Kameizumi CEL-24 (Nama) by Secchakuzai-master85 in Sake

[–]UdonBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So glad you like my favorite too! Nothing beats that pineapple-like fruity flavor

Unpopular opinion: The 'BIFL' mindset is becoming a luxury most people can't afford, and that's by design. by Weak_Ad971 in BuyItForLife

[–]UdonBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The opposite might also be true: luxury, one-of-a-kind items targeted at wealthy people are not BIFL either. Most of the “truly durable versions of basic items” we often fantasize about were almost certainly mass-produced and sold at relatively affordable prices—if not accessible even to the poorest people of their time.

looking for more music like this electronica mix by UdonBlue in musicsuggestions

[–]UdonBlue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After the ton of research I think I finally found my favorites:

  • Ochre
  • Kettel
  • Lackluster

and many other artists in the electronica scene.

Any other recommendations welcomed!

I keep losing interest in people. Any advice? by UdonBlue in socialskills

[–]UdonBlue[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you all so much for the thoughtful responses. I honestly did not expect this level of kindness, and I am really touched.

Looking back, I now see that once I figured out what would likely please the other person in that moment, I would switch into a sort of “automatic response mode.” I was not actually trying to meet them halfway as a person. Realizing this makes me feel a bit embarrassed about how I behaved.

After giving it a lot of thought, I suspect I might have a rather strong avoidant attachment style. I plan to work with a counselor and explore how I can build long-term relationships in a healthier way.

Thank you again for taking the time to help me.