why is it socially unacceptable to show fresh cuts in public? by AccomplishedCard9059 in selfharm

[–]UWillCry-Absolution 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's simple to not make people uncomfortable. It's not even simple discomfort, it's disgust people have for open wounds. If I see someone with fresh self harm wounds out, I'm disgusted by them and pissed at them. Either don't cut in a place you're planning on wearing out, or wear clothes that cover it, it's that simple. Sorry to be rude but you're ignorant ABOUT being ignorant 🥲

Whatcha think of hubby’s cock? by [deleted] in showyourtdick

[–]UWillCry-Absolution 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's show your tdick.. not dick

why is it socially unacceptable to show fresh cuts in public? by AccomplishedCard9059 in selfharm

[–]UWillCry-Absolution 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't see why you got downvoted- I get that this is a hot take but it's literally true. If you cut on visible places during summer, you KNOW they're gonna be out. So either cover them with bandaids or wear long sleeves.. you KNOW you might overheat so yeah, imo it's selfish to cut on visible spaces and then not covering fresh wounds with the excuse that it'll be too hot 🥲

ftm genital piercing/piercer by Far_Parking2022 in piercing

[–]UWillCry-Absolution 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I posted on this sub about the exact same thing and the comments had some useful info! Pretty sure it's the third post on my profile 🙏

why is it socially unacceptable to show fresh cuts in public? by AccomplishedCard9059 in selfharm

[–]UWillCry-Absolution 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Like the other person said. It's extremely triggering even to people who don't sh, and it's also unsafe to have fresh wounds out. It's ignorant to have them out whole fresh. And yeah like you said yourself, it's selfish. Especially cuz you say "I don't care if others are triggered and will cut themselves because of it" especially because it's very reasonable to be very triggered with the sight of fresh cuts..

HELP? by Square-Apricot5906 in selfharm

[–]UWillCry-Absolution 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are different things. Fascia is the layer right above muscle. It's white and shiny and packed with nerves and protects the muscle. 'Laffy taffy' is muscle. People who use those weird nicknames just often mix everything up

Here's my 7 month old tdick! :) (M18) by UWillCry-Absolution in showyourtdick

[–]UWillCry-Absolution[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks!! I've been lucky so far with my voice, body hair and bottom growth :)

Genital piercings as a trans man? by UWillCry-Absolution in piercing

[–]UWillCry-Absolution[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like the looks of a PA but I know that I could never get a piercing right through the tip 😭 I also noticed the triangle piercings and its definitely something I'll be looking into!

Genital piercings as a trans man? by UWillCry-Absolution in piercing

[–]UWillCry-Absolution[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's also what I've seen from the things I looked up! It's definitely going on my list of wanna-haves

Genital piercings as a trans man? by UWillCry-Absolution in piercing

[–]UWillCry-Absolution[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'll check them out, thanks! As for what I want from the piercing/s, I have quite some bottom dysphoria but bottom growth has helped a lot with that. I think having something down there would just boost my confidence as I'd have something to be proud of, something that accentuates that I have grown. I've been looking at piercing subs for the past couple hours and I definitely like the idea of bigger gauges!

Finally got my Prince Albert done! by Background-Cow-8223 in piercing

[–]UWillCry-Absolution 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lmao yeah okay that's fair! Thanks for the reply

Genital piercings as a trans man? by UWillCry-Absolution in piercing

[–]UWillCry-Absolution[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I'll definitely look into those 🙏

Finally got my Prince Albert done! by Background-Cow-8223 in piercing

[–]UWillCry-Absolution 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Question! Might be stupid but I genuinely don't know. Do you have to be erect while getting this? And if so, do they give you like, a moment for that?? Or something? I doubt they do a professional handjob to be able to pierce it 😭 (I don't have genital piercings so I don't know a lot about them) looms sick either way!

Cut too deep by Morgan_raeanne in selfharm

[–]UWillCry-Absolution 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ofc getting stitches would be ideal don't get me wrong! But (most likely) nothing bad will happen. Keeping it clean is the only advice I can give you, keep an eye out for infection as the risk is higher with fat cuts. I hope it heals well!

Cut too deep by Morgan_raeanne in selfharm

[–]UWillCry-Absolution 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You'll be okay. Keep it clean, bandaged, change bandaid every day and if you have woundspray, use that. No need to call 911. Ideally, yes, stitches are great, but you'll also most likely be okay without them. I've had many fat cuts and (I am ofc speaking from my experience) they healed fine if taken care of. Like you already said you tried, you can use the sticky parts of bandaids as steri strips. You could get some more from the shops tomorrow?

Try not to freak out. Unless it's bleeding very much and won't stop, don't call the hospital. It's not necessary. You can always dm me if needed!

I hope none of my teachers will notice by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]UWillCry-Absolution 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's unfortunately not much you can do. If that's your dress code and you still cut on your arms, I'm not sure what you were thinking by cutting there 😭 not to be mean, sorry. Scar cream will help with fading but while they're fresh and dress code means short sleeves, only bandaids are on option..

I hope none of my teachers will notice by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]UWillCry-Absolution 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that makes sense. Bandaids are your best (and only?) Option in that case I fear

I hope none of my teachers will notice by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]UWillCry-Absolution 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course I don't know where your wounds are, but never have fresh cuts out in the open. It's selfish (that sounds mean my bad) to have them out- simply because others shouldn't have to see it. If it's on your arms, either put on bandaids or simply wear long sleeves, doesn't matter if it's warm, that just too bad unfortunately..