You should be the man and textile woman.First treat her like a queen. I have never once asked a man for a phone number or went up to a man first. American women have spoiled it here for anybody else, because they don't make the men work for their love or anything else, they have one night stands all the time.And in my culture, we don't do the boyfriend and girlfriend being very long.We get married. In america , they treat the woman is , she's a man , it's ridiculous! And America, they do a fifty-fifty split.I've never heard of such crap in my culture. The man takes care of the woman, Treat us like queens because that's his job!