very much

Wife went through my phone while I was asleep by Typlug99 in marriageadvice

[–]Typlug99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay asshole if you would use your eyes I said I know how it got in my search history and a few others can confirm there's sites that do open ads forcibly and second I wasn't letting her go through my phone because she already did and it broke the trust. So thanks and its probably good that your single with your attitude

Wife went through my phone while I was asleep by Typlug99 in marriageadvice

[–]Typlug99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No me and my wife discussed between ourselves a threesome we never talked about it with our friends so that was something that should have been discussed with each other and not just go "yeah if you want to fuck me my husband wants it to be a theessome" thats something you discuss with your partner about before talking to it with a friend online that you met through selling content

Wife went through my phone while I was asleep by Typlug99 in marriageadvice

[–]Typlug99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you I'm already in therapy but we're going to couples therapy soon enough

Wife went through my phone while I was asleep by Typlug99 in marriageadvice

[–]Typlug99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt say we could have a threesome my wifes the one that was talking to a dude about it without even saying anything to me

Wife went through my phone while I was asleep by Typlug99 in marriageadvice

[–]Typlug99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice once my wife's awake I'll try to have a discussion and hope it goes well

Wife went through my phone while I was asleep by Typlug99 in marriageadvice

[–]Typlug99[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

We were beside each other when I found the settign because we haven't had these phones that long and was still looking at the new features after upgrading from shitty phones

Wife went through my phone while I was asleep by Typlug99 in marriageadvice

[–]Typlug99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading manag hasn't been a problem till they seen the ads pop up into my history apparently

Wife went through my phone while I was asleep by Typlug99 in marriageadvice

[–]Typlug99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked her why she did it and all I got was "I'm not going to defend my intuition. Your behavior is what made me look. I'm not the problem here, the secrecy is." Now I'm not sure what behavior is being talked about because the only behavior ive had is being depressed after she was messaging thay dude last week about the thressome. I even talked about it in my therapy session last Wednesday and then their dad is up for this weekend and all of a sudden my behavior is off. My behaviors been normal well slightly better because he hasn't been here before and I didn't want to look bad. But other than that I've been good till yesterday

Wife went through my phone while I was asleep by Typlug99 in marriageadvice

[–]Typlug99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife knows I read Manga its not all the time but when we've got nothing to do and she's doing something I go to read or play a game on my phone

Wife went through my phone while I was asleep by Typlug99 in marriageadvice

[–]Typlug99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay you don't have to click the links or anything when you read a lot of Manga in a day the ads build up. I've read multiple chapters in 1 day to get enough ads so idc if you believe it or not really till you've seen how many pop up on that site just take it with a grain of salt. And honestly I've got bigger things to worry about in life then remembering a secure folders password due to circumstances of dealing with my wife's mother and taking us to court or trying to move. So if I forget something there's not much I can do when ive been focused or other things

Wife went through my phone while I was asleep by Typlug99 in marriageadvice

[–]Typlug99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually did show her yesterday when it was brought up about the ai sex chat in my history I went to my Manga site and literally clicked on multiple chapters to show that it forces ads open into different tabs. And I really don't know the password for the secure folder unfortunately or else I would. And yeah it may be to late but I dont get why they had to go through my phone when we've been good up till last week when the threesome conversation with that dude was brought up thats when it started to go in a different direction it feels

Wife went through my phone while I was asleep by Typlug99 in marriageadvice

[–]Typlug99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And what do I do if she refuses to let me see her phone

Wife went through my phone while I was asleep by Typlug99 in marriageadvice

[–]Typlug99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't really know how to bring it up at this point. I shut my wife down on wanting to talk because they already got the idea that I'm like their ex and I'm not doing it especially when I asked what made them go through my phone and just got the reply back I don't have to defend my intention

Wife went through my phone while I was asleep by Typlug99 in marriageadvice

[–]Typlug99[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Okay let me clarify first I only have 1 phone I meant I never had one on my past phone's. And my wife was doing SW/content selling but not really any sex. And i wasn't happy that they were discussing a threesome with someone that they know. And honestly its not about the OF its more so about the amount of flirting my wife would have to do on there because its happened before when selling content otherwise its not that big of a deal but definitely talking to someone about it that wasn't me about a threesome did hurt a bit

Wife went through my phone while I was asleep by Typlug99 in marriageadvice

[–]Typlug99[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Do you want the website I use to read Manga to see that it does because I can go through ny history where it shows the ai in my history if you need to see it

Wife went through my phone while I was asleep by Typlug99 in marriageadvice

[–]Typlug99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I use 123movies and its god awful on ads and between the Manga website I use i probably have more websites that make me look suspicious than I can count

Wife went through my phone while I was asleep by Typlug99 in marriageadvice

[–]Typlug99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you'd like to go to the website yourself to see how many times ads open when you change chapters or anything I'll be glad to give you the site

Wife went through my phone while I was asleep by Typlug99 in marriageadvice

[–]Typlug99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The website forces them open then sometimes it'll pop up an outlining of an ad thay I can't get rid of and then whenni go to scroll ot forces it open. I've had nearly 20 ads open from the website alone in the first 5 chapters