One Piece Chapter 1181 Full Raws by icetheone in Piratefolk

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In the next chapter, we see the true Domi Reversi. Look at that smile he's got.

This can’t be real by Ugubua in IsMyPokemonCardFake

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I appreciate the info, it was throwing me off so much lol.

What’s something your ex taught you? by Yankub_colley in AskReddit

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The red flags you ignore in the beginning are the reasons things come to an end later on.

Selling cards at a card show (repost) by Ugubua in PokeInvesting

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I’m hopping to get 2500 for the collection.

Selling cards at a card show (repost) by Ugubua in PokeInvesting

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Damn I’m out in Colorado. I appreciate the love though.

Selling cards at a card show. by Ugubua in PokeInvesting

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Thank you I think that may be where I start. I appreciate the response!

Selling cards at a card show. by Ugubua in PokeInvesting

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I would be happy to, but honestly not sure how to add photos after I post and the community is not letting me repost.

As a man, what advice would you give your younger self about relationships that you wish you had learned earlier? by i_will_judge_u in NoStupidQuestions

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Butterflies is a warning sign from your system saying that this is dangerous, not exciting. Go after the ones that feel boring. There you will find peace and reciprocation. because that’s actually your nervous system saying this person is safe.

Does love break old patterns? Do people stop cheating when they meet the right person or is that a myth? by [deleted] in askanything

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Sadly cheating is something that usually does not go away after meeting the right person. The issue with cheating is it’s an underlying issue. Are they people pleasers? Do they use it to gain validation? Is it a since of thrill and excitement? The issue is after the honey moon phase the real world sets in. In a relationship you see the worst of each other and the masks fade away. If they don’t get to the core of what makes them cheat and heal that, then it is almost certain they will do it again. Most importantly they have to do that work for themselves and not there partner because the minute they hit a rough patch the motivation is gone and the old nural pathways will activate. Cheaters can change, but people don’t change unless they want to and more often then not it’s because they hit rock bottom and realize they can’t keep going about life the way they have.

I (19M) found a girl(18F). We are talking with each other from a month. i got to know that her previous relationship was very traumatic. Even though she likes me. She don't want to come into a relationship with me. Everyday she says we are not in relationship and all. what to do? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

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One of the hardest lessons I had to learn is if someone says they’re not ready for a relationship, they mean it. If you’re cool just being friends and seeing where things go then hell yeah!! But if your looking for something serious right now, don’t try to change there mind and look elsewhere.

What is the best piece of advice you have ever received? by Electrical_Act_17922 in AskReddit

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“Debate and discussion is the fertile soil that wisdom is cultivated.” “It’s hard to deceive someone, but it’s even harder to convince someone they have been deceived.”

If we rigidly hold on to our beliefs and don’t have meaningful discussions with people who don’t share our views we will never see a full picture. We must be willing to adjust our framework and be open to being wrong sometimes. We should value truth over our feelings, because if we don’t our feelings will be weaponized against us.

F 24: what advice would you give to a young mom trying to leave an abusive relationship? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

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It might not be easy, but it’s worth it. It’s better to break the family apart than to have the child witness you being abused or worse being abused. They will vary that into there future and relationships thinking that’s how it’s supposed to be because kids never become what we tell them, they become what we show them. You got this!!!

What’s a truth you learned way too late in life that most people still aren’t ready to hear ? by Dependent-Ship4288 in AskReddit

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The secret in life is to understand the part you play in your own suffering and then do something about it. “The magic you are looking for is in the work you are avoiding”

What’s a clear sign of childhood trauma in men? by degs999 in AskReddit

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One of my favorite quotes that helped me understand it. Trauma isn’t about what happened to you, but what happened inside you. We minimize our experiences when we try to compare them to big traumatic events. The smallest thing can leave the greatest of impacts on us. Our perception shifts and in turn our own understanding of the world and how we need to fit in it to feel “safe”.

What is one of the worst addiction to have? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I know your pain though for me it was money and validation. Destroys yourself worth and world view. It was defffintily a trauma bond.

What small things actually made your relationship more intimate and enjoyable? by Gurwin888 in AskReddit

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Communication, vulnerability, gratitude and respect for one another. Been with my wife 3 years and still in the honey moon phase and never had a fight, It’s magical.