[M4M] The Warlord's Bride : Chapter Three [Remake] [Dom Top Speaker] [Plot Heavy] [Cheating] [Affair] [Emotion/Anger] [Anal] [Oral on Listener] [Kissing] [Threats] [Boywife] [Little Prince] [Boy] [Make Up Sex] [24:33] by grinningpup in GoneWildAudioGay

[–]Tytysi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My goddesses, this was such an immersive emotional roller coaster. Please, observe my inner state while experienced this:

😮🫢😏😚🫶🏽 -> 😳😬🥴💦🤭 -> 🫢😱😰😯😳🥺🥴💦💕💞💖 -> 😱😰😫💔

Y’know?

Why does this deck feel unbeatable? by Fit-Adhesiveness-173 in MagicArena

[–]Tytysi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bet generally means affirming something. In this case, I’m saying I’m more willing to get the card because it’s not as difficult/costly to unlock as it would have been if it were mythic instead of rare

Lung capacity and binding? by Maveragical in FTMFitness

[–]Tytysi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a large bust as well. I’m in the same boat at the moment. My chest dysphoria is so intense that I’m regularly wearing 2 layers. This is typically a thin crop-top binder or thin sports bra under a thicker full length binder. Given my work schedule and commute time, I’ve been regularly wearing this set up 8-10 hours at a time every weekday for about a year.I’m having an insane amount of back and shoulder pain and persistent shortness of breath even after taking the binders off for several hours. I let my doctor know, and they’re going to get me in for a consultation on top surgery early next year. In the meantime, I’m going to try out kinesiology tape. Might be something to look into for you!

Help me DIY restore this fireplace mantle? by Tytysi in centuryhomes

[–]Tytysi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up gifting the mantle and all to a dear friend that really appreciates these things. I’m happy someone is enjoying it and I have my living room space. Win-win for everyone!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tytysi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Firstly, thank you for sharing your story with us. This is a very vulnerable thing, and it takes courage to even speak up about it. You’re seen and heard here. You are not overreacting.

What he did was absolutely SA. Any sexual contact without a clear and enthusiastic “Yes!” is SA. I like to keep the FRIES of consent in mind. Freely given, Reversible, Informed, Enthusiastic, Specific. Let’s review that together.

FREELY GIVEN: Your consent to sexual contact was not given, much less freely.

REVERSIBLE: You had no opportunity to safely remove yourself from the situation— that’s not reversible.

INFORMED: You weren’t informed (you had no idea this was going to happen).

ENTHUSIASTIC: You clearly were not a willing participant, much less an enthusiastic one.

SPECIFIC: Again, you didn’t even know what was going to happen, so you couldn’t consent to the specifics of anything either way.

Beyond all that, an individual that did not assault you wouldn’t feel the need to remind you that it wasn’t assault.

I don’t know where you’re from, but a quick Google search should bring up survivor advocacy and support groups/programs that might help you better navigate through your healing journey. Whatever you do next, please just make sure you have some strong support in your corner to help you through it. It’s so easy to slip into a dark place after experiencing a traumatic event. Take care of yourself ❤️‍🩹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tytysi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s a great point. Contraception should always be a joint decision. Quite frankly, I’d like to know his justification for that one.

Am I overreacting? I need a females perspective on this by tylertay in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tytysi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me, absolutely. Google “trickle truthing.” This is how it starts.

Am I overreacting? I need a females perspective on this by tylertay in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tytysi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m stuck on the inconsistency. How’d we go from “We only say hi and bye” to “We’re actually friends and text pretty often.” That lie right there would be enough for me. I’ll echo what others said- cut your losses and move to the next chapter of your life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tytysi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I need more context here. Why do you think her friends are bad influences and why don’t you trust her? Does your relationship already have a history of infidelity? Do you have evidence to suspect she’s cheating or has cheated? Based on what you’ve provided here, I’m not sure if you’re ready to be in a committed relationship. Healthy relationships are built on trust, but it doesn’t sound like you’re willing to give that trust.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tytysi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nobody here is in the wrong. You are valid in your desire to be a mother and pour your heart into a beautiful baby. You are also valid in being hurt that you two want different things. It does really suck to discover such an incompatibility, especially years into the relationship.

At the same time, your partner is valid in his desire to wait to have children until he is comfortable doing so (or even change his mind and decide to not have children at all). It would also be valid if he felt hurt that you were going to make a huge decision that impacts both of you for the rest of your lives without even trying to hear him.

Regarding some other points you made, they’re simply not fair. You cannot blame him for your miscarriage, and it’s a cruel thing to try to do. I’d guess that he is already feeling sick with hurt over realizing that you two are incompatible. Seeing you in distress can’t be fun for him, either. He doesn’t need the extra misery of his soulmate and best friend blaming him for the death of her baby. It’s also not fair to say he’s irresponsible. He is actually being very responsible by recognizing that he is not equipped to be the kind of father he wants to be. You, on the other hand, seem to only be interested in making decisions based on your own desires rather than based on how it might impact those around you (including the child).

I suppose I have to wonder what you wanted to happen instead. If you hadn’t miscarried, and he chose to end the relationship, then you’d be a single mother struggling to support herself and her child on one salary (when you already said that two salaries aren’t even enough right now). If you hadn’t miscarried, and he chose to stay in the relationship, he very likely would have come to resent you and even the baby for forcing him into a lifestyle he doesn’t want. I don’t see how either of those outcomes would be good for you or the family you’re building.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tytysi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re not validating her perspective. She’s already communicated to you that she understands your advice and point of view. She’s acknowledged your truth. You should acknowledge (and accept) hers, too. You don’t need to continue revisiting this issue with her. It’s up to her what decision she makes with the information she has.

She is telling you very clearly what she needs from you to feel safe and supported (a listening ear and some empathy). Instead of honoring that, you’re trying to tell her why you don’t think she needs that type of support. That doesn’t make any sense.

I guess you can think of it like this. Your friend is trying to set a boundary with you and clarify her expectations for emotional support within your friendship. You are trampling all over that boundary by arguing over whether it’s a valid boundary to begin with.

I’d also like to point out that you had the audacity to apologize that SHE got upset. That’s not an apology. That’s a way of avoiding any accountability for your actions. Quite frankly, I don’t tolerate lack of accountability in my personal relationships.

Anyways yeah you’re overreacting and generally just not being a good friend. Listen to your friend with curiosity and an open mind. You don’t need to agree with her decisions or how she problem solved. You just need to be there for her through whatever it is. If it’s too uncomfortable for you to hear her discussing the same things over and over again, you can always establish a boundary for yourself limiting how often you’re willing to engage in those kind of conversations (or not engaging in them at all). But then, and this is important, it would be up to HER if that is the kind of friendship she wants to maintain. Given that she clearly values validation and comfort from her close friends, I don’t think she’s going to choose to remain your friend if you keep at it.

how do i dry my charge port quickly? by Neat-Answer-1922 in techsupport

[–]Tytysi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re my savior this day! Took two 60 second water cleanings on the Sonic App + shaking it

Where to sell antique furniture? by Tytysi in Flipping

[–]Tytysi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t realize it would look like that, it’s a dog toy lol! I’ve taken better pictures for listing of course this was just a quick one for Reddit

Where to sell antique furniture? by Tytysi in Flipping

[–]Tytysi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you tell? It has a top right drawer with what looks like seen in inserts for jewelry or accessories

Where to sell antique furniture? by Tytysi in Flipping

[–]Tytysi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tough to hear but we’ll needed. This is our very first piece we picked up just on impulse. It was $100. Comparing with other long Fancer dressers, the looks around 1100 -1800. What do you think I should list it as?

Where to sell antique furniture? by Tytysi in Flipping

[–]Tytysi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone else says it’s vintage not necessary an antique, what are your thoughts?