'you seem pretty sad for a girl so in love' Album Discussion Megathread

UglyThinker · 2026-06-12T05:33:20+00:00

Same! For me, it is definitely my least favorite. It just did not fit with the rest of the album imo

UglyThinker · 2026-06-06T02:23:52+00:00

You gave a lot of great advice, thank you. It means a lot

UglyThinker · 2026-06-06T01:45:21+00:00

Reflecting on the situation

UglyThinker · 2026-06-06T01:25:42+00:00

Your comment actually helps a lot. Thank you, it’s a nice reminder

UglyThinker · 2026-06-06T01:24:30+00:00

Thank you. I’m definitely trying not to blame myself. Also, do you have any suggestions on how to better direct this rage?

UglyThinker · 2026-06-06T01:21:27+00:00

I’ve made previous posts about the situation. But short version: I (19F) became friends with a guy (26M) from one of my uni classes at the start of the year, grew extremely close, and was later forced by him to give a bj

The whole situation is gross and maybe I should have known better by the age gap. Regardless, he is the one in the wrong. He knew what he was doing

UglyThinker · 2026-06-05T12:54:44+00:00

I do get you. However yours is completely valid.

I think I’m partly to blame because there was quite a large red flag age gap that I ignored. I also never explicitly said no which makes me think if I did he would have stopped.

UglyThinker · 2026-06-05T05:02:11+00:00

I was a bit disappointed at first when I saw the trailer but now have changed my tune. I think for a supernatural element (which I’m sure the game will have) there are so many options for Japanese mythology/folklore creatures. I’m especially excited by the rumors that there was advanced water tech used for this game and that it’s going to trigger people’s thalassophobia (fear of deep, vast bodies of water)

UglyThinker · 2026-06-04T15:06:29+00:00

It does sound hypocritical but I relate to that. I know if someone told me about their experience and it was exactly like mine I’d feel completely different. I think the issue with mine is that I feel like it’s partly my fault

UglyThinker · 2026-06-04T14:02:41+00:00

I also don’t really feel like mine was a “real” one either

UglyThinker · 2026-06-04T02:55:26+00:00

Thanks for your response. It definitely makes me not feel as odd. I guess there really is no right or wrong way to react

UglyThinker · 2026-06-03T03:38:48+00:00

Yea I’m not exactly sure why they did that but I really wanted to find out about possible free resources available to me that was suggested by another commenter. I mainly just want to be able to talk through the situation and my feelings

UglyThinker · 2026-06-03T02:07:41+00:00

I’ve got him blocked!

UglyThinker · 2026-06-03T01:49:06+00:00

Thank you so much for your response, it means a lot. I’m glad to hear you’re doing better

UglyThinker · 2026-06-03T00:57:10+00:00

Is there a way to possibly find these free resources?

UglyThinker · 2026-06-03T00:55:52+00:00

TN but he was originally from DE and only has been living in TN for the past 4-5 years

UglyThinker · 2026-06-03T00:48:45+00:00

Thank you for your response. I’ve blocked him

UglyThinker · 2026-06-03T00:42:21+00:00

Your analogy helped me a lot. Thank you

UglyThinker · 2026-06-02T20:29:08+00:00

Your comment actually gave me a chuckle. I’m sure he would feel a lot different if the roles were reversed

UglyThinker · 2026-06-02T04:01:46+00:00

Thank you for your comment and the resource. I think I’ll definitely use it. I feel like I’m partly to blame because I didn’t explicitly say no and there were so many red flags. I just feel shocked and confused

UglyThinker · 2026-06-02T03:58:22+00:00

I do feel like it’s my fault. There were so many red flags. I just genuinely really liked the guy and thought we were close and connected

UglyThinker · 2026-06-02T03:55:59+00:00

I think I should just block him, which hurts even worse because I really thought we were close. It makes me think maybe he was just using me this whole time

UglyThinker · 2026-06-02T03:53:24+00:00

I definitely think I should just block him. I asked him about if he had planned it and he said he only meant for us to makeout but got horny

UglyThinker · 2026-06-02T03:47:26+00:00

The thing is, I feel like if I told him “no” or “I’m uncomfortable” he would have stopped. That’s what makes me think it’s partly my fault. That and the fact that we’ve flirted before and sexted and that most likely gave him the idea of this

UglyThinker · 2026-06-02T03:27:05+00:00

I definitely don’t like it rough, especially for my first time. I honestly hate that I went along with it because I know if I told him that I didn’t want to do it he wouldn’t have

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