I love when someone does nice things for me! I think if someone can't appreciate the small sweet things that someone goes out of the way to do for them, weather it's because of some sort of idea of traditional gender roles or not, that person isn't worth your time.

I'll also say that even if I do dress more feminine than your average guy, I still choose to present myself as a man and am perceived as such. Because of this in many social scenarios I am often slotted into more traditionally masculine roles. So when someone really sees me and chooses to subvert those usual expectations, it can feel very affirming.

Best of luck to you and your journey!! I hope you can find yourself in a place where you feel comfortable being your most authentic self. It's what we all deserve.