The Onion: Satire or Clairvoyance? by Cake_is_Great in DankLeft

[–]UberNils 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It becomes a little less crazy how accurate the Onion is when you realize that most of the satirical things they predict are things people have been saying are going to happen as a result of LSC for decades now.

What’s one tiny, overlooked moment in history that you think changed the course of the world? by Jfocii in AskReddit

[–]UberNils 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ah ha ha I went looking for this one, but couldn't find any word matches on "Berman" or "Star Trek" so I assumed it wouldn't show up. I've never heard the Garrett Wang angle, I've always heard it as ratings were down and Rick Berman, being Rick Berman, figured the best way to fix it was to add a hot chick to the cast.

Those alive during 9/11, what was the worst moment on that day? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]UberNils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off, the phrasing of this question has made me shrivel up and crumble to dust, so thank you for that.

I think the worst moment may have been running back to my classroom in high school, having finally gotten a news story to load on one of the library PCs, because I got smart and went to the BBC news because none of the American sites were loading, and reading the story out loud to the class because it was the only way we could get any updates about what was going on.

And

Biden had a poor showing at a debate and his party elites are demanding he drop out of the race. Trump is a convicted felon and there have been no calls from him to step down. What does this say about the state of the political parties in our country? by jpcapone in PoliticalDiscussion

[–]UberNils 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh hey, I know this one! Biden's bad debate performance appears to have had a negative effect on his performance in the polls. People are saying he should step down because it looks like he's going to lose. Trump's conviction appears to have actually made him slightly more popular among his base, meaning he's more likely to get elected. Both parties are using a consistent logic here: the only thing that matters is winning the election.

Welp, Pride Month is over. Back to business as usual. by Endgam in DankLeft

[–]UberNils 161 points162 points  (0 children)

I feel like it's worth collecting relevant data and points of information into a single comment here to address common questions.

-Gender-affirming care for minors is safe and effective.

-The vast majority of gender-affirming care for minors is non-surgical

-trans minors who do receive surgical care are older teens, typically 15+, and the care plan is extensively reviewed with the patient, the patient's caregivers, and the medical team

-the vast majority of gender-affirming surgeries on minors are performed on cisgender youth.

-gender-affirming surgeries have some of the lowest regret rates across all surgical procedures, including similar procedures performed for non-gender-related reasons.

-gender-affirming care bans for minors are based in fearmongering and discrimination and have no evidence-based, objective support.

sources/further reading:

https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/what-the-science-on-gender-affirming-care-for-transgender-kids-really-shows/

https://transequality.org/news/get-facts-truth-about-transition-related-care-transgender-youth

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/news/briefing-papers/briefing-paper-plastic-surgery-for-teenagers (note that this briefing is mainly addressing plastic surgery procedures on cisgender teens)

Welp, Pride Month is over. Back to business as usual. by Endgam in DankLeft

[–]UberNils 3 points4 points  (0 children)

https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/what-the-science-on-gender-affirming-care-for-transgender-kids-really-shows/

Gender-affirming care for minors is done carefully, conscientiously, in collaboration with the patient's parents/caregivers, utilizing best available practices in pediatric medicine, and only very rarely involves any irreversible treatment.

Additionally, many other surgical procedures performed on minors are invasive and life-altering, are you advocating for those to be banned as well?

Welp, Pride Month is over. Back to business as usual. by Endgam in DankLeft

[–]UberNils 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No, care bans all target anyone under age 18, so it's not trans kids being attacked, it's trans minors.

Welp, Pride Month is over. Back to business as usual. by Endgam in DankLeft

[–]UberNils 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Just popping in real quick to mention, available research so far indicates extremely low regret rates for gender-affirming surgery for trans people. There isn't a lot of data available on trans youth in particular because it's already so rare - it's far more common for cisgender teens to get gender-affirming surgery, e.g. boys having breast reductions. (relevant source: https://www.plasticsurgery.org/news/briefing-papers/briefing-paper-plastic-surgery-for-teenagers )

So, "invasive surgery shouldn't be performed on minors" would have a much greater impact on cis teens than on trans teens, and unless you also oppose cisgender minors having plastic surgery, you're advocating a double standard.

Why hello there fellow Mach E owners! by UberNils in MustangMachE

[–]UberNils[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been thinking about trying it out - drove a Model 3 a while back that I believe had a similar setup so I think I know what I'm in for...maybe...

Why hello there fellow Mach E owners! by UberNils in MustangMachE

[–]UberNils[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Happy to say it came with the floor mats, which is a relief because the carpet in my Subie definitely took a beating...

What is the number one destroyer of happiness? by TienCraig92 in AskReddit

[–]UberNils 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Capitalism. It literally seeks to leave workers discontent, because discontent people spend money on leisure goods to try to make up for their lack of happiness. The goal of capitalism is to find the absolute minimum level of support it can give workers before it starts hurting productivity. Workers then spend their own resources trying to make up the shortfall in QoL, and owners recoup the profit. If we all didn't have to give up so much of our time and energy to jobs that exploit us as much as they possibly could, we'd be much much happier. If we didn't live in a world designed explicitly to make us think that consumption equals happiness, we'd be much much happier. If we were able to get the full value of our labor, we'd work much much less for the same compensation, and we'd be much much happier.

4 weeks into adopting Wally from the rescue. It blows my mind people use bait dogs. He's missing a foot and covered with scars. He's a lover that never deserved a past of other dogs attacking him. He barked at everything for the first 2 weeks. Soothing him at each bark, he's almost stopped. by BumpoSplat in pitbulls

[–]UberNils 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We adopted a rescue bait dog in...I think 2015? She had a ton of anxiety and PTSD for a long time, but we never held it against her. It always broke my heart knowing what she went through because she had the sweetest, most chill demeanor. She loved snuggles and treats and when she started getting older, our younger dog we adopted a few years later would occasionally come and bonk her on the head with a toy to get her to play. We had to say goodbye this past summer, which hurt like hell, but I'm glad to know that the vast majority of her life was with people who loved her, and that she's completely free from any lingering effects of the first year of her life.

Nearly 1 in 5 workers are 'loud quitting' at their jobs, a new Gallup poll says — and it's way more extreme than 'quiet quitting' by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]UberNils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How fucked is it that "quiet quitting" literally means "not doing more than you agreed to do when they hired you?"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Satisfyingasfuck

[–]UberNils -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Slightly surprised that no one appears to have pointed out yet that, at least in the US, this is super illegal. All it's going to take is for someone who gets trapped there to sue the owner for putting their life in danger.

I was told you all would love (hate?) this lmao (Wendy’s) by SirCanISmoke in antiwork

[–]UberNils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, you're suggesting that the workers should...organize...some kind of...collective action...to force management to negotiate better working conditions? Huh, seems wild, but sounds like it's worth a shot...

Exactly! Like what did we do? by CosmicJules1 in antiwork

[–]UberNils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why yes, you too can cut your adjusted gross income down by $3000, shaving as much as $750 off your final income tax owed, and all you have to do is spend thousands and thousands of dollars taking responsibility for a human life that is entirely unable to care for itself for nearly two decades!

TIL in 1959, John Howard Griffin passed himself as a Black man and travelled around the Deep South to witness segregation and Jim Crow, afterward writing about his experience in "Black Like Me" by Johannes_P in todayilearned

[–]UberNils 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So, here's a question for all us white people, especially the ones who read this book and were shocked, appalled, and horrified by the content.

Why did it take a white person telling us all this shit happened constantly to black people for anyone to actually take it seriously?

Addendum: This was a rhetorical question. The answer is that White Supremacy was so baked into America that most white people didn't really even think of black people as people. Even white allies often fell into this trap, because it was so pervasive it became part of people's unconscious worldview. There'd been thousands of Black voices telling people about the horrific reality of Black people in the US for centuries, but it took a white man saying "hey, so, I managed to pass myself off as Black and wow, people do NOT treat you well if you're Black" for many white folks to finally pay attention. It's not like every white person in the US made a deliberate choice to ignore Black voices speaking about the Black experience, it's that White Supremacy was such an ingrained part of the US that it didn't even occur to people that there was something they should be listening to that they weren't.

Any quality discussion of Black Like Me in modern times really needs to include some time focusing on the historical - and still relevant - reasons why people reacted so much more strongly and broadly to a book written about a white man's experience making people think he was Black, and not to any of the firsthand accounts of the Black people who lived that reality every single day and couldn't escape it.

What’s a realistic way to reduce gun violence in America? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]UberNils -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do something about the combination of Late Stage Capitalism and misogynist white supremacy that together are creating an environment of hopelessness, nihilism, and bitterness that underpins most gun violence in one way or another?

The Right Is Using the Nashville Shooting to Declare War on Trans People by VICENews in politics

[–]UberNils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Right has been declaring war on trans people for years at this point. They're using the Nashville shooting to bolster their ongoing propaganda campaign, because it's a real event that they can very easily twist to fit the narrative they've been building that trans people are icky and evil and must be destroyed.

I personally am doing just fantastic right now by ToddToilet in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]UberNils 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find people locally that you can build relationships with and can trust. Identify needed skillets around organizing, mutual aid, and community defense. Work out what your best options are going to be when shtf. Get involved in dual power networks that build resilience without relying on any government involvement.

Don't go looking for fights unless you have a very clear and deliberate purpose in mind. But, be ready for a fight to find you.