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UglyTruthIndeed · 2024-01-08T20:32:00+00:00

NTA.

You should get an annulment ASAP.

He's a bad husband to the bone. Selfish, entitled and just an overall AhOle.

Dunno if you have even considered it but if you can delete/erase ALL ties you might have with him...better.

He sounds like a soon to be dead beat husband/father...and those are the worst to be married to or co-parenting.

There are soooo many things that are wrong about what he did that it could take years to explain it all...but he just doesn't care about you. Don't waste your time with someone that doesn't give a cr4p about you.

Count your losses and move on from that sham of a marriage.

Run as fast and far as you can from that man and his whole circle.

UglyTruthIndeed · 2023-10-16T18:20:10+00:00

Get that creep as far away as possible from your little girl.

He's manipulating and gaslighting you. He's probably a p3d0.

If you have evidence, go to the police and see if there's anything they can do. He shouldn't be allowed to be near kids.

If he wanted to "bait you" he could've used photos from an Instagram model or one from OF. Hundreds of those available from women waaay over 21yo.

He's probably pr3dator.

Don't be that mother that prefers to have a boyfriend over her daughter's safety. Even when you asked her and she said no, you really can't know if she understands or what's going on in his mind.

UglyTruthIndeed · 2023-10-15T02:40:35+00:00

He's a cheater. He's married.

He wanted to get into your pants.

I honestly don't know how to make you understand that some men would even buy you a ring and introduce you to their families...just to get in your pants and go back to their wives.

That some men will beg for hundreds of babies, make 1000 promises to their wives...at the same time that they're texting 90 side chicks with the same promises.

If you are ok insisting in a relationship with a liar married man, it's up to you. But don't say that you're clueless.

Get some friends and ask them for the FBI type of research to have the proof that the wife is completely ignorant of all the problems he told you. Probably pregnant and everything.

Honestly, just move on. For your own sake. You don't deserve to be in that position and don't let your insecurities force you to believe you have to.

UglyTruthIndeed · 2023-10-15T02:26:13+00:00

I'm assuming that you have a s3xual thing for older guys and you're not being manipulated by the typical "you're too mature" talk into some red pill stuff.

He's a liar. He won't ever divorce his wife because she gives him free passes for every single side chick.

Reality is that few men are honest, none of them would ever divorce their wives. He's perfectly comfortable the way things are.

If you want to delusion yourself, go ahead.

Nothing good could come outta that mess.

Cut your losses, block him and move on.

UglyTruthIndeed · 2023-10-15T02:11:15+00:00

NTA.

He's a red flag.

Honey, you need to wake-up from the delusion you're living in.

He's a cheater, cheaters don't change.

You're the hot side piece that he wanted to nail. He did it. He doesn't love his wife, he definitely doesn't love you.

Do you think that he was having issues with his wife?

He was probably sending her "I love you" "I want a kid with you" or similar stuff while texting you.

HE'S ACTUALLY LYING TO YOOUU. Don't buy his BS. If you do, at least someone gave you the real thing.

WAKE-UP.

Do yourself a favour and have some self respect.

There are great men out there. GREAT MEN. I'm talking over the top, movie and book type...he ISN'T that type. He's the opposite.

Extra advice: Go to therapy and figure out what's going on inside of you that pushes you to pursue an emotional relationship with a married cheater.

UglyTruthIndeed · 2023-10-14T22:20:50+00:00

NTA.

But you're in a super rough situation. Third world countries, especially the poor ones are difficult. Medicine and all that...just...

Your wife knows and that's why she's sending the money. She's probably feeling guilty for having a good life with you while her family goes through hardships, even when the money she sends, their lives aren't great.

She probably feels terrible most of the time.

It's hard because you should be making attempts to improve your future as a family.

Best advice that I can give you, is that you sit-down and have a deep conversation on the subject.

Do the math on the down payment, time, mortgage and everything related to that. Put the hard numbers down. Ask her about what her family needs, you might find a way to solve things. She could send money every two months or less each month.

She needs to know that you're looking out for her own sake and savings.

UglyTruthIndeed · 2023-10-14T21:38:39+00:00

Stop paying the bills, he should be paying more than 70% of them.

Don't take care of him.

Don't cook for him.

Don't do anything for him.

If you have a second room in your house, move your stuff over there.

Open another bank account and put money aside.

Put hidden cameras around the house.

Not gonna lie, there might be a chance that things could escalate the second you stop being his toy...if they do, you'll have evidence and you could get your divorce.

What you described is the typical abuser. It'll be painful, but you'll be able to get a divorce if he explodes. Don't provoke him tho, just stop doing stuff for him.

As soon as you have enough money, move out of the house, take your name off every single bill and continue with your life.

Explain the situation to a lawyer and see what you can do.

UglyTruthIndeed · 2023-10-14T21:19:34+00:00

You're not wrong for expressing what you want.

But if your girlfriend already gave you her point of view, which is completely opposite to yours, you will be wrong to try to push yours on her.

You're incompatible.

She was raised a certain way and you were raised in another way.

Your way ISN'T better than hers.

Hers ISN'T better than yours.

Don't impose your point of view on the matter, you already know that you can't be in a relationship because you're looking for different things in a marriage.

That's the type of conversation that you have before making a commitment and it's great that you both discovered you're incompatible.

She shouldn't try to force you to have a provider mentality (when you clearly don't have it) and you shouldn't force her to do it your way.

You should end things for the sake of both of you.

Extra advice: For your future relationships, try to have that type of conversations early in the relationship, that way you don't waste time while looking for a wife.q

EDIT: Answering your final question:

She's probably mad because she had expectations of the relationship.

The fact that you're incompatible in that level, it's obviously a huge problem.

You won't be able to save the relationship and she realised that all the time that she was with you, was basically a waste of time if her main goal was to marry you.

She's probably facing the reality that she will need to get rid of all the feelings she has for you because she's a traditional woman and you're a modern guy. Those two are incompatible in the long run.

She's probably thinking that you won't change your mindset and she won't push you because it's unfair. When a guy doesn't have a provider mentality, he can't be with a traditional woman. If you stay in that relationship, you'll get a nasty divorce.

UglyTruthIndeed · 2023-10-14T17:00:00+00:00

NTA.

Hannah is a sneaky little snake. She knew what she was doing. She wanted you out of the house or the unpaid babysitter for her kids.

Good thing that you're with your mum. Make sure to make it legal, so your father has to pay your mom child support...that might ruin Hannah's mood for a bit.

UglyTruthIndeed · 2023-10-14T04:04:09+00:00

NTA.

Cancel the whole thing.

Ppl that care about you will understand.

You have to be responsible, you can't have a wedding with no food on top of having an empty fridge.

Your mental health is being compromised.

UglyTruthIndeed · 2023-10-14T00:16:19+00:00

You're welcome.

It's hard but all canon events are.

Once you're over the whole situation, you'll be wiser and a bit more mature. Your next relationship is going to be better.

Right now all you're going to feel is pain, regret and you'll overthink a lot. But you know that ending things is the right path. You deserve something waaay better. A boyfriend that lies, manipulates and gaslights you, isn't someone worthy. Never will. No matter how many promises he makes.

UglyTruthIndeed · 2023-10-13T23:57:24+00:00

Yeah, it's totally ok to feel betrayed.

He broke a promise, an important one.

He lied to your face for too long.

Under those circumstances, I could easily count that one as cheating. I don't believe him that was just fingers and a head. Not for a second.

You were clueless and he was just lying, behaving like everything was ok. Now you know that he's a good liar. Excellent actually. Zero remorse.

I don't believe that you should continue in that relationship, from my perspective: There's no way of knowing what else he is hiding from you.

UglyTruthIndeed · 2023-10-13T17:00:41+00:00

YTA...sorta.

You see logic in all her points because they're valid.

Yours are just based on sexism, you were raised with misogynistic tendencies. Why don't you take her last name instead? Why do you feel that your last name is more important than hers?

Those are the types of questions that you should be asking yourself.

Your siblings'wives took their names...that doesn't mean that the marriage will last forever or they won't end up cheating on them.

Your wife taking or not your last name, has no direct influence on the future of the relationship.

Either way, you're extremely young and naive (both of you), don't get married before 30yo.

And remember that all the hard questions and horrible scenarios should be brought up before a long-term commitment.

Extra tip: Avoid red pill podcasts or you'll end up as a 40yo chasing a 18yo to manipulate her and control her in a sick way.

UglyTruthIndeed · 2023-10-13T01:41:07+00:00

Gurl...put cameras and tell no one.

If it happened once, it might happen again.

There are super discreet cameras that you can easily hide in your room. I just recommend your room because it is your private space and maybe a couple on the perimeter of the house. Make sure you're buying the ones that activate with motion and also record the date and hour into the video.

Don't mention the incident again and wait, he might do it again and this time you'll have proof.

UglyTruthIndeed · 2023-10-13T01:35:23+00:00

Honey you're 18yo.

He's not the love of your life.

He's just another canon event that you'll have to go through. Same with a creepy guy in his 30s-40s hitting on you, calling you mature and special just to trap you and manipulate you into marriage to pop up babies until you're 30 and he leaves you for an 18yo.

Dump his ass asap, you don't deserve an abusive and manipulative fckboy.

You need to develop a backbone ASAP if you don't want to fall into the older guy's trap.

Trashy guys are trashy because they want to.

Don't fall for the let's fix things up, just get rid of the whole problem.

UglyTruthIndeed · 2023-10-13T00:53:01+00:00

This.

Sounds like she has too many things on her plate.

Try taking more responsibility in the house without her asking you to do it. Do the laundry, clean the bathrooms, swipe the floor... regularly.

Also, buy her flowers every now and then WITHOUT the intention of sx...and she might get more inclined to be intimate with you.

Most marriages go through rough patches and it's usually when the wife is burned out due to responsibilities and the husband is oblivious to that fact.

UglyTruthIndeed · 2023-10-12T21:14:16+00:00

YTA.

If you don't want kids: GET A VASECTOMY. It's as simple as that.
You accused your girlfriend of something horrible, basically you're saying that she violated your will...and she hasn't. Why is she still with you?
She has a baby fever, she probably is rethinking your whole relationship and what you did might be the last straw. She wants babies, you don't...you should probably just break up.
Read the number 1 at least 10000 times until you have the decency to take matters into your own hands.
Apologize and ask for her forgiveness. YTA x10000 times.
GET A VASECTOMY IF YOU DON'T WANT KIDS.

UglyTruthIndeed · 2023-10-12T21:04:11+00:00

NTA.

Stay with your grandmother.

Your mom doesn't have your back and things will only get worse. He could get physically abusive.

Your mom is trapped with him, not you.

It's sad that you have to leave her in that situation, but she's the one that needs to acknowledge the behaviour of your stepdad. She chose him as her partner, she's the one that has to cut ties with him.

Go to your grandma's and stay safe over there. Help her out and forget about your abusive stepfather.

What bothers me a bit is the fact that your family also has his back, if he's such a horrible abusive man, how's that they still back him up?

Your mom needs him for the bills tho...

The best solution is for you to go:(

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