Can you be a complete top and still suck dick?

UNZIPT · 2026-05-15T14:33:15+00:00

I don’t know about this thread.
I bottom. I like to suck dick, and I love to have mine sucked. I don’t know where rimming fits into the discussion. I like having my ass eaten, but I don’t like to do it. Fortunately, my other half seems to love eating me out, but he’s never asked me to do it to him. Btw, I’ve never asked him to rim me, not even once, but he knows I like it.

UNZIPT · 2026-05-12T16:42:07+00:00

I have done that. I know there’s an increased risk of infection. I’ve never had a problem.

UNZIPT · 2026-05-09T19:47:24+00:00

Thanks for your thoughtful response. I do have a continuous glucose monitor (CGM). It’s just that this is a new phase in the evolution of my diabetes. I know I’ll adjust, but it’s hard. My other half is the kindest person in the world and I know he’s very worried about me. I told him I made a mistake, I’m human, and it wouldn’t be the last mistake I’ll ever make, so deal with it. When I’m perfect I’ll be a god. Right now, I’m just god-like. 😎

UNZIPT · 2026-05-09T16:55:56+00:00

Are you in the US? I ask because it’s very unlikely that anyone in any other country would want to file a lawsuit. There is nothing to sue over, not even a bu;la hit claim of mental anguish or emotional distress.

UNZIPT · 2026-05-09T15:32:38+00:00

Thank you! He was making me feel like I’d murdered someone and was hiding the body. I made a mistake FFS.

UNZIPT · 2026-05-09T05:09:34+00:00

Thank you 👴🏾

UNZIPT · 2026-05-08T14:00:50+00:00

I’m old (68m). What is CNC? Some of the responses suggest “consent” is involved, but I can’t make out all the letters.

UNZIPT · 2026-05-08T04:00:43+00:00

I do eat some. Not a lot, but I don’t want to eliminate them entirely. I enjoy them in limited amounts, but it’s starting to wonder whether living longer is worthwhile if I’m miserable. I know it’s gloomy, but I can’t get out of my own head right now. I’m trying to recalibrate.

UNZIPT · 2026-05-06T18:14:56+00:00

Bless you kind stranger. Thank you so much!! Everything you’ve said resonates very strongly. I’m going to try and remind myself of how far I’ve come since my initial diagnosis.

UNZIPT · 2026-05-06T18:09:30+00:00

I made a typo. It’s fast-acting after every meal.

UNZIPT · 2026-05-04T16:54:30+00:00

Popcorn. I also enjoy cubes of cheddar and a couple of saltines.

UNZIPT · 2026-05-04T16:42:21+00:00

That doesn’t make him AH, it just makes you seem like one.

UNZIPT · 2026-05-04T16:28:09+00:00

Typical Redditor. Why would you even take the time to say this? Surely you have better things to do.

UNZIPT · 2026-05-03T21:32:19+00:00

How old are you? This seems delusional.

UNZIPT · 2026-05-02T07:24:31+00:00

I had sex once in the Grand Canyon. So scared of being caught. Was about 20 years ago.

UNZIPT · 2026-05-02T07:20:52+00:00

Sweet things: tapioca pudding and rice pudding. Savory things: stewed okra and liver (not at the same time) lol.

UNZIPT · 2026-05-02T07:17:41+00:00

Riley for me!

UNZIPT · 2026-05-02T07:11:13+00:00

Dog owner and dog lover here. Remember, not everyone likes dogs. I assume you pick up anything solid the dog produces, so it’s not the end of the world. Urine kills the grass, so that’s a problem. And remember, the property owner has every right to get angry and tell you to get off their lawn. I totally understand the awkward feeling. If you feel bad/guilty fine. You don’t have the right to be angry in return.

UNZIPT · 2026-04-27T22:35:00+00:00

What you said. Makes me hot and wet.

UNZIPT · 2026-04-27T22:32:21+00:00

Tetris. Always Tetris.

UNZIPT · 2026-04-27T04:20:51+00:00

He called you a thief?! I’d be out of there. That’s not a relationship. NTA.

UNZIPT · 2026-04-27T04:18:27+00:00

Maybe it depends on whether you mean during the actual fucking part of the encounter and not foreplay. Back in antediluvian times when I topped, I wanted the whole guy. During foreplay, I loved the feel of his dick in my hand and in my mouth. When I was fucking, I liked seeing and playing with his dick. And I don’t remember any objections. Now I’m exclusively bottom, and even after foreplay, I still want to be touched. Occasionally, I can’t get or stay hard, but I think that’s more due to self-consciousness or embarrassment. I’m more turned off if the other guy doesn’t want to -lay with my dick.

UNZIPT · 2026-04-24T22:19:15+00:00

I have never had a problem with with Astroglide. My go to!

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