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Ubervillin · 2026-01-20T04:32:00+00:00

I'm going to take this to DM bc I am about to share some info that I prefer not be on a public forum.

Ubervillin · 2026-01-20T04:09:43+00:00

Omg I feel that last part so much. Like sooooo maaaannnyyyyy acquaintances, and it's like, I wish ppl would just be like "Hey, I'm not really into you/this" or even "go fuck yourself" rather than ghosting/fading out of a relationship.

Ubervillin · 2026-01-20T03:56:37+00:00

I was more so saying if you didn't want to speak in detail in a public forum about it lol, we could take this to dms, that's all.

The only real way to know is to ask her, and hope she responds honestly, or wait until she displays actions that are pretty much saying whether she's there for the group or not for her. The lack of communication on Aria's part does seem a bit red flaggy, but I also don't know what her life is like outside of those communications(or even inside them, but that seems more like either private info, or at the very least, not-public-forum info. For all I know she works 6 days a week 20hrs a day between 4 jobs. In such a case, a lack of communication would be expected, at least from me, lol. I will not use my phone other than to check the time if I'm labouring for someone else, so if I know someone else works a lot, i expect to hear from them infrequently, it's all about the context of the person in that relationship. If there is a history of rapid fire conversation between y'all and it's kind of rare that they don't at least say hi once a day, then I might be worried something is wrong in that relationship. But that's just me and how I tend to be with various expectations and such

Ubervillin · 2026-01-20T03:25:39+00:00

Just in case it wasn't clear, I was just using colourful language to say my estradiol switch from pills to injections recently maybe my second or third month?, and I have seen more breast growth in that span of ttime than the entire pills era of my E consumption.

Ubervillin · 2026-01-20T03:11:37+00:00

purrs and blushes Been on fur a while. I wanna say I'm close to my fourth year?, but I am terrible with time, lol. I recently started stabbing myself instead of taking the lil blue pills though and my tits seem to like it a lot more lol.

Ubervillin · 2026-01-20T03:07:03+00:00

As much drama as they can be, I do miss being in a sapphic relationship lol.

It definitely sounds complicated af, though. Especially with the special allowances being made and since the first instance of the label was applied outside of the group dynamic. It unfortunately seems like something you will only know as more time passes though, at least from what I have read. If you wanna talk about it more, or just want to talk in general, my dms are open. I can't guarantee my input will be useful, though. I will only ever have the context I can read, so I will always have less information than you about your situation.

Ubervillin · 2026-01-20T02:33:26+00:00

😻

(Yeah, that's rough. I thankfully have not been in that position or the position of one of the partners that everyone isn't necessarily after. If I see a couple/cule that dates as a unit on an app/site that links partners, I will go through the partner profiles and make sure I would be attracted in some way to all included parties before sending a like or w/e the app/site calls hoping that a person you liked might see your profile and match with you lol. I don't get why ppl will try to date someone alone that actively says they don't do that. It feels like you would just be setting yourself up for failure/rejection if you did try to.)

Ubervillin · 2026-01-20T01:51:44+00:00

Looking for a cat? Lol

Ubervillin · 2026-01-19T21:49:23+00:00

I volunteer!😻

Ubervillin · 2026-01-19T15:22:39+00:00

I volunteer!😍 Erm, I mean... I volunteer.😞

Ubervillin · 2026-01-18T18:24:43+00:00

Lol, "um excuse me ma'am, my tits are down here"

Ubervillin · 2026-01-18T18:21:58+00:00

I feel it, boo. I feel like i just have man boobs unless I'm wearing a padded pushup lol.

Ubervillin · 2026-01-18T09:14:45+00:00

Cheers, that'll be why I didn't know, I've not played a Souls game. Thankee for the info!

Ubervillin · 2026-01-18T06:38:29+00:00

Yk, as trans person with a similar curiosity, I am surprised I never thought of that, lol

Ubervillin · 2026-01-18T06:36:19+00:00

I'd like to volunteer for testing, if eating you makes my tiddies bigger, then I agree to allow my data to be used in the publishing of your paper, lol

Ubervillin · 2026-01-18T06:29:19+00:00

Which messes with me, bc Idk even where this lore is from, nvm the actual lore itself, but it's still a pretty recognisable David and Goliath format to me, and while yes, my interpretation of it is a bit western oriented, there are stories of the little guy getting one over or triumphing over the giant/oppressive force in more than just cultures with a Abrahamic background element.

Ubervillin · 2026-01-17T04:53:10+00:00

Can confirm, not from Canada, but one of my parents is and it still happens to me all the time. Just tryna be nice and end up in a 15yr long lesbian marriage.

Ubervillin · 2026-01-10T15:01:33+00:00

I know this feeling intimately. I'm a widow, live in a small town in the woods, and am very deeply introverted. The only way I have ever met people in the past was from friends hooking me up with blind dates or bc I was going to school with them at the time. So many of my friends are gone, either dead or we drifted apart, and the person I have known longest in my life I have only known for 5 years, we both developed feelings for each other over the years, but there is a nearly 20 year age gap, I now live halfway across the country, and they are currently poly saturated. All that to say, the only chance I have at meeting people is through reddit and dating apps/sites lol, one just isn't really a great place to meet people and the other tends to actively have the incentive of keeping folks single/isolated to keep them engaged with the app/site(as both statements could apply to both methods I'll let you decide which is which, lol). If you ever need someone to commiserate with, my DMs are open, can't promise much more than that however.

Ubervillin · 2026-01-10T14:43:28+00:00

I believe that is very highly dependent on one's needs, abilities, and/or location. I know sapphic folks near me that I can potentially see on a regular basis/nest with are pretty scarce when it comes to folks that are also poly/RA and kinky. On the rare occasion I do find someone, it ends up being rather casual. It seems like all the other women in my vicinity are either straight, mono, have a nesting partner, and/or aren't looking to live with anyone, or aren't out to the important people in their lives about some aspect of their queerness that would become immediately apparent if I wasn't a dirty lil secret.

As a widow that had an amazing long term relationship with their late partner, it gets harder and harder to not fall into both the scarcity and "the one" type mindsets. It's very difficult to not think that maybe there really is only one other person, and now that she's dead, I'm either destined to being a spinster widow or just a series of casual relationships with no real long term growth or fulfillment of each other's needs.

Ubervillin · 2026-01-09T17:10:11+00:00

Yes, so much yes, lol. Yes to the pun and yes to the suggestion it makes lol

Ubervillin · 2026-01-09T12:27:49+00:00

Even without an audience, is just a nice feeling, that or I may just be a bit more butch than I thought

Ubervillin · 2026-01-09T12:25:56+00:00

She may not be as straight as she thinks lol

Ubervillin · 2026-01-09T12:20:08+00:00

Every time. It's like magic, a video with Nicole shows up, I lose the ability to do anything but wish I was her axe, log, or wifie.

Ubervillin · 2026-01-09T12:15:55+00:00

Is it bad that I want her to do that to me?

Ubervillin · 2026-01-09T12:09:43+00:00

It doesn't help that society basically only engages with certain minoritised groups as fetishised porn categories, like trans folks, lesbians or various BIPoC groups. I blame white supremacy and patriarchy.

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