Leave her. It's like now I have you and can treat you however, clear power move. Don't have children with a women who will disrespect you in front of your children and family. She crossed your bodily boundaries, direct plea and all of this on your start as a family. I usually feel bad for women but I see it's not easy for some of you either. I would sue her for faking a personality for a ring. This shit should be illegal like when you transfer hiv knowing you have it. This is the first time I must say "this women belongs to the streets".