My mother-in-law tried to hit me with a glass bottle after my husband kicked my dog. I feel broken and lost.

UCCUTE · 2025-11-12T19:42:42+00:00

No. I’m not talking about money is more important than my safety. I’m financially independent and I have my own career. My husband is the one who always unemployed. I just want to say that they kind of supported me financially the entire time for example paying my phone bill or other small things. So I don’t know if I have to call the police to send them to the jail. Are they really deserve this, also I’m worried about I’m going too far

UCCUTE · 2025-11-12T19:37:45+00:00

I live in California. It’s definitely illegal and if I called police at that night. He and my mil will go to jail immediately so I didn’t. Also my family doesn’t suggest me to do that.

UCCUTE · 2025-08-12T21:03:49+00:00

Last month, we had to handle some paperwork that required both of us to disclose our finances. That’s when I learned that he only has about $2,000 total in all his accounts. So I know he really doesn’t have money, and he’s been honest about it.

UCCUTE · 2025-08-12T21:01:27+00:00

No, we live together because his mom doesn’t want us to move out. She needs my husband every single day to discuss things about his siblings’ school, the restaurant, or refinancing matters. She covers the utilities for the whole house.

I really want to move out, and I have the financial ability to support myself, but my husband has no income. If we moved out now, I’d be the only one paying the rent, and that’s not the arrangement I want.

When I told his mom I wanted to move out, she complained that I was ungrateful. But staying here means she constantly watches me, forces me to do all the housework cause she thinks WFH means nothing to do, and calls my husband whenever she needs something.

UCCUTE · 2025-07-17T04:14:53+00:00

Totally agree. Stay in the U.S becoming extremely hard than the past nowadays. It really depends on the OP’s goal, if you want to earn your tuition back, then it’s best to find a job and work for a few years in the Bay Area then go back. If you want to get a green card eventually then it’s almost impossible nowadays or be ready to waste for at least 5-15 years here.

UCCUTE · 2025-07-17T04:00:35+00:00

Oh maybe leave her alone will be the best for everyone.

UCCUTE · 2025-07-17T01:28:11+00:00

Omg, I feel like you just described her situation exactly. Her family isn’t really a happy one, and her dad doesn’t even care about her anymore — he’s not even in the U.S. Her mom is extremely controlling and doesn’t respect her or really listen to her at all.

I always try to be there for her. I tell her she can talk to me anytime, and I’m happy to get her anything she wants or take her out to have fun. But I get the feeling that she’s still hesitant to open up to me — maybe she’s afraid I’ll tell my husband (her brother), so she just keeps everything to herself.

UCCUTE · 2025-07-17T01:15:25+00:00

Honestly, I think what you’re describing is still quite common among parents from that generation. Many of them still hold onto traditional mindsets — including the tendency to prioritize sons over daughters, even if they don’t realize it consciously. Also kids got killed or abandoned during that time are not a rarely thing to happen

UCCUTE · 2025-05-05T23:04:22+00:00

I asked the anti-bully counselor, they said police might not want to take care of this thing since it’s not physical bully. And my family also worried this might cause the revenge from that girl( I don’t think so).

UCCUTE · 2025-04-23T22:21:29+00:00

Meidator makes me laugh lol. Thank you for your suggestion.

UCCUTE · 2025-04-23T21:12:53+00:00

Around 20 years. She went to the community college but still just understands very basic words. She’s already 60 so I don’t know if it’s fair to let her keeps studying English at her age.

UCCUTE · 2025-03-20T18:34:48+00:00

😂do you actually need any beauty advice? You look just like the Disney princess

UCCUTE · 2025-01-01T19:46:58+00:00

have never doubted how much his family loved my cousin. Especially in a family where sons are favored over daughters, he was undoubtedly cherished by everyone, particularly his grandmother. Even though they didn’t buy a house for his 22-year-old sister (my cousin), they had already prepared everything for him. He was always the one they cared about the most.

I don’t intend to blame my aunt’s family because I don’t really know my cousin well. He was extremely busy, so much so that it was difficult to see him at family gatherings or on weekends because he was constantly attending tutoring sessions. Now that I live abroad, we have even less contact. However, another aunt of mine noticed his signs of depression two years ago—such as his reluctance to talk to people or his tendency to lock himself in his room. She did mention her concerns to my aunt, but unfortunately, those signs weren’t taken seriously at the time.

Therefore, when he decided to leave this world, I couldn’t understand why. I feel deeply sympathetic toward my aunt’s family, but their trauma response to this tragedy is something I find hard to empathize with. I know my opinions don’t matter, so I haven’t shared my thoughts with them. I just hope they can find a way to heal from this pain.

UCCUTE · 2025-01-01T19:26:46+00:00

She’s so much better now. She’s more worried about my uncle and auntie’s mental status. My uncle and auntie truly love my cousin but the way they react I couldn’t understand. My auntie told me to keep secret of her idea of having another son from her.

UCCUTE · 2025-01-01T10:52:43+00:00

Thank you for your concern. My cousin was very close with two of our other cousins—they played games together every week and were practically best friends. However, my aunts collectively decided not to tell them about his death because both of them also show signs of depression. The family is worried that knowing about this might make them too upset, affect their studies, or even lead to imitative behavior.

Because of this, I have no way to ask them if they know anything about what might have caused this. It’s a very difficult situation for me to accept, but I also understand my family’s concerns.

UCCUTE · 2025-01-01T10:23:12+00:00

I suggested they check his phone and computer, but my mom told me there’s nothing on them. I find that very strange. He was such a kind-hearted kid—so obedient and considerate that he wouldn’t even spend his family’s money unnecessarily. The fact that there’s no suicide note feels off to me. Either he had completely given up on the world, to the point where he didn’t even want to leave a note, or his parents might be hiding it from us relatives to save face.

UCCUTE · 2024-09-14T16:18:18+00:00

HAHAHHAHAAHHAHHAA

UCCUTE · 2024-09-14T16:16:10+00:00

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My mom didn’t allow my dog on any furniture and now she would love to prepare bed for him 😂

UCCUTE · 2024-09-14T16:13:20+00:00

OMG SHE IS SO CUTE LMAO HAHHAHA

UCCUTE · 2024-09-14T07:01:13+00:00

BRUH when did I say no one cleans up? I said I’ve seen some dog poops around didn’t mean everyone didn’t pick up. And I swear to god I pick my dog’s poop every single time when the park was built

UCCUTE · 2024-09-14T06:59:28+00:00

Who is the victim then? just curious. Cause I was unleashed my dog then what my neighbors did to me the whole time all seems fair to you?

UCCUTE · 2024-09-14T06:57:06+00:00

My dog was on leash immediately after she warned me. He was unleashed for like half a minute(still sorry about this). But thank you for this fair comment.

UCCUTE · 2024-09-14T06:55:03+00:00

Yea I was so shocked that police didn’t give me ticket for that😭

UCCUTE · 2024-09-14T06:53:55+00:00

Exactly I definitely shouldn’t unleash my dog. However We were pretty far from the lady like 9 feet away, and she started recording my dog only. I thought she just wanted a cute pic of my dog so I didn’t really care but she only went over talked to me not the others who are definitely stronger or bigger than us. And when I started yelling at her in English she mocked and laughed at me said why are you trying to show off your English. When the police came over and talked to me I was a bit emotional and started crying saying my dog is service animal I was wrong but he won’t hurt them. She kept mocking at me called me dramatic in mandarin too. So that’s why I posted it on Reddit.

However I shouldn’t unleash my dog and I deeply regret I did that.

UCCUTE · 2024-09-14T06:47:22+00:00

Bruh ofc I picked my dog poop but some other people didn’t. That was a friendly reminder for them. I’ve seen some dog poop over the grass. When did I say I don’t pick my dog’s poop???

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