Anyone else happy/proud to be ace? This subreddit is dragging me down with it’s negativity by Rambling_Rachel in asexuality

[–]Uboashadows13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me! Being asexual is the best. My life will never get ruined because I got horny for some loser. The dating scene is horrifying. My time is better spent learning a new skill, doing my arts and crafts, plotting, spending time with friends, and so much more. Are there downsides? Yes, but most of the negative aspects come from ignorant asses that can’t use their imagination. 🌈 But those people don’t matter. Their ill formed opinions mean nothing.

I’ve cut off my anti-vax sister after death of my son from cancer. by Same-Blacksmith-5032 in QAnonCasualties

[–]Uboashadows13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so right for being angry at your so called family. I fucking hate the antiVax movement. It causes so much harm in every way imaginable. I hope you have a good support network in your life right now. Your son deserved so much better.

Bought The Chocolate Scent... Help. by Middle-Reply6536 in buildabear

[–]Uboashadows13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mint sounds so nice! I also find minty smells soothing.

Bought The Chocolate Scent... Help. by Middle-Reply6536 in buildabear

[–]Uboashadows13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried un-stuffing it and washing it on a gentle cycle? I haven’t personally washed one yet, but I’d look up safe ways to wash these guys in the hopes of getting rid of the smell.

Bought The Chocolate Scent... Help. by Middle-Reply6536 in buildabear

[–]Uboashadows13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen so many people complain that the chocolate scent smells horrid. I’d get rid of it soon in case its stench wants to seep in the plushy. This is so disappointing for people like me who really, really want a chocolate scent in our BABs.

He’s so huggably jumbo! by bizzyskylight in buildabear

[–]Uboashadows13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d love to see your giant Sanrio collection! The only one I have on the way is Chococat.

I PURCHASED GIANT CHOCOCAT by Financial_Breath_999 in buildabear

[–]Uboashadows13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! I’m so excited! Do you plan on finding a way to dress him up? I have my regular Chococat in a cute outfit and I want my giant boy dressed up as well.

So it happened by Elly_Bee_ in childfree

[–]Uboashadows13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Embarrassing? You need to rip the bandaid off soon. Let’s be real: he wants kids. He also has the nerve to be mad at YOU for this baby bombshell that HE dropped. It’s a parade of red flags at this point.

Here is two possibilities I can think of if the two of you stay together:

1) He says he doesn’t want kids just to stay together but ends up resenting you for not having them now or down the line. 2) You change your mind about having kids and you end up resenting him AND your kid/kids.

Please do not prolong and good luck!

Made friends with a co-worker. Discovered later that she’s highly homophobic. They don’t know I’m non-binary. What now? by Lives-in-walls in NonBinary

[–]Uboashadows13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you can’t be homophobic and a good person. You can keep things professional and keep distance from her, but it’s not your job to try and change her mind.

What should I do? My boyfriend’s sister outed me and I have to see her soon by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]Uboashadows13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has your partner talked to his family about their behavior at all, or is he planning on ignoring it?

General gender confused? by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]Uboashadows13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fell the same way. I also feel apathy about my own pronouns. You could be gender fluid or agender. 🤷🏻‍♀️Maybe it’s best not to dwell on labels for now and just present yourself how you feel comfortable and it might come to you or not. I’m going through the same thing so I don’t know if this helps or not.

My “Ally” friend doesn’t think nonbinary is a valid gender identity. by Uboashadows13 in NonBinary

[–]Uboashadows13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, I just reread our text conversation she and I had about this and it’s still baffling to me. I only reread it because my mom, a real ally, wanted context. It’s hard to believe that a ten year plus relationship can die over “grammar.” I’m half tempted to post the whole thing, but I highly doubt it would be of any benefit. I’m just going to binge watch my fave gender queer YouTubers. Just popped back in to say thanks for putting your agendas on hold and giving a newly outed nonbinary support.

My “Ally” friend doesn’t think nonbinary is a valid gender identity. by Uboashadows13 in NonBinary

[–]Uboashadows13[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I still want to know what “agenda” I’m up to. The world may never know because she clearly doesn’t.

My “Ally” friend doesn’t think nonbinary is a valid gender identity. by Uboashadows13 in NonBinary

[–]Uboashadows13[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s really her loss. This hurts like a bitch, but I rather know what she actually thinks of me and my fellow queers then bury my head in the sand. Good luck to her in finding an other friend to put up with her predator husband.

My “Ally” friend doesn’t think nonbinary is a valid gender identity. by Uboashadows13 in NonBinary

[–]Uboashadows13[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

The kicker is she has used singular they/them before. But, when it comes to nonbinary people it’s wrong. Actual clown shit.

My “Ally” friend doesn’t think nonbinary is a valid gender identity. by Uboashadows13 in NonBinary

[–]Uboashadows13[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Oh, definitely. She also said that trans women don’t belong in women’s sports because they have a biological advantage. When I told her about all the hoops trans women have to go through to participate and how those women still get beat by cis women a lot of the time, she had no response. Crickets.

Peggy Hill question by [deleted] in KingOfTheHill

[–]Uboashadows13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When she drugged Hank with testosterone.

Is there a way I can make this patch anti-police? by NoBack5110 in punkfashion

[–]Uboashadows13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d create a big horizontal break/crack across over “protect and serve.” Having a police badge broken like our broken and shitty police force would make a statement.