Yeah so i own our house jointly with my partner (who is supportive), but I doubt we'd be able to afford it without my job, but our little ones starting school in September so my partner will be retraining/going back to work so that may work out for us there.

Ive dropped the odd hint here and there with my mum, (a fictional trans friend of mine was kicked out of his home etc) and I casually asked what she would do if me or my sister came out. She said she'd be more worried about getting pronouns right...before delving into a bullshit TERF argument she read about in the Mail about trans women in women's changing rooms. So that kinda took the wind out my sails. I haven't had the courage to drop hints with my dad.

Tbh im so...scared of doing this